You pay attention to me, I accompany you to love
Wen丨Xuan Xiaolei, also known as Mo Yang
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People who have watched "My First Half Life" should all find the character "Lao Jin" impressive.
He interprets that kind of disposition that is a bit wretched, has no pattern, is overpowered, but wants to save face very appropriately.
lets people see him, they feel that this person is really unpleasant, and it makes people feel like they are inexplicable.
Initially, Luo Zijun was in the "dead" period after divorce. This woman who had been a housewife for many years was divorced, dumped, and brought a boy, which is the "oil bottle" in the popular sense.
has not been in the workplace for a long time, has not studied for a long time, and is somewhat out of touch with society. When working again, he also seemed strange and terrified.
like this, Lao Jin is still somewhat confident in front of Luo Zijun. Although the car is not expensive, it is better than Luo Zijun, who does not have a car, so he always takes them to school and work.
However, Luo Zijun did not explicitly or eagerly accept this man, so he also bought a gas card as a favor to Lao Jin.
Luo Zijun might have thought that Lao Jin was an honest and good man, a kind-hearted, enthusiastic and unwilling man, but gradually discovered that this man has many problems.
He is not as simple and kind as he imagined, instead he has many savvy and uncomfortable qualities.
, especially the section where he was going to take Luo Zijun to meet his friends, let people see that he is not so simple. His low posture in front of Luo Zijun is just "bending over" in order to get it. If
is really with him, he must have a character like male chauvinism, it will be fully displayed. Those narrow thinking, those petty and selfish images that want face, really make people feel bad.
Luo Zijun just dressed up a little, but Lao Jin felt that her clothes and bags were too expensive, so she had to let her go home and change her jeans and flat shoes. The reason is that when his friends see Zijun like this, they will think that they "have a rich woman." When
heard this, I really had to laugh. You don't even look at your own image. Are there really conditions for such a young and beautiful rich woman? Isn't this too much thinking? The behavior of
which is not good enough for others and has to lower the quality of others is indeed a bit uncomfortable. As Zijun said: "I dress so simple and so plain, so what else?"
is not elegant, this dress, in Luo Zijun's view, is just ordinary, a little more formal, as a sign of attending a party That's polite.
And Lao Jin cares so much because of the word "face", and Luo Zijun has also exposed his thoughts and concerns. also feels that this man is indeed troublesome and verbose, making people a little speechless.
can also see how tired and troublesome it would be to get along with a man without a pattern and self-confidence. He thinks you are good, beautiful, rich and capable, and want to get it, but at the same time he is afraid that others will see that you are better than him.
may have fun in private, but in front of his circle and friends, he also wants to let him bow his head and surrender to him. It is best to admire and respect him very much, to show that he has face.
A man who has to think about face in such matters naturally has an inferiority complex in his bones. is inferior and unwilling to lower his posture, and wants to reach for something different from himself. If I can't get up, I want to pull others down. The psychology of
is unacceptable and annoying. Luo Zijun's gratitude and politeness to him before, also disappeared a lot at this moment.
she clearly told him: "Either go like this today, or you can tell your friends that you can't go today..."
was just for this, the man still chose not to take her to see his friend, acquiescing to Zijun Turned around and went home. It can be seen his stubbornness, as well as the rigidity and narrowness of the problem.
Luo Zijun also saw little by little that this man was not suitable for him, and ended up separating from him, but he thought he liked money for He Han.
By the way, I remember halfway through that he reminded Luo Zijun to the effect that Luo Zijun today cannot followCompare Tang Jing and He Han. The meaning of
is almost like saying: "You are just a divorced woman now, and you have a burden, so you have to see your weight. If I can see you, it is not bad. It is your blessing. Don't yearn for the life of the upper class. It's..."
tut, seeing his "reminder", I feel that the psychology of the man is still very gloomy, the mentality of dragging Luo Zijun into his "quagmire" is obvious, I can't wait, I am afraid she will pass. It's good, I can't reach it. A face like
is really not pretty. It was natural for Luo Zijun to clear up his relationship with him as soon as possible. Only in the end, he felt that Luo Zijun didn't want him because of the money.
But this is really not just a question of money, but a person's depth of thought, three views, temperament and other factors. The "good old man"
is actually not good at all, or "good old" is offensive, so if he has money or not, it is not the point. The point of
is that when Luo Zijun is with him, communication will be a problem. And the "face" problem he didn't have was just one of many problems.
