From knowing and interacting to the present, how many disadvantages, fools, and so-called unwise things have happened, but we still choose to "believe in goodness."
recently heard from many readers and shared with me that before reading my book "I Want to Move Forever", I thought I was talking about intimacy, but later found out that the starting point is to share and manage an intimacy that makes me happy and happy. Relationship, and the first thing is to "love yourself".
Because of the impact of entering marriage for the first time 28 years ago, I have to question "what kind of person I am". To this day, I continue to reflect on it. It turns out that many times, I made the wrong choice at the beginning, and "turning over" has become a rough road of no return.
Rather than saying that modern marriage is not easy to maintain, does it mean that our original motivation for entering into a relationship has its own problems. What kind of intimacy do you want? What kind of partner? What kind of self do you want? Have you thought about it carefully?
has moved in recent years. My husband said, remember to put the scissors away. It was a set of kitchen knives imported from the United States that were imported from the United States for a century. Why is it so impressive, because I have lost one. One day two and a half years ago, three carpenters came to work at home and one of them borrowed scissors from me. I looked around for less than three days and called the foreman. He said that he hadn't seen it. The result of asking around was that no one saw it. In order to complete
, in order to fill the vacancy, I quickly bought another pair, which of course is really a good pair of scissors that I like. So, during this move, my husband specifically said: "Remember to put the scissors back in place every time you use them."
then added: "Really, that pair of scissors just disappeared like this."
I said: " That's right!" Turning to the carton that was packing, he continued, "I would rather believe that they accidentally put the scissors in and took them away."
This is why I love, admire and respect my husband so much. He is a model of learning in my life. People have different reactions to the same story. He chose "I would rather believe in the good of people." The focus of
is never on the whereabouts of the scissors, but on the husband’s "I would rather believe" . As early as when he chose to associate with him, he was deeply attracted by his kindness. From the acquaintance and communication to the present, so many things have happened, and we still choose to "believe in good."
Out of appreciation, I never think he should learn to be "smart", because I also like my temperament and style of "preferring to believe" and "stupid"; "loving myself" may mean choosing a partner who doesn't care about Right!
Every kind of identity in life is not your burden,
gives you more vitality.
love yourself, let go of your emotions, and only by opening your awareness,
can harvest more of the beauty of life.
