web drama "The Hidden Corner" is on the hot air. The day before yesterday, the actor Liu Lin confessed:
is not easy to take a baby by yourself. I love you so much. Let’s have a romantic relationship!
Liu Lin is an actor and a mother. She has a few figures and a short life.
netizens said:
let the child witness your desire, vulnerability and entanglement. This is not shameful. One day he will also face his own imperfections. I hope he can learn from you not to hide, avoid and accept. Really my courage.
Liu Lin replied: It's great!
01 The secrets of single mothers and friends
After watching the complete set of "The Hidden Corner", what impressed me most was a glass of milk and an orange.
All of this must start with Zhou Chunhong's marriage. From the very beginning of the TV series,
explained that Zhu Chaoyang lives in a single-parent family. As for why his parents divorced, there is no explanation. However, judging from the few meetings between Zhu Yongping and Zhou Chunhong, Zhou Chunhong is a very strong woman in life. As long as she speaks, her husband can hardly be allowed to interrupt.
And who is Zhu Yongping? When
was swimming in school, all the girls in the school chased after him;
later became interested in water and met the aggressive Wang Li;
married Wang Li’s sister Wang Yao when he remarried.
Zhu Yongping, a fishery boss, and Wang Yao, who are too poor and rich, have a daughter, Zhu Jingjing. The spoiling has fostered the child's vanity and made her look down on her father's son Zhu Chaoyang.
Zhu Chaoyang took the first place in the school and brought his transcript to find his father. At this time, Zhu Yongping was betting. The
brand friend laughed at the boss’s son for wearing a white-washed black short sleeve. Zhu Yongping couldn’t hold his face, so he decided to take Zhu Chaoyang to buy shoes.
's wife, Wang Yao, heard that she was right behind. Before Zhu Chaoyang's shoes were tried, Zhu Jingjing took her father away, leaving her brother alone in the wind.
Dad went to drive, Zhu Chaoyang waited to bid farewell to his father and left. His sister Zhu Jingjing ran wildly and stepped on the white shoes he had just bought. She also put on a sentence:
I didn't mean it.
stepmother Wang Yao scolded her daughter:
"They are not like you, they wear new shoes every day." The words
sounded like a show off. Zhu Chaoyang was so angry that he told his friends Yan Liang and Pu Pu about the incident after returning home.
Children's Palace Olympiad trial class, Zhu Chaoyang, Yan Liang and Pupu met Zhu Jingjing at the door.
Pope, who ran out of the orphanage, decided to teach Zhu Jingjing to repay Zhu Chaoyang for taking him in.
Taking advantage of the break between classes, Pupu lied that the teacher asked Zhu Jingjing to move to the 5th floor. Zhu Chaoyang saw them together through the window and hurried over after class.
Zhu Chaoyang's appearance made Zhu Jingjing, who was originally emotional, mistakenly believe that her brother and Pope were uniting to bully her, so her words were fierce, and she climbed up the window and fell from the building in a hurry. The death of
's daughter made Wang Yao mad. She suspected that Zhu Chaoyang and her mother killed her daughter out of "jealousy", so the corridors of Zhu Chaoyang's home were filled with posters with "Zhu Chaoyang Murderer". .
Wang Yao was still angry. She went to the scenic spot where Zhou Chunhong worked twice to make trouble. She locked herself in the broadcasting room of the scenic spot and shouted that Zhou Chunhong was a murderer.
Faced with the bitterness of another mother, Zhou Chunhong had to say that on the day Zhu Jingjing had an accident, she and Director Ma of the scenic spot opened a room in the hotel. The secret of
's mother's "about a gun" was revealed. Zhou Chunhong felt ashamed of her son. She heated a glass of milk in the evening and hoped that his son would drink it. The son was too hot. The mother forced his son to drink it. After drinking
, Zhu Chaoyang said to his mother:
Mom, in fact, you can tell me...
Zhou Chunhong pressed her son hard, wiped off the milk from the corner of his mouth with both hands, and roared: What does
tell you? What do you know about the Lord
?
Subordinates and leaders have fornication. Director Ma of the scenic spot wants to break up with Zhou Chunhong. They will meet at the hotel. ZhouWith tears, Chunhong ate a green orange that Director Ma handed her.
A glass of milk, an orange, the forbearance, restraint and helplessness of single mothers are vividly manifested.
02 Single mother Zhou Chunhong's AB face
Zhou Chunhong is a good mother? Of course
is.
She is far away from work and worried that her children will not be able to eat fresh meals. The author cooks wheat, steamed dumplings, wontons, fried fish...
After the parent meeting, the teacher said that Zhu Chaoyang is not gregarious, she dissed:
students should put their energy When it comes to learning, why don’t teachers pursue those who like to make small reports?
Zhou Chunhong protects her son inside and out, hoping that she will study well. In order to prove that he is a good boy, Zhu Chaoyang always takes the first place in the exam, which makes her mother very pleased.
But, is Zhou Chunhong happy?
is not happy.
Her marriage failed, she raised her son independently, and had to dredge the sewer by herself. In order to make a living, she worked hard in the scenic spot and had to take a boat every time she went back and forth. The hardship of life can be imagined.
She is eager to be loved, and perhaps in exchange for more rest opportunities to accompany her son, so she chooses to be with Director Ma of the scenic spot. Faced with Director Ma's request to form a new family, she repeatedly evaded that her son would not consider her own affairs before going to university.
The single mother Zhou Chunhong has a touching side, and at the same time it makes people feel inexplicably distressed. Zhou Chunhong can’t face his inner emotional appeal. As Liu Lin said:
You are kind to yourself, go and talk about it. Be in love.
03 Where is the way out for single mothers?
Married unhappy women are so similar. In " Xiaohuanxi ", the mother installed a glass in front of her daughter's desk to monitor the child's study at any time.
The English child in "Little Joy" can't stand the suffocation of his mother. He ran away from home before the college entrance examination and was diagnosed with severe depression. After chatting with his mother, the psychologist found out:
The child’s problem is actually the parents’ marriage. Problem.
In "The Hidden Corner", this suffocating maternal love turned into a glass of milk.
The child becomes the mother's everything, and the pressure is out of breath. In the
play, there is another intriguing detail. The mother turns off the fan every time before leaving the room. This reveals a distrust and a strong desire for control.
once saw in the news that "45-year-old lawyer Zhang, who was divorced from Qingdao in Shandong Province, was suspected of being strangled by his 15-year-old high school daughter", which made people sigh. The mother of
strictly disciplines her children out of professional habits. She did not expect that the single-parent family lacks paternal love, and the children eventually embark on a criminal path because they are dissatisfied with their mother.
"Marriage: Challenges" believes that:
secularly has many wrong views on women, thinking that "divorce is a woman's failure." They can and should have only one interest-husband and children. Therefore, divorce is the end of their lives. .
In addition, more and more women cannot suppress their feelings before and after menopause, which is worrying.
The double shackles of physiology and psychology make this group of single mothers become a special group of people that children have to face when they grow up:
they are cruel to themselves and even more cruel to their children.
However, not always.
The model of a single mother who bravely loves herself is the actor Liu Mintao. She once mentioned in her speech that she knows how to enjoy life after divorce:
was filming in Shanghai during this period, and the first thing to enter the hotel room was to put the hotel in I replaced the bedding with the sheets and quilt I brought myself, and put a flower cloth on the sofa, then put a small vase on the bedside table, put a flower in it, put a photo frame of my daughter and family on the table, and light it. With scented candles and soft music from the small speakers you carry, the hotel room immediately smells of home.
A woman loves herself so hard, it makes people feel luckyFu and warm.
Parents, no matter whether they love each other or separate, they must first have the ability to love themselves, and then love their children, otherwise love will become a yoke that will entangle you and your children.
Excellent parents will work hard to manage their own marriage. A happy marriage is the cornerstone of a stable family.
If both parents are not suitable for each other and eventually live separately, they should also face their love life bravely. This is not only responsible for oneself, but also a process of teaching children how to know and accept themselves.
The mother has belonging, and the child is at ease.
Finally, a message to single mothers:
dear, life is too short, and you are too beautiful!
-Thanks for reading-
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