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I stayed at home these days and relived some of the more classic TV series. One of them was a cross-play drama "Scary Step by Step" , which was particularly popular in 2011. It is precisely because of this drama that the heroine and heroine Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi have come together in reality, lead a happy life, and become an enviable celebrity couple.
The drama "Startling at every step" is about the love-hate relationship between a crossing woman and several elder brothers in the palace. There are no lack of intricate love scenes, and what I want to say to you today is—Revisiting "Scary Step by Step": If a woman wants to marry the right person, the key is to look at it.
The most impressive section in "Scary Step by Step" is that Mongolian Ge Gemin Min fell in love with this man when he first met the thirteenth brother. She wanted to be with him at every moment in the grassland. When she couldn't find him, she would be sad. When she saw him sad, she would be even more sad.
This is a woman's love. Once you love it, this man will affect everything. Minmin was originally a child on the grassland, unrestrained, and her father loved her very much. She has always been free, always following her own wishes and not being controlled by others.
is just, wishful thinking, never so good, often full of bitterness. The person you love has clearly seen your heart, but he doesn't love you. Therefore, no matter how much you have given or done for him, you have not been able to touch him after all, let alone warm his heart.
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Since Min Min fell in love with Thirteen, she has become very cautious. She would ask Ruoxi , is Fujin in the Mansion of Thirteen Brothers beautiful? Will ask Ruoxi, I am like this, careless, and don't know how to be polite. Will Thirteenth like me? Wait a minute, she wants to become what Elder Brother Thirteen likes.
is happy for Bo Shisan, she even pesters Ruoxi to learn to sing. Originally she was a happy bird flying freely on the grassland, but now she wants to do things that she is not good at or even like doing for the people she likes.
saw her look like this, her father was very sad and told her that women in the palace are often not happy. I hope he can let go of this, and love the feelings alone, and can truly find his own happiness.
But, Minmin who is in love, where did she hear her father's words, when she learned that her father would not let her marry the thirteenth elder brother, and he wanted to find someone else for her to marry the emperor, Minmin returned In her own account, she smashed things and cried so much. No one could persuade her. She only wanted to marry the person she liked.
Later, Ruoxi came to persuade her and asked her, do you really want to marry the Thirteenth Master, be a flanker, live in a small yard, wait for him to come down all day, come home to see you? If you have a dispute with other Fujin, will he help you? Your father wants you to stay on the grassland, because then no one will bully you. He wants you to be happy. After hearing these words, Minmin woke up.
In order to commemorate her love, she asked Ruoxi to organize a party for her, and she left a deep impression on the thirteenth master with her Miaoman dance. She put it down, and in the end, married Zuo Ying and got happiness. She is also the happiest woman in the whole show, and she has been living freely on the grassland.
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woman, how should she choose her marriage partner? In fact, the answer can be found in "Scary Step by Step".
Revisit "Scary Step by Step": This is how women can truly entrust men to life.
That is, a man who truly loves you, is willing to accompany you, loves you, understands your love, holds you in his palm, cares about your feelings, and is willing to accompany you for life.
Many women want to marry someone they like. It's not that this is a wrong idea. To marry someone you like, the prerequisite depends on whether the other person likes you. If it’s just wishful thinking, the woman can only give it blindly in the end. Such unfairnessIt is impossible to achieve happiness in a peaceful relationship.
is like in the play. Ruoxi knows that the thirteenth elder brother doesn’t like Minmin. He will marry her back because of the imperial decree that he can’t violate. But after marrying back, he will only put her as a vase. There.
Thinking about that kind of life, Minmin is like a canary in a cage, how painful it should be for an eagle who is used to flying in the blue sky.
Therefore, when a woman chooses a marriage partner, it is important to like nature, but the other person's attitude towards you is also very important. The relationship must be voluntary and equal to each other. Only two people understand each other, tolerate each other, pay for love together, and run the two people’s common family together, so that they can go on for a long time and achieve happiness.
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Author: clean snow, writer, relationship consultant. If you encounter any emotional distress, you can send me a private message
