Wen | Xiao Hong'er's mother (this article is original, the copyright belongs to the author, welcome to forward and share personally)
Lead:
There are unfilial children in the world, and naturally there are unkind parents. It is said that tiger poison does not eat seeds, but real life is often more cruel than in the animal world. Many elders will have a phrase in their mouths, parents in the world. But is this sentence really the truth? In fact, it is not. Even sage Kong can make mistakes. As ordinary people, how can we surpass the virtues of saints. A five-year-old boy finished his birthday wish, and his fifth birthday immediately became the anniversary of his death. The culprit was his father.
Fathers are generally the objects of children's admiration, and they are also the stable backer behind the children. However, this father not only failed to take up the responsibility of being a father, but also abused his only son at will. Before the 5-year-old boy’s mother died, the boy could still enjoy the meager maternal love. But the good times didn't last long, and his mother died. Since then, the father often drinks and returns late, and the boy often cannot eat hot meals. In fact, his parents would give him some small toys for his birthday every year, but he didn't expect to get a lot of them when his mother passed away this year.
He just wanted to get a hug and a blessing from his father, but he didn't expect to pay the price of his life. When the father came home drunk in the middle of the night, he saw his son looking at him expectantly. The father didn't even think that today was his son's birthday, but he just kicked it when he felt his son was too annoying. The boy did not resist and could not resist. He did not expect that the nightmare was not over yet. His father still felt unhappy and continued to catch up and punch and kick the boy, but he didn't expect to punch the boy to the hospital. After
checked in the hospital, the doctor looked at the boy's haggard face and shook his head helplessly. The little boy looked at the white ceiling with dizzy pupils and said : "I want my father to die." What happened to the boy was distressing. The boy would die because of his father's overwhelming vent. Parents’ beating and scolding education can sometimes even endanger the child’s life.
So what kind of harm will the parent’s beating and scolding education cause to the child?
1, will cause a psychological shadow to the child
Parents’ beating and scolding education will cause a psychological shadow to the child. And it is a lifelong psychological shadow that will make the child not feel the warmth of the family. This kind of shadow makes children lose self-confidence and makes children feel that life is very painful. For a long time, children will hate their parents. When they grow up, they may become unfilial or even separate from their parents. What's more, at a young age, the child will commit suicide.
2, will make the child become introverted and low self-esteem
Parental spanking and scolding education will make the child lack of parental and maternal love. Children who have been short of love for a long time will feel that they are a little shorter than others, which will make the child become introverted and inferior. Once a child becomes introverted and inferior, he will put a shackle on his spirit. Over time, the child will become very numb, and it will make the child only know to compromise and please when things happen.
3, will make the child the next "violent"
Parents' beating and scolding education will make the child the next "violent". Children will not have the feeling of cherishing and respecting people and things, but will rely on violence to solve all problems. The most frightening thing is that when children have a family, this kind of beating and scolding education will be passed down, and subsequent children and grandchildren will be innocent victims.
Parents educate their children to be measured and should not regard their children as a punching bag to vent their emotions. I would like to remind everyone here that adults have no eyesight, and they still have to rely on reasoning and guidance to treat children.
So what do you think about the topic of ""I want to let my father die", the child said his birthday wish, the 5th birthday becomes the anniversary of his death? Welcome everyone to leave comments below!
(The pictures are all from the Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete!)
I am Xiao Hong’er’s mother, the mother of a 2-year-old baby, alsoIs a senior nursery teacher.
For more parenting knowledge, please follow us, like this article, please share it with more people, don’t forget to like + forward
