In front of a coffin, the corpse plastic surgeon is explaining to the staff of the "Seven Fairies" service team in the funeral home the steps involved in demonstrating body plastic surgery. Such on-site teaching may make many people feel scared, although the coffin is lying A character model, but the real practical teaching is the real corpse. Walk into this funeral home, let's take a look at the work of the body cosmetic surgeon and the funeral home etiquette host. What is it like? In the funeral home in Bengbu City, Anhui Province, the photographer photographed the work of the members of the "Seven Fairies" model worker studio.
In their eyes,
body plastic surgeon is a sacred profession. To do well, you must grit your teeth and work hard. One year in November, a train driver was unfortunately killed. The face of the deceased was hit by the train, most of which shattered and all his facial features were damaged. According to the wishes of the relatives of the deceased, the arduous task of plastic surgery on the remains fell on the shoulders of a young cosmetician girl in the funeral home. She carefully compared the photos of the deceased during his lifetime, worked meticulously for more than ten hours, and used a pair of skillful hands to restore the face of the deceased to the greatest extent.
Now, more female college students have joined the funeral industry. The "Seven Fairies" service group of Bengbu Funeral Home has expanded from 7 to more than 30 now, covering all important positions in the whole hall, and has become a well-known professional service in the local area. Team. They were engaged in funeral guidance, etiquette hosting, body make-up and plastic surgery, and flower shop. At work, they take the initiative to overcome the double pressure brought about by special types of work and secular concepts, and adapt to job demands with strong perseverance. They strive for perfection and perfection when the remains are plastic surgery; in the services of decorating the remains and family sacrifices, they continue to enrich cultural elements and give more cultural connotations.
Chen Yan, started working in 1997, and was transferred to the municipal funeral home in 2007. He is currently the director of the municipal funeral home office. She said that when I first arrived at the city funeral home, I was young, panicked, and confused. For a time, I had the idea of giving up working here. Seeing a group of "heavy" people around them, facing the high-corruption remains, they strode forward to meet the difficulties; faced with the bereaved trust, they did their best to provide a good service; faced with cold-eyed discrimination, they insisted on perseverance and showed their feelings ……All these are silent influences and educations for me, from which I have obtained immense spiritual power and devoted myself to work.
In her life, she insists on reading, reading newspapers, learning from others, and constantly improving her overall quality and ability. She said that when she saw the gratifying achievements and honors she had given her, she deeply felt that she was a person, doing good deeds and getting rewards! There are many female funeral workers, and she actively strives for support to apply for special disease insurance for female workers to protect their legal rights and interests. The employees who were hospitalized due to illness were visited in time and sent for condolences and care. Actively contacted the Municipal Federation of Trade Unions to maximize the amount of accident insurance compensation, and successively handled compensation for 30 employees who were accidentally injured on their way to work and during work.
Lu Jing, born in October 1985, has been engaged in etiquette presiding in a funeral home when she was 20 years old. She is currently the leader of the etiquette presiding group of the funeral home and has won many honorary titles. Since joining the work at the age of 20, Lu Jing has worked hard, dedicated and dedicated to the front line of funerals and burials. As a funeral etiquette host, she has constantly innovated her work methods, in order to meet the increasing funeral needs of the citizens, with the unique gentleness of women Practicing the service concept of "saluting life and seeing off the dead", with thoughtful and meticulous service, let the deceased leave with dignity, convey the love of the world, and enhance the new image of funeral workers.
In addition to being a good host of etiquette, she is also good at giving speeches. She recalled that one year when she was asked to record a speech video to participate in the selection task, she hesitated and wavered. At that time, she had been pregnant for several months. It took several months from the primary election to the city finals and the provincial finals. At that time, she was not sure whether she could still compete. However, in the story of working in a funeral home, there are too many stories to tell, too many emotions to talk about, and too many words to express. During the competition, her pregnancy reaction prevented her from eating and sleeping. The doctor had warned her, and later won the city's first place in the competition.
special job position and special life experience make Lu Jing more enthusiastic about work, life, and enthusiastic public welfare.In 2008, there was an earthquake disaster in Wenchuan, Sichuan. Lu Jing took the initiative to apply at the wedding and decided to give up her wedding leave and asked to participate in assistance work in the earthquake-stricken area. After the media disclosed it, it deepened people's understanding and respect for the funeral staff. It is this bit by bit that many people have deepened their understanding and knowledge of the work of the funeral home.
On Mother’s Day, she went to the nursing home to accompany the elderly to chat about the housework and feed the elderly, so that the elderly can feel the care of their “children” on special days. Colleagues around them encountered difficulties in their lives. They enthusiastically organized the "Mid-Autumn Festival" sympathy event. On the eve of the Mid-Autumn Festival, they sent Mid-Autumn Festival moon cakes and donations, which brought great comfort to the family of colleagues. She cares for others, gathers love, and actively conveys the positive energy of dedication to society, weaving the "seven fairies" with the unique beauty of women.
In the farewell ceremony of the dead body in the funeral home, I can see Yao Jing and her sisters every time. As the host of the ceremony, how can the living be comforted and missed at the last moment of bidding farewell to the dead. It is difficult to do it with simple silence, bowing, reading a eulogy, or going around the spirit, so they need to be more attentive.
Yao Jing said that she likes to read and travel. Reading broadens your mind and travel broadens your horizons. Because of this, I will have my own opinions on everything. I won’t say anything about it, I will naturally look high, working in a special position, and I will cherish and appreciate everything in life even more.
City Funeral Home "Seven Fairies" brand was founded in 2005, named after the first seven employees were all young girls. At that time, the director of the funeral home discovered the characteristics of these girls, which was a new bright spot in the funeral industry. He also thought of the "seven fairies" in the Huangmei Opera that was spread across the country. He believed that the funeral home was the "terminal" of life, and the funeral staff was the gateway to "heaven". The "Seven Fairies" legend has great influence and high popularity, which can be used to enhance the new image of the funeral industry, and the "Seven Fairies" service group was born.
Since entering the funeral and interment industry, we have never taken the initiative to shake hands with others, do not say "goodbye", "welcome", etc., and cannot go shopping or eating with friends...From all kinds of unsuitability, feelings of loss and pressure and confusion in our hearts, Behind this qualitative change is the solid platform and good working atmosphere of the funeral home in Bengbu City, as well as the strong cohesion of the cadres and employees, which are sublimated by their work. They are filled with spontaneously in their hearts. A sense of accomplishment and pride.
"The employees of the funeral home, especially the "Seven Fairies" service group, eliminate social prejudice and quietly dedicate their youth. Based on this, we young people must learn from them, compare with them, and see where their dedication and work attitudes are different? How to improve one's spirit and energy, I think, through this unique teaching, it will be a kind of spiritual sublimation and purification of the students' minds, and everyone has gained a lot." A local teacher said.
Li Xiaoting, 36 years old, stepped into the gate of the funeral home in May 2002 and became a member of the female etiquette presiding team of the funeral home. She has been in the ordinary ceremonial presiding post for 17 years. In the 2018 China Skills Competition-the 8th National Civil Affairs Industry Professional Skills Competition Funeral Attendant Professional Competition Closing Ceremony and Award Ceremony was held in Beijing. After four days of fierce competition, Li Xiaoting, as the only player in Anhui Province who qualified for the finals, won the national first prize.
"Seven Fairies" service team members said that in order to let the dead go peacefully and to comfort the living, they are willing to pay more with love and heart, because in times of grief, people's emotions are easily out of control, and there is no comfort or even fire. Adding oil can lead to the unfortunate occurrence of "injury and pain, pain and pain" at any time. They said that when they are in love, the door of love is often closed at the same time as soon as the other party hears what they do. For this reason, they ask the introducer. When introducing the person to them, be sure to tell them clearly what they do, so as to avoid embarrassment when meeting each other.
Wang Zhenzhi, entered the city funeral home in 2008 and has been engaged in funeral presiding for 11 years. In her understanding, funeral hosting is a special cultural service job that requires both profound cultural literacy and superb professional skills. She often uses her spare time to strengthenLearn about funeral culture, broadcast hosting, posture and etiquette. I have always been cautious about the planning and arrangement of the farewell ceremony process or the scrutiny of the eulogy of the deceased's life.
She said that she met a young couple. At the special moment of holding a farewell party for the elderly, both kneeled down and worshipped the elderly. It turned out that they were about to enter the wedding hall, although the elderly could not attend their wedding. , But they want the elderly to witness their love, fulfill their long-cherished wishes, and fulfill their children's last filial piety; there are also eighty-year-old couples who walk the path of life together, telling everyone the story of love and eternal love. There are many stories here, and they are different every day, few people know.
Zhao Li has been engaged in body plastic surgery in the funeral home for 12 years. When she was first assigned to plastic surgery, during that time, she became the "alternative" in the eyes of her friends. She said that she was once afraid and hesitated, which really made her walk in firmly. This position, without fear of facing death, stems from a special plastic surgery experience. It was the summer vacation of 2007. A 5-year-old girl came to Bengbu from Shanghai to visit her relatives. Unforeseen circumstances happened. A tragic car accident claimed the child's life. Facing the broken body of the child, facing relatives who are trembling with their hands trying to touch the child, but do not know where to put their hands.
, as a mother, she shed tears as she watched the family’s heart-piercing pleading, silently put on a mask, stitched bit by bit, stitched stitch by stitch... The repair took more than 5 hours, when the child’s aunt saw the girl Wearing her new clothes and embracing the perfect legacy of her schoolbag, she took Zhao Li's hand to tears and was so moved that she couldn't speak. From then on, Zhao Li had a needed "sense of accomplishment", realized the preciousness of human relations, and realized that relative to the splendor of life, dying with dignity is the standard for a complete life. Since then, he firmly picked up the makeup pen and worked in the funeral service in obscurity.
Chen Juan, engaged in etiquette presiding in the funeral home in April 2012. she says. In a farewell ceremony a few days ago, a 94-year-old lady passed away. The old lady’s husband was in his 90s. On this day of farewell, he insisted on coming to the funeral home. There was no worry that the elderly could not bear it. Let him go to the farewell hall, and the farewell ceremony begins. The concierge enters, sits, welcomes the spirit, lifts the coffin, mourns, lights candles for relatives, prays, silently mourns, lifts the coffin, and when the children are ready to take the coffin and cover the coffin, A person hurried in from the hall and said something in the ear of a family member, who looked at her and stopped talking.
Chen walked to him: "If you need help, please tell me," he said, "Father said I still want to take another look. Can you wait for him to come over? He is still in the bathroom now," Chen said, "You can wait and tell The old man is not in a hurry." The old man’s son gave us a gesture of gratitude. After a while, the old man was helped by several relatives and walked over. He walked to his wife’s body and kept tweaking the quilt and trimming her hair. ---- Did not say a word, but the people next to him all cried, the background music in the hall still surrounds, the concierge has been quietly holding the coffin lid and waiting next to him, and the relatives helped the old man to leave.
They said that because they are afraid of being taboo by others and being unhappy, they usually never visit relatives and friends during New Years and holidays. When talking about work units, they are often referred to as the "civil administration system"; they go to kindergartens and schools after get off work. Before picking up your child, you must change into your work clothes and put on casual clothes, so that others don’t feel uncomfortable.
They said that they chose this special industry because they wanted to serve more people with the delicateness and gentleness of women. They wanted to bid farewell to every deceased, and sincerely comfort every living. Therefore, they hope that the ice of secular prejudice will melt faster, so that the youthful years they have dedicated to this cause can exchange your smile instead of indifference... For more pictures and in-depth character stories, please click Pay attention to the pictures, Jianghuai, and bring you a warm visual life. Welcome private messages to provide story clues.
