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I watched "In the Name of the Family" and I feel sad for the two children abandoned by their mothers!
Ling Xiao, when he fed walnuts to his sister, her sister was stuck with walnuts. At that moment, his mother shifted all the responsibility to him.
He was only seven years old at that time. What do seven-year-old children know? Besides, he wanted to save his sister, but he was locked at home and couldn't get out. How to save it?
's character changed drastically after that, and he was no longer the lively him before. But even so, she was still abandoned by her mother.
After her mother divorced her father, when she left home, Li Jianjian asked her: "Auntie, don't you want Brother Ling Xiao?" The mother said loudly: "No more, give it to you!"
never again Without a mother, his mother will no longer care about him. The pain of losing her mother can only be tasted by herself.
and He Ziqiu. His mother left him and said he was going to work in Shenzhen. She also said that she would come back to pick him up, but it took many years for her to leave. During this period, she had never taken care of the child.
Poor Ziqiu was sent to the countryside to start farm work. Li Haichao, who had been on a blind date with Ziqiu's mother, couldn't stand it anymore, and took Ziqiu to the city and home. After this, he was raised.
During this period, Ziqiu always thought of her mother, and often took out the small mirror to look at her mother's photo. But where is mom? Mom saw him as a burden and left him, and no longer wanted him!
the whole TV series, these two children really make people feel very distressed. Children are inseparable from their mothers, especially when they are young, but as mothers, they should be the child's protector, but they abandon the child as a burden.
Some people may say that this is just a TV series, but in real life such mothers are not rare. In the
community, Grandson Li's grandson Yangyang, his mother left him and ran away when he was three years old. Just because the child's father was sick and the family's financial conditions were not good, he chose to leave with another man.
Yangyang asked people during those days: "Did you see my mother? Where did my mother go?" The adults just said that my mother went out to make money and would come back later.
Ke Yangyang always said to himself: "I don't need money, I want my mother." It really hurts to look at the child like this. I don't know his mother, what would happen if he knew all this miss you? Mother
was originally the person who loved children the most in the world. If a child is abandoned by her mother since childhood, then he will have a deep sense of insecurity in his heart.
They will please all the people around them. They are afraid of making others unhappy. All they do are hoping that others can accept and recognize him.
is like Ziqiu in a TV series. He helped Li Jianjian wash his socks since he was a child, and helped Li Haichao manage the noodle shop since he was a child. He is still a child, but he is more sensible than an adult. Children like
make people feel distressed and pity. Just imagine if his mother hadn't abandoned him, would he be like this?
Whenever I look at his mother's photo in the little mirror, my heart feels extremely uncomfortable. The child misses his mother that way, but the mother can't feel it at all.
As for Ling Xiao, his mother cruelly abandoned him, but he stayed with him to take care of him after his mother had a car accident. Although he complained about his mother in his heart, he still chose to take care of his mother when faced with a choice. This also shows that, deep in his heart, his mother is still in a very important position, and no one can replace it.
In this world, children always love us unconditionally, their love is not mixed with anything, their love is so simple.
They just love their parents, even if their parents are not good to them, they will choose to forgive! Our children are so selfless, our children can be called great.
As parents, should we really love them, care for them, and protect them for life?
Author: Zhu Ling pseudonym incense beforeNewspaper and magazine writer
works scattered in major domestic newspapers
accumulatively published 5 million texts
authored the book "Self-disciplined Children Are More Successful"
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