As the saying goes, "Behind every successful man is a woman who silently gives." Jack Ma has Zhang Ying, Ren Zhengfei has Meng Jun, and Yao Ling.
Ren Zhengfei was just a poor boy in the mountainous areas of Guizhou. He walked out of the mountains for the first time because he was admitted to the Chongqing Institute of Architecture and Engineering. He was a "hillie" in the eyes of his classmates. He wore a pair of torn shoes and his clothes were patched.
joined the army after graduating from university, and got to know Meng Jun after being introduced. Since then, he started his life reversal.
Meng Jun’s father is Meng Dongbo, the former deputy governor of Sichuan Province. He has a good family background and good relationships. Meng Jun not only has good grades, but also looks beautiful.
The reason why such an excellent Meng Jun finally agreed to marry Ren Zhengfei is that he feels that he is honest and that he is really good in all aspects of ability.
Ren Zhengfei is proficient in electronics, engineering technology and 3 foreign languages, and looks handsome, so the two tied the knot. Ren Zhengfei entered the Meng family as a parent, so the two later children were named Meng, that is, Meng Wanzhou and Meng. Ping (later changed to Ren Ping).
Later, Ren Zhengfei transferred from the army and asked his wife to help him become the manager of an electronics company under the Shenzhen Nanhai Petroleum Group. However, in a shopping mall like a battlefield, Ren Zhengfei was deceived by more than 2 million due to a mistake and was directly expelled.
And Meng Jun, facing her husband committed such a big mistake, also chose to divorce, this marriage ended like this, but Ren Zhengfei also grew up a lot during this period.
Later, he pieced together 20,000 yuan and founded Huawei. No one expected that this company would become the "tech giant" in the future.
In the early stage of Huawei, the company was at risk of bankruptcy at any time. Ren Zhengfei was under great pressure and became a workaholic.
has too many affairs to hire a secretary. At this time, the company's Yao Ling entered Ren Zhengfei's sight. She was young and beautiful, with a neat job, and a gentle and stable personality, so Ren Zhengfei let Yao Ling be his secretary.
One is a single boss who has been divorced for many years, and the other is a young and smart secretary. As the two of them get in touch with each other more and more, they fall in love with each other and finally come together.
After divorcing Meng Jun more than ten years ago, Ren Zhengfei married Yao Ling, who was more than 30 years younger than him, and became the stepmother of Meng Wanzhou and Ren Ping. Later they had a daughter named Yao Anna.
After having children, Yao Ling retired to the second line and began to feel at ease with her husband and son. However, it was later rumored that another woman appeared in Ren Zhengfei’s life. Yao Ling moved to Shanghai with her 9-year-old daughter in anger. Did not mention divorce.
I have to say that Yao Ling is not only an excellent job, but also a good mother who knows how to educate her children.
Yao Anna was educated to be self-discipline, hardworking and frugal since she was a child. She started to learn piano, calligraphy, music and traditional Chinese painting at the age of 5, and she studied ballet at the age of 9.
At that time, the family had conditions to hire a nanny, but in order to exercise Yao Anna's independence, her mother asked her who was only 5 years old to wear a small apron, step on a small bench, and wash the dishes for 1 yuan.
She wants to eat French fries. Yes, she can buy it with her own money. “A packet of French fries costs 4 yuan, and you can only change a packet after washing the bowl four times.” At a young age, Anna Yao has practiced converting the price for her desire. After she grew up, she never thought about relying on a strong father, but to fight for a world through her own efforts.
Anna Yao studies hard and has excellent grades. At the age of 17, she obtained a perfect score in the National University Entrance Exam and entered Harvard University as one of the six enrolled students in Mainland China to study computer science.
In addition to achieving outstanding results in her studies, Anna Yao also did a great job in other areas.
She served as the marketing director and financial director of the Harvard China Forum organization and went to Microsoft Ai artificial intelligence teamTeam intern, and concurrently served as the CFO of his father’s company in China.
She participated in the project of fitting prostheses for the disabled, and developed "the world's first intelligent prosthesis with brain-computer interface", which was named one of the best inventions of 2019 by Time magazine.
Yao Anna, who wanted to be a ballet since she was young, has been trained for more than ten years and is now a director of the board of directors of the Harvard Ballet Company and the highest-level winner of the Emperor's Ballet RAD.
In 2018, Anna Yao was also invited to participate in the World Ladies Ball held in Shangri-La, Paris, which has only 20 places in the world. This can be regarded as the highest standard adult gift for her.
This is Yao Anna's first public appearance. Ren Zhengfei, who has never exposed her family life in front of the media, has taken an unprecedented family portrait for the "Paris" for the youngest daughter's adult ceremony. Yao Anna like
is good enough, but Yao Anna said that she is not a schoolmaster and not good enough, so she needs to work harder and only sleep for four or five hours a day! There are women like
, Ren Zhengfei is very pleased, and the biggest hero behind this is of course Yao Ling.
has been married for so many years, Ren Zhengfei’s evaluation of Yao Ling is:
"She is a gentle and responsible mother. For her daughter’s growth, she stayed at home for 20 years, silently tutoring her children, and nurturing her excellent qualities and qualities. It’s a good habit to study hard. Of course, the child’s own hard work is important, and the mother’s hard work is also important."
Yao Ling is a typical image of a good wife and a good mother. Family affairs, let Ren Zhengfei have no worries, such a helper is really important.
But what I admire more is Ren Zhengfei’s superiority in dealing with interpersonal relationships. Many people parted ways with their ex after divorce, and did not interact with each other in old age. Even if the ex-wife meets the incumbent, even if they don’t fight each other, it’s good to stay cold-eyed. .
However, Ren Zhengfei and his ex-wife get along very well. In those days, the marriage certificate of Ren Zhengfei and Yao Ling and the birth certificate of their children were all handled by the ex-wife, and the relationship between the two wives was not bad.
This has to be admirable. Now Ren Zhengfei has reached the age of 75. All of his three children are outstanding and his career is so successful. He has indeed become a big winner in life.
Ren Zhengfei's success is inseparable from the help of his two wives. Of course, more of it is his own hard work.
His kind of upstream and indomitable tenacity is one of the secrets of success and also the core spirit of Huawei, which is worth learning.
is willing to continue to lead Huawei to achieve new successes and promote our country!
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