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Yang Mi was scolded again. The incident of
being scolded has to start last weekend.
There was a comic waist challenge on Weibo last weekend. It was like this.
Afterwards, Yang Mi showed a set of pictures on Weibo, and the photos showed her rugged figure, which perfectly restored the character shape in the comics.
The addition of Yang Mi made the topic heated to 460 million, and the whole nation began to challenge the comic waist: The newly debuted female idol Zhang Yifan sniffed the hot search, and immediately followed the trend and took photos. The ribs turned out and the skin was scary.
A large number of girls imitated. It is also obvious that only very thin "paper men" can complete this challenge.
Dragon Mom also saw pregnant women and children participating in the challenge, and couldn't help but sweat for them. A few hours after the spread of
, the plot immediately reversed.
The official media said that orthopedic surgeon pointed out that this kind of slow stretching posture of lumbar spine is more likely to cause continuous muscle pulling and cause strain. In the long term, it will also increase the risk of lumbar degeneration. Still don't do it.
For a time, Yang Mi created body anxiety, misdirection, and sexual suggestion (some netizens believed that the pictures had soft and pornographic hints), and the "three major crimes" were scolded on hot searches.
Although she immediately apologized, she still couldn't calm down the incorrect imitation. There are still many people who participate in the challenge, knowing that they can't do it.
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Two days ago, Liu Tao and were also scolded.
Her new play "Da Song Gong Ci" was recently on the air. A bathing scene in the play was sprayed too strong by netizens, causing discussion.
On the evening of the 22nd, she responded domineeringly on Weibo, "I am in charge of my figure, and I also hope that all girls will achieve freedom of figure on the basis of health!" Actually it's normal. Female celebrities are also people, so you have to be forgiving. Some time ago, Lang Lang's wife, Gina, appeared after giving birth and was also scolded by netizens. In the exposed photos, Gina is wearing a dress with a more visible figure. From the photos, it can be seen that the fat on the waist and abdomen is very obvious.
In the comment area, many netizens have a sour and mean tone:
What about the legendary 53-centimeter "ant waist"? Doesn't
mean that the waist circumference has not changed in 6 months of pregnancy?
Is this a female star? Why don't you wait until the meat on your waist is reduced and then come back?
In fact, this is not the first time that Gina has been ridiculed because of her postpartum body shape loss. As early as the end of February, a photo of her life shared by Gina was featured in hot searches.
In the photo, Gina is playing the piano in loose pajamas, but the flesh on her waist can also be seen loose. Netizens commented below: You dare to publish photos with such a big chunk of meat? To be honest, seeing these comments makes me feel a little embarrassed and sad. You know that when Gina sent this photo, was still in the confinement, why should we be so harsh on the mother in the confinement?
is too thin to be scolded, looks a bit strong and scolded, and the baby has meat on his stomach just after giving birth to be scolded.
When will a woman achieve her body freedom?
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In recent years, there are often some challenges to show your figure. In addition to the comic waist, there is also an A4 waist; Ihone legs; backhand touches the belly button; They are really in good shape, nothing else! They are afraid of someone who mistakenly regards this as the standard of beauty. In the process of pursuing thinness, they gradually lose themselves and gradually become dazed. Long Ma saw a piece of news before:
nutritionist said that there is a 14-year-old patient Xiao He (a pseudonym) that impressed her very much.
, who is still growing up, has collected various weight-loss recipes and fitness tutorials on the Internet to lose weight, and strictly enforced them:
only eat two meals, do not eat staple food for breakfast, and strictly control the rice at night. The
diet was "very effective", and Xiao He's weight immediately dropped from 100 kg to 80 kg. After tasting the "sweetness" of losing weight, Xiao He paid more attention to his weight. Under strict daily diet management, he exercised 1.5 hours a day and bought a laxative to induce venting.
After the weight dropped to 70 pounds, Xiaohe realized that he was thin enough, but he did not dare to eat. Because of anorexia, uncontrollable weight loss. When I fell to 60 pounds, my hair began to fall, my body condition was very bad, and I resisted going to the hospital.
It was not until Xiao He found out that he hadn't come on an official holiday for several months before realizing the seriousness of the matter and begging his mother to see a doctor.
In order to lose weight, many people go hungry every day, struggle with their appetites, and wander between eating and not eating, and overeating. In some cases, vomiting, gastric lavage, and extreme methods were used to achieve the effect of dreaming of being thin, but in the end it was a scarred body.
These women who are dissatisfied with their body and take extreme measures, in the final analysis, show that they do not care for their bodies and lack self-confidence.
The first stage of achieving body freedom is to accept the diversity of beauty and the true self.
is like the 40-year-old Jolin Tsai sings in the song: "The beauty that can't see me is that you are blind. Who has the courage to say that in the aesthetic world is so absolute." The actor I was impressed with was Yoko Raime. I didn't expect her to be funny and her acting skills were so good. The show showed superb acting skills, and even the great director Er Dongsheng praised it as "a post-movie performance."
funny videoFrom her background, she doesn't look amazing, and she is a standard "slightly fat girl". But you have never seen her low self-esteem because of this, but you see an ineffective light from her. She can confidently pose in Marilyn Monroe's classic skirt-covering pose, sweet and sultry, and a confident girl is brilliant!
Small thick legs can also be sexy and cute. Once you wear fishnet stockings and hold black film in your hand, you will have that fan!
She enjoys showing her flesh. Wearing a red swimsuit and a small straw hat, lying on the beach covered with blue cloth, leisurely and at ease;
dance to catch everyone's attention and make the audience cheer for her. She has such charm.
It is a lie to say that he has never been distressed because of his external problems. This girl with a strong heart has long understood the truth that "strength is more important than appearance".
Why is she so confident? In an interview, Yoko Raim said:
"Many people ask me the source of self-confidence, self-confidence is more important to the true self-cognition, not blind obedience, it is a kind of strength to strengthen oneself, a very inner strength. "
The second stage of body freedom is self-confidence, not blindly following others, and liking every state of oneself.
In "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves 1", the Queen's sister- quiet , 48-year-old and her 30-something sisters stand together, the temperament state is not bad at all, and wherever she stands, she is full of aura.
As early as a few years ago, Tranquility appeared in front of the public as a fat sister. How fat are you? Above picture ↓↓↓
At that time, the netizens were all cueing her to lose weight. She was so angry that she directly responded: "Who dares to say I am fat? My name is full" , z2, , z2, , z6
Weight loss has always been a matter of my own will, and has nothing to do with others. As long as she doesn't want to lose weight, we can't see her getting thinner; as long as she wants to lose weight, it is not difficult to lose 20 pounds.
Weight loss has always been a matter of my own will, and has nothing to do with others. As long as she doesn't want to lose weight, it is impossible to see her skinny in a few years. As long as she wants to lose weight, it is not difficult to lose 20 pounds.
Later, because she wanted to wear a beautiful evening dress, she began to lose weight, and fell in love with fitness, enjoying the fun of fitness, she began to frequent the gym.
After successfully losing weight, the tranquility returned to the peak of her appearance, she enjoyed this state very much, and kept healthy since then.
The third stage of achieving body freedom is to pursue a better self under a healthy lifestyle.
Dragon Mom hopes that we want to lose weight to please ourselves, not because of what others have said or done.
We must always understand that loves oneself before someone will love you, love your current state, living out of yourself is more important than anything else.
Maybe, the current society is still full of malice towards fat girls.
Especially we who are getting older, we lack self-control, we whose metabolism is slower and slower, and we who have given birth are full of malice.
They say we are not beautiful, are we really not beautiful?
We want to be a person who can love ourselves no matter what shape we are, feel great, and don’t change our minds at will.
If you want to lose weight, then please use a scientific and healthy way to lose weight. Remember the two golden principles of weight loss: "Keep your mouth open and open your legs!"
z1 On the basis of early realization of body freedom!
*Part of the pictures in this article and resource source network.
