Korean drama "The Flower of Evil" is a man with anti-social personality. He has a very poor perception of emotions. Because his sister accidentally killed someone, he didn't want her sister's life to be ruined, so he jumped out to shoulder the burden of his sister. Murder. Because Tao Xianxiu and his family are not very normal, so that the whole village has regarded them as "murderers"
for so many years. Tao Xianxiu lives as Bai Xicheng. He is helping the real criminal Bai Xicheng to complete his life.
In fact, Tao Xianxiu is a kind man. Because he doesn't know what love is, he has poor ability to perceive emotions, so others mistake him for a "cold murderer". Tao Xianxiu's wife, Cha Zhiyuan, is an excellent criminal police officer of the crime squad. In the process of tracking the unsuspecting case, she discovered the true identity of her husband step by step.
Cha Ji-won’s love for Baek Hee-sung (Tao Hyun-soo) has always been active and enthusiastic
Cha Ji-won’s love for Baek Hee-sung (Tao Hyun-soo) has always been active and enthusiastic. She really loves Baek Hee Sung’s 14 years of being together. Baek Hee Sung (Tao Hyun Soo) has always been responsible for taking care of the children, doing housework, washing and cooking and other housework and childcare. Even her daughter hates her mother for blowing her hair and not her father. Good.
The marriage relationship between Baek Hee Sung (Tao Hyun Soo) and Cha Ji Won is like a "cat and mouse" relationship. Cha Zhiyuan is a sensible and savvy woman. After she knew the black history of Bai Xicheng (Tao Xianxiu), she never thought of abandoning or exposing Bai Xicheng (Tao Xianxiu) that she was willing to tide over the difficulties with her husband.
The most classic aspect of the Korean drama "The Flower of Evil" is not how the heroine digs out her husband for cheating, but that the heroine strives to pursue each other and love each other without knowing that her husband is an anti-social personality. This kind of love not only nourishes the man. , And let yourself grow.
The relationship between husband and wife is not about getting divorced after cheating. The relationship between husband and wife is not about digging into each other's dark history. The core of the relationship between husband and wife: how to be yourself better, and how to better give back to loved ones. The core of love is not deception, but honesty and respect.
If a woman thinks that this man doesn’t like to talk before she gets married, she keeps chasing her, and she keeps on giving her love to her and allowing her to accept herself, so that she forgets to do an identity background check on the man she loves. It is not responsible for yourself.
The so-called honest man does not exist
How scumbag is Zhang Xin in the domestic suspense drama "White Moonlight"? In front of Zhang Yi, he is always a "family cook" with low eyebrows, and although he is talented, he never reveals himself. At the core of
, Zhang Xin has a delicate mind. He knows that Zhang Yi doesn’t love him so much. He still loves his predecessor the most. Zhang Yi married him to seek a stable life. But after marriage, Zhang Xin brought Zhang Yi more than just The most annoying thing about cheating, concealing marital property and secretly engaging in Zhang Yi
is that Zhang Yi's so-called honesty is all pretending. In fact, what Zhang Yi loves most is the generous living environment that Zhang Xin brought to him and the support for Zhang Yi's life dreams. At some point Zhang Yi has been receiving nourishment from Zhang Xin, and Zhang Yi has been making trouble behind his back.
He is not an incapable man, he is just that his mind and ability are useless in the right way. The love between Zhang and Zhang Xin is complicated. This complexity is mixed with the dissatisfaction with Zhang Yi before marriage and the anxiety towards Zhang Xin after marriage.
He distinguishes himself and Zhang Yi's interests very clearly. At the core, he doesn't love Zhang Yi so much, and of course he doesn't love Yang Yan. What he loves is just his own feelings.
Zhang Yi is different from Bai Xicheng (Tao Xianxiu). His teacher is only superficial, and his poor speech is superficial. His city is very deep, and he knows how to calculate his own interests.
Looking back at Xu Huanshan from " Thirty Only ", he is the perfect husband created by Gu Jia. Gu Jia takes care of all the food, clothing, housing and transportation. Even the boss behind the company is Gu Jia.
On the surface, Xu Huanshan obeyed Gu Jiayan, but in fact Xu Huanshan’s obedience to Gu Jia is based on Gu Jia’s ability to bring value and benefits to Xu Huanshan. Xu Huanshan knew that he was only suitable for being a firework designer, and he couldn't afford a company himself.
Gu Jia has done his best to give to the family or to the company. It seems that Gu Jia has been dragging Xu Huanshan away, and Xu Huanshan has been resisting, but he chose the most comfortable compromise. Way, he made Gu Jia feelVery obedient, honest, and reliable
In fact, Gu Jia knows very well that the identity of Xu Huanshan's boss particularly provokes young women. After all, many women like to get something for nothing, they like to grab their husbands, and they like to grab the married life of high-quality women. She thinks that is what she deserves. But everyone does not know that you want to be the wife of a successful man, what do you have?
Behind every successful man is a wife who sacrifices and endures humiliation. These wives are actually doing their best to support their husbands. Do you think you can get that kind of life by robbing someone's marriage?
Look at Xu Huanshan’s obsession with Lin Youyou’s sorrow to Gu Jia, and Gu Jia’s fulfillment to Xu Huanshan after the Xu Huanshan company’s accident. To put it bluntly, men have never been more ignorant than women, especially that kind. The so-called honest men, the so-called reliable men, they look the same in front of their wives and another in other women. You think they are very tired from acting, but what they like is the life of acting
Why is it difficult for a man in a marriage to be right? My wife surrendered his sincerity?
You think the wives a man chooses when he gets married are all trends pros and cons. Love or not is the second thing that can bring benefits to oneself, bring all kinds of values, can fulfill one's own family, fulfill one's own dream is the core.
Men will also rely on their own innocence, be honest, not talkative, and deceive a woman’s favor, and then the man will start to lay down on the woman step by step, so that the woman feels that marriage is beautiful, marriage is mutual fulfillment
Finally, those honest men even if they are willing to do Family cooking husband, in fact, is not at peace
because they can't find their own value at home, so they go to the studio, kindergarten, where to find other women, sometimes you will be surprised why married men are like peacocks, no She stopped spreading her feathers, feeling that it was a woman who actively contacted them and wanted them.
Actually, many women play with married men only to see his superficial value. Throw away what he has.
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Divorce is not good for married men, their children do not People are raised, no one takes care of my own business, and my life can't be messed up. The purpose of a man’s marriage is to allow a woman to give herself a complete family. In many marriages, a woman supports a family. If a woman does not support a family, basically her children will not have a father
, so children are the weakness of married women. Of course, those savvy married men know how to pretend to be honest, cover up their past, or deliberately cheat on women, make women feel that they are not worthy of being loved, not worthy of being respected, and finally let women tear a woman
as a woman The biggest sorrow is that I feel bad about the problem of a man’s derailment. I suspect that I did not do well and did not do well. Then I gradually lost my vitality and self-confidence. It seems that as long as the man returns to the family, he can forgive him. How can we survive a broken marriage?
In the end, Zhang Yi still divorced Zhang Xin. It was because she didn’t want to consume it any more.
Gu Jia still didn’t forgive Xu Huanshan. Even if she lost her first half of her life, she never hesitated to accept Bai Xicheng (Tao Xianxiu). ) The most authentic identity, because she has determined that a husband who does not understand love truly loves herself
Marriage sometimes talks about the spirit of contract and integrity. If the man in the marriage deliberately conceals his past, he deliberately releases it by cheating The pressure of marriage deliberately creates conflicts between the wife and the third party, to put it bluntly these husbands have never loved their wives. What they love most is themselves, and what they love most is their desires and feelings. A man like
relies on a woman to give him a home, and he thinks he can consume his wife's dedication and love unscrupulously. The biggest unconsciousness of being a woman, you always like to treat women as enemies, or use women’s softheartedness, or unite men to engage in women, you will find out in the end. You originally loved your man the most, but in fact, the one you love the most is yourself.
Your originally honest husband is actually a sinister villain. You keep comforting yourself with the so-called goodness and dedication of your husband. In the end, you are not moved by yourself, but by your self-esteem not being loved.
