Huang Bo is not a handsome man, nor a handsome guy. The background of
is also complicated. He has formed a band, opened a factory, skipped dancing, walked through the hole, and couldn't fight with the nobles.
He was a wild monk who came out halfway. When he was admitted to the film school, someone complained that the film school’s admissions standards were too low.
went to the audition with classmates and was suspected of being a "agent".
, but is such a person, who has become a 5 billion actor, is a rare zero-negative actor in the entertainment industry.
He can have today's achievements, in addition to superb acting skills, it is important to have superhuman emotional intelligence.
On the live broadcast of the 49th Golden Horse Awards ceremony, Huang Bo acted as a guest host and partnered with Zeng Baoyi.
I don’t know what moths happened at the time. A 17-minute gap appeared unexpectedly at the scene. Zeng Baoyi, the host of the show, was panicked for a while and didn’t know what to do?
At an urgent juncture, Huang Bo, who has no experience in hosting, stood up. Starting from ridiculing his own appearance, he took turns taking turns from black and narcissistic. Not only was there no cold, the atmosphere on the scene became more and more active.
He wisely stayed for 17 minutes, and finally waited until the live broadcast returned to normal. Created a classic rescue scene in the entertainment industry that made everyone applaud.
Why is Huang Bo so familiar with the way of speaking and so sensitive on the spot?
I think has something to do with Huang Bo's life experience, character, cultivation, and talents.
1. Wisdom after the vicissitudes of life
Huang Bo was born as a singer. When he was 90 offspring, he formed a band called "Blue Wind Sand" and sang in bars and KTV.
was sometimes ousted from the stage. After going down, he smiled and stood on stage and said: "Next, I will sing a song for everyone, "Good luck for everyone who likes me"." Everyone at
was moved by his humor and persistence. He listened with a grin. Huang Bo rarely mentions this experience of
, but anyone who knows him knows that time is difficult.
Lu Yu asked: "Have you ever sung the songs you wrote? Is there anyone who sings it?"
Huang Bo: "Singing makes people angry."
refers to this history. Is
Huang Bo's singing skills poor?
wrong! In the last issue of the second season of "Extreme Challenge", the six brothers held a concert. Huang Bo was the finale. When he opened his voice, everyone was shocked.
In "The Voice of China", Huang Bo once went to the scene and sang a song. Three of the four tutors turned around and were full of praise.
In the 2014 Spring Festival Gala, he sang a solo "My Requirements Are Not High", which was beyond the reach of many professional singers.
Therefore, said that "singing makes people angry" is just a kind of self-defeating.
Second, the clouds are light and breezy, indisputable
Huang Bo does not win the limelight or grab attention.
Yan Ni said that when she was acting as a husband and wife with Huang Bo, she once said, "I will act as a husband and wife with you, and I knew I was going to be an ugly star."
Huang Bo didn't care and said "I will act with you." , I think I am going to the ranks of handsome guys."
Yan Ni was embarrassed and said, "You said so, then I will praise you more."
He has a famous "fourth place theory", saying that the best state in life is fourth.
He said, it’s okay to shine on the runway, turn the whole life into a runway, everyone is watching you, which becomes a very annoying thing.
Therefore, Huang Bo that we see is neither floating nor floating, neither arrogant nor impetuous, neither arrogant nor overbearing, nor fighting nor robbing, and walking his own way in a solid and stable manner.
3. Responding to the time and situation
A long time ago, Huang Bo was asked if he could replace Ge You during an interview. His answer can be said to be perfect:
" This era will not prevent you from shining, but you can't cover anything The brilliance of people.
Because they were pioneers, they were filmmakers who created the era at the time of Chinese movies.
We are just some juniors who continue to move forward, and we dare not make trouble with this."The words did not appear arrogant, nor did they demean themselves.
4. Give sincere care to others
In the "Extreme Challenge" program, Huang Bo once again won a die-hard fan with his humor, sense of variety and high emotional intelligence. The most impressive thing about
was that Wang Xun wanted to catch Huang Bo. Later Huang Bo jumped into the lake, swimming while teasing Wang Xun who was anxious by the lake.
Huang Bo is about to win.
But Wang Xun was eager to win, pretending to fall into the water, calling for help.
Huang Bo also suspected that this kid was playing a ghost, but he was still worried that Wang Xun was ignorant of water and swam back decisively. Regardless of the game's win or loss, he tried his best to rescue him and send him to the shore.
After being rescued, Wang Xun grinned and said like a child: "I caught you!"
Huang Bo was petting and said: "It's just a show. What do you think you are playing, you Stupid, silly, you!"
EQ is not a slogan, but an action, not a theory, but an inadvertent understanding and care.
Look, Huang Bo is such a heart-warming actor!
His emotional intelligence is high, not glib, sophisticated and sleek, not imaginary, or improvisation.
is the wisdom that has gone through the vicissitudes of life, the expression overflowing with enlightenment, the appropriate response to the time and the situation, the care for others without pretense and hypocrisy, and the counterattack against malicious attacks.
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