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From Jay Chou to Zheng Kai to Lang Lang to Pan Weibo, without exception, they have married women who are much younger than themselves. So, why do men like to marry women younger than themselves?
On July 26, Wilber Pan, posted on Weibo about his marriage. The other party is a flight attendant, 14 years younger than him. Both her looks and body are very good. Many people also blessed her. The 40-year-old Wilber finally found To my own happiness.
There is a very interesting phenomenon in the marriage of modern people: rich and famous men like to look for women who are much younger than themselves, while older women who are well maintained like to look for men who are younger than themselves.
What is the truth about marriage? Is
really just a handsome girl, or a handsome man with a beautiful girl? In fact, it is not. A real marriage should be that the good people look for younger ones, and the younger ones expect to meet the good ones.
To put it plainly, girls who are young, pure-looking and good-natured are often easy to be married by men and become wives. This also causes many older women with good conditions in society to be late to get out of the list because they are too bad. Look down on them, and look down on them if they are good.
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Mention Wilber Pan, many people will think of another person, she is Wu Xin . Wu Xin and Pan Weibo once formed a CP named "Koala", and they participated in a love variety show together.
In the show, the two people get along very sweetly, and they were blessed by many fans at one time, hoping that they can really be together in reality.
However, the show is just a show after all. After the show, although the two people still interacted with each other, they did not really treat each other as boy and girl friends.
Wu Xin still complains about her older singles in various shows. On the one hand, he longs for marriage and is afraid that marriage will affect his career. In short, it is quite contradictory.
As for Wilber Pan, he rarely appears in variety shows, and even if he does, he rarely talks about feelings.
In 2018, he was photographed having a close relationship with a woman. The girl who was photographed at the time should be his current wife, but both sides tried to deny it, and the scandal ended without a problem.
didn't expect that the good news of marriage broke out after two years. Sure enough, it's an entertainment business. It's hard to tell the truth from the fake. It's good for everyone to watch it.
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Wu Xin is very good in both appearance and personality, but why did Pan Weibo not choose her? In fact,
, on the other hand, may be because of the more realistic elements, not young enough, not simple enough, and the experience is too deep and the background is too complicated.
Generally speaking, older men of the same value rarely see older women who are similar to them. The reason for is the same: fertility is not optimistic, and mature women are not as naive and cute as little girls.
Although mature women are also a kind of beauty, but in most boys' hearts, they still hope to meet a young and beautiful person who will act like a baby and have a real girlish feeling instead of pretending to be.
is like Kunling, Gina, which one is not a real girl? The advantage of
young girls is that they have more possibilities, because they are less likely to be corrupted because of the time period of social experience. At the same time, because the emotional experience is not so rich, they are more specific and more specific when dealing with their partners. deep feeling.
Gina's eyes on Lang Lang are full of the adoration of little fans, which man does not want to be watched like this? Probably men in the world are not as handsome as Lang Lang in her eyes.
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is like Wilber Pan. He can regard Wu Xin as a good friend and confidant , but he will never regard her as a love object or even a marriage object.
What kind of man would look for a woman about his age or even older than him? Under normal circumstances, those who are more open-minded, less afraid of rumors, and whose thinking is not mainstream, such as Qin Hao, Zhang Lunshuo etc.
It can be seen from Qin Hao's choice of script that he is a very picky person. This kind of person often doesn't follow the crowd. They have their own ideas and judgments. This is true of their career and their feelings.
However, Jay Chou and Wilber Pan are obviously burdened by idols. They like to be worshipped, and they are more like those who have the thought of little boys in their hearts. Men like
need little girls to let them build up a strong desire for protection. Of course, if women find such men and stimulate their inner potential, they will definitely be happy.
Compared with a man who falls in love with his sister, a man who can pet a woman into a child is a man who is truly attractive and loves his wife.
Marrying a little girlfriend is a kind of accomplishment for a man, but it is also a kind of growth.
The process of marriage is very complicated. It is not as romantic as love. There will definitely be disputes. When everyone enters marriage, they need to develop a way that suits each other, and then slowly grow into a more ideal person together.
A good marriage always needs to be in step and grow together. Otherwise, in the future of life, two people will eventually go further and further.
Many people say that marriage is not beautiful, it has many ugly things, but in fact, I think the essence of marriage is beautiful, but if you find the wrong person and use the wrong way, it may be ugly. The side.
So in the final analysis, it is better to understand and work harder, so that the days will pass the better.
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About the author: Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?
