The first thing I want to say is: apologies.
On October 29th, we released an article about "Dong Li and Alalei are the same father and daughter in idol drama" and "They are so cute". At that time, what I considered was only the interaction between these two people should be interpreted as father and daughter, not using other words to describe adult men and women.
However, all kinds of information later made me discover that Dong Li and Alalei were formed by the reality show as a temporary father and daughter. They look cute, but there are actually many inappropriate places; "Where are you going, Dad 4" is on the show. There are also various problems in recording, editing and publicity. This has brought wrong demonstrations to gender education, and it is easy for parents and girls to relax their vigilance against potential dangers; it is also easy for some pictures of "Where are you going to dad 4" to become pedophile fantasy material.
Long legs and fresh meat + cute baby, it sounds like a combination that is very pleasing to the female audience. At the beginning, I also regarded Dong Li and Alalei as a novice dad and daughter. "When I grow up, my mother will "Marry me to you" is Tong Yan Wuji. Dong Li's immediate response is that the child Tong Yan Wuji will help this daughter to check her boyfriend in the future.
The first time I saw Dong Li said that the girlfriend standard is Alalei, this interview with Sina Entertainment three weeks ago. But because what I said earlier in this passage is that I'm still young and don't want to think about getting married and having children for a few more years, so I thought this was just a joke.
However, I saw on Weibo today that Dong Li said more than once in the interview that he would wait for Alale to grow up.
said this for the first time, it can be used as a joke or an excuse for not rushing to get married; repeated words give people a bad feeling.
On October 28, when Dong Li was interviewed by Youku's "Enjoy Early Pick", when he mentioned "sister-in-law" and "ideal girlfriend type", he all answered Alale.
participated in cosmo's year-end activities and said that no matter how many times you ask, the standard for choosing a spouse is Arale.
Look at the intern father-daughter cut on Weibo of the program group, and there is also this part of a conversation like a couple. The words used in
's comments are not just about cute fathers and daughters, but treat them as love between men and women.
Ala Lei and Dong Li’s bedtime conversation is about whether to wash the face before going to bed with a dirty face. The online comment received in this paragraph
is: "Like a conversation between a couple" and "I can't use the right mentality to see where Dad has gone." The messages posted by various popular microblogs on
are like this: "When you finish eating the sugar, I will eat you." It caused a lot of controversy.
Today friends also sent several questioning articles. The main point is that in "Where Are You Going, Dad 4", the 4-year-old Arale is arranged to call the adult man Dong Li's father, so that they can eat and live together intimately, which is a wrong demonstration to the young girl before TV. It is not ruled out that there will be adult men with ghosts, imitating TV programs, to get close to the girls to achieve what purpose, and the child thinks that this is his "intern father" unsuspecting.
A detailed critical article is here, from the diary of Douban user "Xun"→ Why is the CP of Dad 4's adult and young child so disgusting and desperate to tear it quickly
The author of this article found it in "Where Are You Going Dad 4" In the broadcast footage, the screen and the barrage are very wrong.
I searched on the Internet and found that many fans were defending Dong Li, saying that in "Where Are You Going Dad 4", there are cameras everywhere and there are female choreographers around. This environment is different from two people being alone.
is that Dong Li is at best joking and improper, or just follow the online feedback.
But the point is that the program mode of "Practice Dad" is very inappropriate and will cause various problems.
Now it's not that Dong Li has anything to Alalei, it's that after the program is set up in this way, the scenes of the little girl and the adult man, as well as the barrage and "bereaved" comments, are really off the track.
should not allow girls to get along with strange men in this way. What will these images and brain holes turn into in the eyes of people who have intentions of girls? "Where are you going, Dad", there are also childrenYes, when the child saw Alale and Dong Li being so close, how would he treat the strangers he met in life?
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In the first season of "Where are you going to dad", there used to be a "changing dad" setting. This setting does not work well in the original Korean program. Girls face other people’s dads very much. resisting.
arrived in the first season of the domestic version, the two girls were already familiar with all the uncles, but they couldn't accept changing their fathers.
Sendie's reaction to "changing dad" only kept crying.
Wang Shiling obviously liked Zhang Liang, but he couldn't accept the change of father, so he was very disturbed at first. (Later, everyone praised Zhang Liang for taking care of Wang Shiling’s gender consciousness, but Wang Shiling always wanted to change her father back.) The setting of
was also criticized by mothers as a wrong demonstration and could not be played on TV. ", otherwise the little girl will think that it is a game for a strange man to enter her life in the name of "changing father".
Now "Where Are You Going Dad 4" is equivalent to the idea of "others come to be fathers" throughout. This is not the first reality show that allows stars to bring amateur children. What is the situation of other shows? I also searched it today for the reference of viewers and industry insiders.
Han Zong's "Half Moon Friends" is for fresh meat to take the children, but similar to being a kindergarten teacher, the way of getting along with is completely different from the children's psychology.
The children are brought by their parents in the morning, and they are taken home in the evening.
"Let go of my north nose" is a boarding kindergarten model. Male artists have to live with their children, but there are still boundaries.
The children’s residence is divided into male and female dormitories.
Two little fresh meat Ma Tianyu and Yu Xiaotong live together.
There is a relatively small girl who suddenly urinates in her pants, and Ma Tianyu will take it to the toilet; but he will avoid sight very consciously.
In "Shiny Dad", Huang Zitao, Pan Weibo, Chen Yibing and Gao Yunxiang live together and take care of 5 children together. Among them are girls, but the girls are all ages who can go to the toilet and take a bath by themselves.
In terms of sleeping, intern father Huang Zitao and daughter Beibei separate two beds. When
took a bath, they set up a girls’ bathhouse for girls.
Intern fathers add hot water outside the simple bathhouse.
I showed this kind of picture to the girl’s mother. Some mothers still expressed that they were unacceptable. They felt that the first thing to do was to take a bath by themselves, and the other was that even if the girl took a bath, it was not good to show it in the camera.
"Let male artists and little girls get along for two or three days", "Where are you going, Dad 4" should be the first show to do so. I have searched for foreign variety shows, but there is no precedent for the time being. The show group is innovating At the same time, it is also necessary to reconsider the way the program is handled and the social impact.
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I really like watching Mengwa reality show to find cute spots and observe the way parents treat their children. In my opinion, this is a kind of return to childhood. I review what I got and what I didn't get when I was a kid. But I don’t have the experience and experience of being a parent, and my consideration is different from that of a real parent. In the case of Ala Lei and Dong Li, the serious gossip did not immediately discover the problems in the program's operation process. Only watching handsome boys and cute children did not find the negative demonstration of this program for society.
We need to apologize for this.
did not see the problem of this program, and summarized it as "moe", which made us feel deeply disturbed and blamed after we discovered the problem.
All the old articles about Dong Li and Alalei published on various media platforms have been deleted.
also hope that everyone will not use those words that describe couples to describe Dong Li and Alalei, which is very inappropriate. With the pre-adult feeling of CP, fans can write and write fanarts, and 4-year-old children should not enter this range.
I also saw fans of the show message me privately, saying that the current accusations about Dong Lihe on the show are just "the prostitute sees the prostitution" and "on the line"; but I think the point is not only whether Dong Li and Alalei get along properly in this way, but also There is an effect after such a program is broadcast. I asked a few todayA mother of a child, no mother can rest assured that the child will be taken by a strange adult man. At the same time, they are also afraid that the child will lose vigilance against strangers after watching the show, and forget the self-protection principle that mothers have worked so hard to teach their children .
also requested Hunan Satellite TV to re-evaluate the "internship father". Even if people like me were sprouts in the beginning, to this day, after reading so much information and parents' worries, they can't ignore the deviation of the show. An influential variety show needs to carefully consider what it will bring after it is broadcast.
once again apologize to everyone for the incomplete consideration when writing the article last time.
