September 20th, Hu Ge's 37th birthday. On this day, many friends and loyal fans in
sent him birthday wishes, and at the last minute of September 20th, Hu Ge published a paragraph to his deceased mother.
"For a week, I always dream of you. Until today, I don’t understand: This is not a day of thinking. I don’t know how many mountains and rivers you have to cross over, if it’s far, It's very hard, so don't come! I know this day is very important to you, don't worry! I ate cakes, noodles, and received many blessings... Come back! I'm fine. Come back! Don’t forget what you told you in your dreams.” The picture of the article
is also meaningful: After his mother passed away, Hu Ge went to Qinghai and arrived at Smoky Mountain, which was the first grand canyon in the Yangtze River.
"I'm on the Tongtian River, looking at the opposite hillside, slowly moving my sight upwards, looking at the top of the mountain, watching the clouds drifting by, thinks she is there ."
birthday is the birth day of the child , Is also Mother’s Good Friday.
Hu Ge, when his birthday was approaching, dreamed of his deceased mother. To outsiders, he must have missed his mother so much that he "thinks about the day and dreams at night", but Hu Ge himself thinks not In this way, it is the mother who has something to tell herself, and the mother who went to heaven is still worried about her son. There are many things to remind... fans of
and friends in the circle such as Tashi Dunzhu, leave a message for Hu Ge: "Fans I hope everything is well for the boss, and Pepper will always be with you", "She looks at you from a distance, loves you, bless you, and bless you", Tashi Dunzhu left a "hug" symbol.
Anyone who knows a little about the fetters between Hu Ge and his parents, at this moment, who doesn't want to give Hu Ge a hug?
He tattooed his parents on his left shoulder and back when he was the most prosperous and prosperous. He said that this is the position closest to the heart. He told himself: always put mom and dad on your heart. .
Actually, this is the wedding photo of Hu Ge's parents.
Xiaodao asked a well-known tattoo artist who graduated from Guangzhou Academy of Fine Arts. He said: It’s needless to say that such a large area hurts, and it takes a lot of time to complete, requiring great endurance.
people often say: the pain of the skin, Hu Ge, this is the "love of the skin"!
don’t know if you noticed it?
Hu Ge used to often write about his mother, most of the time he used the tone of ridicule between his son and his mother-
, for example, in 2010, he ridiculed: "Mother", "based on her usual high standards for me. Strictly demanding, it is hard to imagine what the daughter-in-law she likes will look like."
He also sent a message to his mother to celebrate her birthday: "Today in 1949, a beautiful baby girl croaked to the ground. She grew up in a superior environment. She likes to go to her father to read Soviet pictorials. Buying fashionable clothes, she loves beauty, music, and fantasy. After the age of eighteen, she went to the countryside, returned to the city, got married, had children... Life seemed to suddenly touch a button at a certain moment, silently fast Enter, recycle, and repeat. Today is my mother’s birthday. May her be happy.”
But in March of this year, after his mother passed away, Hu Ge did not mention the word “mother” or “mother” in his article, which seemed to hurt every time he mentioned it.
On April 24 this year, that day was the seventieth birthday of his mother, Hu Ge wrote an article with only nine words: "To a lady from afar", people who care about him, only then knew: Hu Song, when he was 37, was a child without a mother.
"Mother", the most touching word in the world, Gibran said: "The sweetest word that human lips can utter is mother, and the most beautiful call is mother."
Hu Ge's mother, a brave woman who has been fighting cancer for nearly 30 years, for him : is his role model when facing death, the most stringent audience in his acting career, and the shaper of his tough personality.
△ Hu Ge's parents. z2When Hu Ge was young, his family was not well-off. He lived in a small alley in Shanghai. His father was a tennis coach and his mother was a teacher.
In 1990, when he was 8 years old, his mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. At that time, Hu Ge's father was laid off, and his elderly parents-in-law had to support him. Hu Ge's mother chose to continue working.
What is expected, this delay will miss the best treatment period. During the 37 years of Hu Ge's life, nearly 30 years have been witnesses of his mother's "anti-cancer battle". The family hugged tightly and declared war on the disease.
Therefore, Hu Ge paid great attention to cancer patients and their families.
In 2014 and 2017, he participated in forums organized by Fudan Cancer Hospital twice and spoke as a family member of the patient.
On the forum in 2017, he said: " my mother, she is a brave and strong woman, her positive and optimistic, and her fearlessness and calmness in the face of death , to me Today, even my life has a profound impact."
"Once, my mother, for our family, in order to be able to keep that hard-won decent job, she delayed her best treatment Time ;
Once, in her most dangerous moment, told me in an extremely calm tone that everyone needs the courage to face death ;
Once, when I passed by with death, She used the most intelligent language to inspire me to move forward ."
People often emphasize the importance of the original family. Hu Ge's mother's tenacity in the face of illness also deeply affected Hu Ge, which caused him to have a tragic car accident that year. In, rebirth from the ashes.
Hu Ge's good demeanor, high emotional intelligence, and never perfunctory treatment of any work is serious and dedicated, not only in the industry, but also in the media circle.
Three years ago, Hu Ge won the "Audience's Favorite Actor" and "Most Popular Actor Award" at the Golden Eagle Awards. He bowed to his senior Li Xuejian with a 90-degree bow and said " is ashamed of "-a reward. The likes of countless netizens are still fresh.
That night, Hu Ge’s acceptance speech was on the hot search, and Liu Ruoying, who didn’t know him, posted: "I don’t know him, but I saw this acceptance speech was so good."
"I" I think I won this award today, not because of how good my acting skills are. I was just luckier than others and knew what an actor should be like earlier. "
" This award does not mean how tall I am. The height of the artist represents that I have just started on the road. This is a road of innovation and a road of inheritance.” Hu Ge's humble acceptance speech on art made people see his “truth”.
This "truth" comes from his family education, a pair of loving fathers and strict mothers.
's father is his best friend, and his mother is his strictest audience. Back then, the popular "Legend of Sword and Fairy" came to his mother. There was only a four-character evaluation of "looks good". Hu Ge once said: can get His mother's affirmation made him happy even after winning the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Award.
Although the "tiger mother" has made Hu Ge not so self-confident so far, the "frustration education" advocated by his mother has also developed Hu Ge's character of "my day and my body".
It was not until "The Pretender" and "Langya Bang" that Hu Ge heard the complete compliment from his mother. She said: "I really cried and really moved." "I believe you are that person. You were not my son at that moment."
When Hu Ge talked about this, the smile on his face was indeed much happier than he looked at the awards ceremony.
In 2015, when Hu Ge won the "Most Beautiful Performance" trophy, he gave the prize to his mother when he received the prize, and he rarely spoke about his mother's acceptance speech.
He said: "Mom gave me a lot of guidance, there are two sentences I will never forget in my life."
" The first sentence was when I first entered the industry, she told me: Acting don't look at money Not much, it depends on whether the script is ."
" The second sentence was in 2006, when I fell into the bottom of my life, she told me: Before , the audience was more concerned about your appearance. Now, God opened a window on your face, hoping that the audience can see you more inside. "
Hu Ge told the story of "the first time I got 1,000 yuan in advertising", that is, my mother is entering the industry. When admonishing him.
also has the values passed on to him by his mother, Hu Ge values the script more than pay. After
"Langya List" became popular, he gave up the temptation of tens of millions of TV dramas and entered the stage quietly, playing Lai Shengchuan's stage play "Dream Like a Dream". After the death of
's mother, Hu Ge had an urgent sense of mission, and he wanted to do something.
"God has been very good to me. I was able to survive such a serious car accident. It may be that God still has some things for me to do, and there are some missions that need me to complete . That's why I I always think I want to do something, but I am still exploring."
has not had Hu Ge in a new drama for two years, and it will usher in a year of explosion of excellent works.
is coming soon, "The Climber", which will be released on September 30, followed by the movies "The Gathering at South Station" and "Li Na" will meet the audience.
Hu Ge does not like the character of standing still. In the future, he may win more awards, perhaps as well as the king and celebrity, but in the audience, he will always lose the "strictest audience".
With the parents, there is still a place in life; when the parents go, there is only the way back in life.
If your child wants to be raised but does not wait for a kiss, please look back and see your parents when you are struggling on the road of life.
Today's chief writer: a knife.
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