In the finale of "In the Name of Family", these three types of mothers are the most suffocating children

　　 The finale of the TV series "In the Name of the Family", netizens said directly that they have not watched it.

　　 Some people say that this TV series has vilified the role of mother and has been exaggerating the role of father. Thinking about it, it really is.

　　 In the final analysis, this drama highlights the role of mothers, because it reflects the importance of mothers’ lack of education.

　　 It tells us that even if we can't be a good mother, we can't be in these three categories.

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　　 First category: emotionally out of control, indifferent and selfish mother

　　, Ling Xiao’s mother Chen Ting deserves it. It makes people angry to see it. Netizens say they can’t stand it. How can there be such a hateful mother in the world.

　　 She is a horror movie as soon as she appears.

　　 When Ling Xiao was a child, she gave her 3-year-old daughter to 6-year-old Ling Xiao to take care of her. She played mahjong by herself and locked the door. This led to the tragedy. After the incident, she did not reflect on herself, but instead blamed her husband for not caring about the family. Her son "deliberately" killed her daughter. She kept her face gloomy every day and lost her temper at every turn.

　　 said "I don't want him anymore" in front of Ling Xiao, and then left.

　　 Ling Xiao was reticent, often awakened by nightmares, and lived a life without a mother.

　　 Life finally calmed down, Chen Ting came back and said that she missed him again, trying to get her daughter to save Ling Xiao's heart.

　　 After a car accident, Ling Xiao took care of Chen Ting out of family affection, and she tossed Ling Xiao vigorously. Forbid Ling Xiao to have any thoughts about Li's family, cut up his cherished photos.

　　 Her work caused Ling Xiao to suffer from depression and often had nightmares. In the dream, her mother shouted: Ling Xiao, do you want her mother and sister?

The failure of

　　 Chen Ting was that she was too emotional, indifferent and selfish, thinking about her own feelings, and did not take care of Ling Xiao's emotions.

　　 She is unhappy, so everyone is as unhappy as her; and the most terrifying thing is that she is unhappy in her heart, and she can pretend to be very kind, and she said polite words, making people sweat.

　　 talked about being a son, but in fact it was for himself; with indifference to resist his son's opinions.

　　 Yishu said in the novel "The Round Dance": When an adult is like a child, the child must grow up quickly.

　　 Ling Xiao was forced by her to grow up overnight, and she had to torment her if she hadn't enjoyed maternal love since she was a child.

　　I am really tired to have such a mother.

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　　Second category: mother who loves to fight and is strong

　　 Qi Mingyue’s mother is of this type. She loves to strike and is strong, causing Qi Mingyue to resist secretly.

　　 Once, when she took her daughter to buy clothes, she asked her daughter what color she wanted. When she picked up black and white, she denied it.

　　 When her daughter was lonely, she picked up a piece of pink, gestured on her daughter, and asked if she liked it. When the daughter said "okay", she expressed dissatisfaction again. She said that her daughter is just like her dad, but only said "okay".

　　 When ordering food, I said that I would let my daughter order, and finally I couldn’t help but say: You can’t even order a dish, so why do you order the third child?

　　 My daughter wants to go to Beijing for two years, and she can have a formal establishment when she comes back. She disagrees. She feels that her daughter has no such ability.

　　 She arranged a back road for her daughter and asked to do what she said. She bought the book for the civil service exam and paid the deposit for the house.

　　 She is actually the most common mother in real life, under the banner of "for you", she requires her children to be obedient and follow the path she thinks is easy.

　　 And this will lead to a serious consequence, that is, children are prone to inferiority and lack of opinion.

　　 Qi Mingyue didn't dare to order food when he was eating with friends; he didn't dare to confess when he met someone he liked; he had an idea in his heart, so he didn't dare to tell his mother clearly, so he could only fight back secretly, fill out one answer card for the college entrance examination and use the future Come to resist.

　　 Jimmy said that a child would rather be stabbed by a cactus than hear the cynicism of adults.

　　强Although powerful mothers are very worried, they are often not recognized by their children; because while being strong, they negate and discourage their children.

　　 They are also very painful inside, often feel great pressure, and at the same time helpless.

　　03

　　 three categories: good face, eager for quick success mother

This category of

　　, Tang Can's mother is worthy of the name.

　　 When Tang Can was very young, by chance, he was photographed by the director and became a child star, making commercials, and filming TV.

　　 From then on, my mother, like discovering the New World, dreamed of Tang Can becoming a big star, buying a house, a car, and living a good life.

　　 Therefore, Tang Can's homework is a lot behind, and he re-study in high school; in the end, he failed to go to a good university, and the most time he should study was spent on advertising.

　　 Later, Tang Can failed repeatedly, and her mother knew that she could not be a star, so she asked her to find a decent job to protect her face in front of her relatives.

　　 However, Tang Can fell in love with acting. She didn't expect to be a big star. She just opened a Taobao shop and did errands because of her love for acting.

　　 At this time, her mother felt ashamed of her and her relationship deteriorated for a while. At the birthday party, she ignored her daughter, and she felt ashamed of her carefully prepared gifts and refused to try it on the spot.

　　 She said, you have earned two sets of houses for your family, and I am satisfied. Don't tell others that you are running errands, which is shameful.

There is a saying in

　　 that behind extraordinary behavior is a mirror of desire.

　　 Tang Can's mother is not a eager for quick success, wasting her daughter's time to film and making money. When her daughter wanted to continue her dream, she felt shameless and asked her to give up.

A mother like

　　 is a misfortune for the child.

　　 violated the child's growth law, and eagerly hoped that the child will become a dragon and a phoenix, and finally ended dismal.

　　 The last evil result has to be borne by the child again.

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　　 what mom should give most is to respect

　　 Gibran said: Your children are not your children. They are the children born of life's desire for itself. They came to this world with the help of you, but not because of you. They are by your side, but they don't belong to you.

　　 These three types of mothers have one thing in common, that is, they do not respect their children.

　　 regards the child as an accessory, hitting and cursing if he wants; he imposes his will at will, and in the end he blames the child for not working hard enough and not obedient enough.

　　 If mothers know how to respect their children, the children will not be so inferior and lacking in opinion. To be a mother, you must first know that respecting children is a required course.

　　 Parents and children are a rare fate; when he was young, he took care of him with all his heart, and when he grew up, he would withdraw from his life in time; leave a dignity for each.

　　 There is a foreign proverb: In the mouth and heart of a child, the mother is God.

Since

　　 is a god, then you should do something highly advanced.