After one year of marriage, Rainie Yang revealed that she did not want to have children: a Chinese woman who was kidnapped and ruined by childbirth

2020-10-05 16:12:10 news 966℃

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read a brief interview Rainie , when the mother when she asked. Rainie Yang confessed that she had never assumed that she had a child. Although she had acted as a mother, it was difficult to interact with the child in private.

Yes, after a year of marriage, she still doesn't want to have children.

In fact, fertility is a personal choice, and no one else has the right to interfere.

But under this interview article, I saw two such comments. The subtext of

is obvious: "Women who don't have children won't be married for long" and "You shouldn't get married if you don't have children."

Yes, it's the childbirth kidnapping of a Chinese woman again.

In the eyes of these people, the biggest duty of a woman's life is to have children. If you violate this rule, you will become the heinous one.

is ridiculous, no matter how women in this era pursue independence, they will inevitably be overwhelmed by the saliva of some people.

remembered the ridicule of Yang Liping some time ago. Some people said that she: "A woman's biggest failure is not having a single child... The so-called living oneself is a monk, and it is the happiness of the family to be 90 years old.

What's even more frightening is that this comment was liked first. What makes

difficult for me is that a woman has achieved the ultimate in her professional field, but still can't break free from the shackles of the world.

Everyone is talking about respecting women, but at a critical moment, how many changes have been made to those deep-rooted ideas?

Rainie Yang has a long history in the field of music and film and television. Yang Liping has dedicated her life to the dance career. They are so radiant, but because they don't have children, they are thrown into the abyss. Is this fair?

Behind this kind of childbirth kidnapping, how many women are paying the price of their lives.

Remember the "birthday" recorded in "Human World"? The protagonist in

is angry and distressed.

has a parturient named Lin Qin who already has two daughters. At the age of 38, she insists on having a third child, just to have a son.

She said that no son at home would be looked down upon.

So, at the risk of an elderly mother, she insisted on giving birth. Delivery was not smooth, hemorrhage, and life was at stake. Dr.

can only remove her uterus, which means that she will no longer have children, and her family hesitated to sign the operation consent form.

More terrible than kidnapping a woman to have a child is to have a boy. I see things like

a lot, because it's the same in my hometown. There is no boy in

, so I can't look up in the village, it seems that the family is going to be the last.

Yes, in their eyes, girls cannot inherit incense.

So every family is fighting for their sons. Some people have been giving birth to a son for a lifetime. If it is a daughter, it will be given to others until they give birth to a son.

Some people really can't give birth to a son, and they have to think of various methods, even if it is to spend money, even if there is no blood relationship. After all, it is the woman who pays for such ignorant thoughts, and it is the woman's fault for not having a son.

brought about marital crisis, family conflicts, and women became the culprit. What's more sad is that women living in such an environment have long been brainwashed by this kind of thinking, and they accept all the blessings on them.

There is a more miserable pregnant woman in "Human World". Her name is Wu Ying. She suffers from a congenital disease and can't get pregnant at all.

However, it is useless for the doctor to persuade her. She insists on giving birth because she thinks that she can be fulfilled by having children.

child 7More than a month later, she had a C-section, followed by surgery. On the eighth day of the birth of

, she left this world. Is it worth your life to have a child? It is said that maternal love is great, and I really can't say the word great for such a thing.

don't care about your life, have you ever thought about your family and friends? Can children without mother grow up healthy and happy? The essence of fertility is never the continuation of incense and the fulfillment of life, but pure witness to the growth of a life.

The traditional concept of fertility has made women lose their freedom of choice and put countless families in a fertility crisis.

However, the meaning of a woman's life is to give birth to children?

Carina Lau once said helplessly in the show that nowadays a woman giving birth is like buying a bag, and I will have it if you have it.

childbirth is great in itself, but this concept should not be imposed on women. Besides, is it necessary to be unhappy without having children?

Carina Lau is the best example. She and Tony Leung have been in love for 20 years and have been married for 12 years and never have children. But we have seen the most beautiful marriage and the most splendid life.

Faced with doubts from the outside world, Carina Lau once said: "Of course I have to walk the road in life. Others are used to measuring me by their moral outlook on life, but I will not blindly copy other people’s ways of living. You say I want to live. Should I give birth to a baby? Isn't it my choice to have a baby?"

Looking back at Carina Lau's life, she will not be bleak because she has no children.

Her achievements on the acting road are obvious to all.

won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress in 2007 with "Curiosity Killing the Cat".

won the Best Actress Award in 2011 with "Di Renjie: The Empire of Heaven".

has no children's fetters. She doesn't have to worry about the balance between family and career. She can spend all her time and energy on running herself. Now, 55-year-old Carina Lau is even more dazzling.

A woman should live for herself in her life, not for worldly standards.

It is not easy to do this. It requires a strong self-awareness and a firm heart.

Chinese women are really hard.

Childbirth kidnapping has become a shackle on them.

As long as you enter a marriage, everyone assumes that you should have a baby. Children have become the biggest card to maintain marriage, which is ridiculous. How many families are there in

, conflicts deepen after having children, and the relationship between husband and wife is breaking up. How many families do not have children, and their little life is still going well.

There is no standard for birth or not.

Can you guarantee that women with children are more complete than those without children?

You have not seen the sins that Chinese women have to suffer from having children, not only the shape of their bodies, but also various ununderstood dilemmas.

Everyone has overestimated the matter of rebirth. In fact, the key to the integrity and success of a family lies in whether the two people love.

Of course, I am not advising you not to have children. I just hope that everyone respects each other and returns the freedom of reproduction to women.

Rainie Yang doesn't want to have children, doesn't like children, no problem, we also wish her.

Yang Liping just wants to be chic in this life alone, the child is not what she cares about, it doesn't matter, she is still our goddess.

Really, stop kidnapping Chinese women with birth.

They came for love in this life, not for the birth of children. This concept must be broken before women's independence and freedom can be established.

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