"Thirty Only" can be said to be a popular TV series recently. Now that the drama is finally over, after watching it, I still can't help but have something to say.
Three thirty-year-old girls of different classes vividly interpret the sadness and joy of this age, but they tell us the reality that we must face one by one in life.
One,
There is no easy word in the adult world.
Many people look glamorous and enviable, but the people outside do not know the hard work and sadness of others. I always think that the things that are harvested and possessed are too easy. In fact, in the world of adults, there is never the word easy.
Why is she not you who succeeded and achieved in the end? We have to reflect on ourselves more, can the world really lose pie? Even if there is, do you get up early enough and run fast enough!
Second,
People who reach middle age must learn to face the reality and bow their heads when they should bow their heads.
Everyone has their own dignity, and many people defend their dignity everywhere. Some people don't buckle for five buckets of rice, some people don't eat the food that comes , and some people are angry as confidantes. All these are different.
is a middle-aged person, life is not easy. Dignity cannot be lost, but vanity cannot be saved. After all, everyone needs to live well. Recognize the situation and face the reality. When you should bow your head, you should bow your head. Sometimes it is better to retreat than to advance. Retreat is also a kind of wisdom in life.
Three,
marriage is not a safe haven forever.
No one should think that marriage is a safe haven forever, because we are in a changeable era, and marriage is doomed to change and not be strong. Many marriages exist in name but not in reality. Some are improvised, some are forbearance, some are helpless, and some are desperate.
A person lives once, only once. It's hard to live a wonderful life! Don’t you see, how many tragedies caused by emotional factors are repeated. Therefore, when entering marriage and choosing someone to live a lifetime, one must be clear-headed and cautious. To think twice, is this person really worth holding hands for a lifetime? You must know that holding hands is easy and hard to let go! Meeting someone who is not generous, it will be the nightmare of your life!