Love is a very difficult feeling to grasp.
is not like family love, no matter how far you quarrel, no matter how far apart, the same blood flowing in the body is always tied to each other, and love can be changed when it changes.
We always don’t understand why some people don’t love the person next to their pillow when they wake up. Love like
used to not be able to circumvent the sentimental "I love you", but the more touching the oath, the more ironic this broken love is now.
Many love movies are also so "duplicate", the names are the most beautiful love words, but the stories are more sad than one. Just like the 5 high-scoring niche movies I will recommend today, they have sounded a wake-up call for the love of countless people. .
"I Love You"
Director: Li Rengang
Starring: Yuen Yui, Fang Zhongxin, Wu Zhenyu, Huang Peixia
In 1998 Hong Kong film, only more than 2,000 people rated on Douban, still a high 8.1 points. On
Douban, someone once classified it as " Hong Kong's Top Ten Perverted Love Movies ".
is not about how bloody and violent the picture is, but how perverted love is that a woman who is full of innocence and loyal to love is forced to jump off the building to commit suicide.
Yuan Yuyi played , the original baby . One day, my husband told me that I have another woman. We have been together for two years.
, a woman who lives for love, for her husband, and for her daughter, lost everything under her husband’s "honest confession".
She didn't understand why this man who once said sincerely at the wedding, "I love my baby forever, can't like other people", turned around and fell in love with someone else.
Actually, the husband played by Fang Zhongxin doesn't understand why has changed his heart .
Once, he loved her for her innocence, so he spoiled her as an innocent princess;
now has a mission hanging by a thread, and what appeared in his mind is also an enchanting and beautiful lover.
So, he turned around and ran towards the fairy and abandoned the princess, even if he knew it, the princess would be broken when he fell.
Until the last moment, when he watched the baby standing on the edge of the roof, from hysterically trying to die with the fairy, to desperately smiling and letting go and falling alone.
She smiled as innocent as ever, but he wept sadly.
I think, at that moment, he really realized his cruelty.
But I also believe that even if time goes back, he will still make the same choice. After all, it is human instinct to follow the heart to chase love.
If he is determined to leave you, you must not be able to stop him. The only thing you can do is to protect yourself from being stabbed by love.
If the baby has never lost her life for love, then she will not be reduced to the point where she is forced to pervert by love.
The cruelty of love has never let anyone go, but you must hold onto your most independent and strongest self, not be enslaved by love, and only be the master of love.
"The Knitted Girl"
Director: Claude Goretta
Starring: Isabel Huppert
This 1977 French film has only been seen by more than 1,000 people, but the Douban score is as high as 8.2.
I really like a netizen’s short comment on this movie-
"A first acquaintance can deliver life. That is the beginning of love;
get along day and night but are relatively speechless, that is the end of love."
Too common, the beginning of excitement, the end of silence.
and often the first to create the excitement, but also the first to be silent at the end.
Because in this love, they are too humble, how high expectations at the beginning, how much effort, how disappointed at the end, such as the heroine in the film.
She forbears for love and gives everything, but when the freshness passes, the man she loves is still full of disgust.
, this highly self-sufficient PhD student, as early as in his subconscious mind, has found an excuse for his own negative affection-you are not worthy of me.
seems to be attracted to him from the beginning, it may not be the heroine's good character, but the heroine's unconditional good and obedience to him.
She is good to him because of love, but in his opinion, she has become her own capital and can treat her at will.
Until the heroine suffers from depression because of this love, and is admitted to a mental hospital, the hero does not understand how cruel he is.
But his compensatory companionship and care can no longer make the heroine laugh again. She always accepts his favors silently, and then returns to the ward without saying a word, just like the indifferent hero when the two were in love .
I think she understands that no matter how beautiful love is, no matter how good a lover is, it is not worthy of you to belittle yourself to raise your lover. Paying like
often only touches oneself, but at most a trace of guilt to the other party.
In love, you can treat him nicely, but you must first know how to cherish yourself.
"Love in the Wind"
Director: Hou Xiaoxian
Screenplay: Wu Nianzhen Zhu Tianwen
Starring: Li Tianlu Xin Shufen Wang Jingwen Ke Yulun
1987 Taiwanese film, Douban score 8.5, better than 94% of the love film.
This movie is based on the first love of screenwriter Wu Nianzhen , tells the story of the first love of A Yuan and A Yun's childhood sweetheart.
's company for more than ten years is no match for the loneliness of a long-distance relationship. A Yuan's enlistment makes this love drift away.
Compared to the letters of lovers from far away, the gentle whispers of the boys around him are warmer. A Yun did not wait for A Yuan to return and married someone else.
But in fact, the ending of every love is not sudden. The breakup of Ayuan and Ayun has been reflected in their way of getting along. When
was a student, Ayun complained that he couldn't solve the math problem. Ayuan blamed: "Why don't you come to ask me?"
Ayun didn't answer, but just bowed his head aggrievedly.
In fact, A Yuan’s reproach did not hide the promise of "I am there," but he didn't know that what A Yun needed was gentle comfort and care.
is like Ayun making a shirt for Ayuan and happily asking him to try it on, only to find that it is bigger.
A Yuan was obviously happy, but he had to say a little disgustingly: "Look, I said it was big."
But what A Yun wanted was just a compliment from him.
They all want to give each other the best, but the way of expression is often self-defeating.
First love can forget everything for love, but life needs each other to make it work.
"Urban Love"
Director: Liu Zhenwei
Screenplay: Liu Zhenwei
Starring: Liming Wu Mengda Wu Qianlian
It turns out that romance films are Liu Zhenwei's masterpiece, Douban 8 points.
Some people's love, the right time and place, but they have not been able to cherish, some people's love has no destiny, but it can survive to the end.
In the final analysis, it depends on your own choice, whether you follow God's arrangement or follow your own heart to make decisions.
"Urban Love" is about a love that has no destiny.
One is the younger brother Xiaowu who became a juvenile delinquent early, and the other is the eldest brother and girlfriend JOJO who is about to marry into a wealthy family. Two people who can't beat each other but fall in love because they accidentally grab each other's hand in the elevator.
No one is optimistic about their love. Everyone laughed and said: "My boyfriend has a wealth of money, you are overpowering."
But they never gave up on each other.
When they walked down a long staircase on their first date, JOJO kept meditating, "If the right foot lands first, then it will be missed, and if the left foot lands first, it will be destined."
When it was the last turn to land on the right foot, JOJOBut he jumped down the steps directly with his left foot.
She did not give her love to fate, but took it in her own hands.
Destiny helped her make a choice, but once again affirmed her determination to choose Xiaowu.
In choosing this matter, they both have their own insist on .
Xiaowu did not hesitate to assault the police to escape from prison, was knocked down and ripped apart, and also saw JOJO. He insisted on in love at any cost.
And JOJO's choice has always been Xiaowu, even if he was wronged and sent to jail, she never wavered.
stubbornly drags love into his own hands, makes his own choice, and sticks to this choice, it is enough to create fate for a seemingly "ridiculous" love.
"The secret of life"
Director: Naoko Ogigami
Starring: Touma Ikuta, Kenta Kiriya, Reika Kakihara Mimra Eiko Koike
This Japanese film is aimed at a small number of special groups of people, with a Douban score of 8.4.
LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) are still classified as weird and perverted in most people's minds. Their uniqueness seems to make them unworthy of love.
But the transgender Lunzi in the film is lucky. She has met relatives and lovers who understand her. Before
became a woman, she had a mother who understood her.
When Lunzi was confused by the idea that she wanted to have breasts, her mother was not shocked, but tenderly hugged her: "Yes, Lunzi was originally a girl."
She understood that Lunzi needs not to correct mistakes, and It is the understanding of mother . After
became a woman, she had a lover who was willing to form a family with her.
He hugged her when she was in pain, and dated her with her on a bright sunny day. Their love was happier and harder than others.
After all, the identity of Lunzi's "transgender" will always follow him.
But their love can still surpass the love of most people.
We always complain about women's nagging and men's carelessness in love, but we forget that true love is when you fall in love with someone, and everything else is no longer important.
If he loves you, it shouldn't be because of the good character, beauty and virtue in the eyes of others. He should love you, no matter what you become.
(the picture in this article comes from the Internet)
love has too many looks, and the pain it brings to everyone is not the same. The love in the 5 movies recommended by
today is not perfect, but these failed or bumpy loves can make us see our misunderstandings and blind spots in love.
keeps these negative teaching materials in mind, and stays vigilant at all times. Only by not repeating the same mistakes can we manage a more perfect love.
After all, love is not easy, and it should be done and cherished.
PS: The above 5 films can basically be found on "Bilibili Barrage Network", please evacuate to station b after clicking your thumb at the speed of light~
