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family and Leyou inheritance
Queshan County No. 1 Junior High School Gao Yanqin
My two-year-old girl loves to eat fruit. I cut the melon, and the girl hurriedly grabbed a piece of melon to eat. I grabbed her hand and asked her, "Who should I give the first piece?" Niuniu said, "Grandpa! Grandpa go!" She said that Grandpa is not at home. So I asked my son to take the little girl to his grandpa’s bedroom to see if grandpa was still taking a nap. If grandpa was there, he would ask grandpa to eat a melon. The first piece must be given to grandpa.
The two children came back and said, Grandpa is not here, and they should go out. I said, "Let’s save this half for grandpa first? Let’s eat this half together." Niuniu grabbed a piece, first gave it to her brother, and then grabbed a piece and said, "Mom, eat!" Then she took a bite. , Smiled sweetly. The son also enjoyed the feeling of being respected, and smiled and said, "It's about the same!" Then he put it back because he didn't like to eat.
"Brother is friend, brother is respectful. You are good to your sister, and your sister thinks about you if you have something delicious, right? This is ˋBrother is friend, sister is respectful!" I said to my son without losing the opportunity . The son nodded with a grin.
I love learning online. After knowing the importance of reading classics, I met many parents who insist on taking their children to read classics. Once a teacher of mine was very "stubborn" admonishing me to read "The Rules of Disciples" and to follow the instructions above. So I started to read the "Disciple Guidance" with my children and tried to learn as much as possible. The son of
was six years old at the time. When I took my son to read, the grandfather of the child was quite opposed. He believed that instead of dealing with Lao Shizi’s "Disciples Regulations", it would be better to recite the "Three Characters", "Hundred Family Names", and "Thousand Characters". "It's really not good, there are so many Tang poems to choose from! Under the gloomy face of the old man, I insisted on taking my son to finish the "Guide for Disciples". After reading it, I realized that this is a "thousand-character essay" that guides people's code of conduct!
So, I took the lead: At the table, if the grandfather of the child did not eat the first meal, we decided not to take chopsticks; if there is delicious and rare food, let the grandpa taste it first; The address for the elders; you must greet your elders when you go to work and school. When you get home, tell your elders first: "I'm back!"
The father of the child is the only child, so he is more pampered, especially at the dining table. He, he started eating as soon as he arrived in the kitchen, and he didn't care about image and manners at all, and the grandfather of the child was used to it. I made these "red tapes", the old man seemed very impatient: let him eat first, he always waved his hand and said, "Don't wait for me, you will eat first!" The child asked him to eat fruit, he always said: " Okay, thank you. I’m not going to eat, you eat!” When I sent my child to school to greet him, he always said: “Okay, you’re gone, you don’t need to tell me later!”
I persuaded the father that the child should learn Share, give you something delicious first, even if you don’t eat it, you have to take it instead of returning it to your child immediately. I do the rest as usual. Slowly, I discovered that the old man also enjoyed the feeling that he was sitting at the dining table with food and chopsticks in front of him, and he didn't need to stand up to add food and soup. One morning, I didn’t get up until six o’clock to cook and I was a bit panicked. It happened that I had to arrive at the unit early on duty, so I prepared my son’s meal and kept it cold. I was cooking while eating. I prepared the meal and I said apologetically: " Dad, I’m waiting in a hurry today. I didn’t wait for you. My child and I will eat first!” Unexpectedly, the old man said with a black face, “Wait for me to cure (in dialect, what do you mean)! I’m old, not in Used it!" I was speechless for a while. After thinking about it, it should be that the old man was used to the first feeling of using his chopsticks. I didn't ask for instructions in advance. I told him when the food was ready and the cart was left. He was very uncomfortable and uncomfortable. I couldn't help laughing.
seems inadvertently, many details are also changing: now I get off work late, the pot will leave me a meal alone. In the past, the old man would say loudly: "I'm sorry, I didn't wait for you, I just ate first, you hurry up to serve the rice, come and eat!" "Haha, today's food is a little less fried, I'm almost done eating I'm sorry!" He would say that he would unintentionally hold the poor dishes on the plate and continue to eat... Now, the father will direct his son to serve me with a stool and move the stool, saying that there are vegetables in the pot. There are a few dishes of various colors, and sometimes there are only two plates of dishes left! Sometimes, the old man would criticize his son for being selfish and ask him to leave something delicious for his sister. Father is over sixty-six years oldOn his birthday, I specially cut him seven kilograms of meat (our custom here is that when the elderly reach the age of sixty-six, the daughter will cut six kilograms of six taels of meat, which means that he is blessed and there is meat to eat when he is old). The old man was very happy. He cooked a few special dishes for lunch and drank two glasses of wine.
is about to harvest the wheat, my nanny left because there was a harvester at home. The nanny is not away for three or five days, but more than a month. What about the two-year-old girl? We hurriedly looked for a nanny, but unfortunately we did not take advantage of our wishes, and finally decided to send the girl to the kindergarten, although the age is indeed young, less than two and a half years old, the kindergarten is not willing to accept it. The old man took the initiative to take care of the girl: "It's just the last month, and the child will not go to the kindergarten for a few days, and the child will cry too much. Besides, taking care of the girl is not tiring now, it is very easy to take care of. I take my trousers and my trousers, so I feel relieved when I eat and drink. I take it with me!” Oh, in fact, we are all worried that the old man is too old and can’t take care of his energy, so he thought about sending the girl to kindergarten. , Not to mention that he has to pick up his son after school. As for the son of
, it is rare that the only child suddenly becomes jealous of a little sister. Although he likes to put on the air of his elder brother and likes to ask his sister to give him the delicious food first, he also takes good care of his sister. He always helped me coax Niuniu to play when I was busy cooking. Many times I saw Niuniu riding on my son's back as if riding a horse triumphantly! Whenever I said that I was going to eat, Niuniu always raised her face and shouted in the direction of her son: "Brother, eat!" Niuniu would always grab her favorite fruit to her brother, with a flattering smile.
Whenever I see my son and Niuniu chasing each other on a stroller in the yard, I feel very happy! Special thanks to the teacher who repeatedly admonished me to learn "The Rules of Disciples"!
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family style, family motto, family rules,
, Shigunhe Town Junior High School, Queshan County, Sun Yujie
. Pixing Dongpo sowing, wearing Yue Nanling and hoe, the fruits are exchanged for some gold, and they are scattered into sister and brother pen paper. The mother repeated the patch while the father renovated the soil barefoot. My uncle was exhausted and uncle wanted to go all out. The poor and lowly accompany each other to help each other, and the Shangchang family is flourishing. I am young and I know hard work. Three years of rolling noodles, standing on high chairs, five years of carrying water into the kitchen, seven years old to pull cows and sheep and pigs, eight years old to cut grass for cold winter storage, nine years old to grow tobacco to welcome the sunrise, ten years to harvest wheat and step into the summer soil. Parents pass the word from the village,
sons and daughters sensible neighbors envy. Looking at the sky, asking Xiaokuo, the blue sky is sentimental to bless Huanian. Although the family is poor, they are not afraid of hardship, and the young and old are responsible. The family tradition is obvious: hardworking and personal, life-long benefit. It is said that good things are born frugal, since ancient times, Guar
has been bitter but sweet.
dropped out of school and went out, and his siblings sought knowledge hard. Repeated arithmetic on thin paper, laid out words in Changlu, went to the ground immediately after school, and read under the dark lights. My father said few words and taught his hands and feet skills: ingenuity, get rich sooner or later; down-to-earth, to be vulgar. The mother is kind and compassionate, and the parenting method is special: repeated teaching is a thunderbolt, repent and self-examination. As the years go by, as the years get longer, the emperor will live up to it, and he will have the poems of sages. The county recruited teachers, won the top prize, sharpened his sword for ten years, and became a teacher once on stage. Looking back, remembering the past, the vicissitudes of life are vivid. Although the family is poor, hard work is not forgotten, and there will be rewards. The family tradition is obvious: Father is generous and mother is strict, complementing each other. It is said that if a person's survivor is ten thousand gold, I will keep a book.
still remembers teeth but not shy, uncle is a poor guest, mother cooks and refurbishes, clever women have no misfortune. Jiuji's eggs don't make a plate, and it's rare to serve the dinner table. Everyone is hungry and smells the fragrance, and eats a meal. My mother respected my uncle, and from time to time she added dishes to show her enthusiasm, and the whole family was immersed in happiness. My young heart moved a lot. Taking advantage of my uncle’s unpreparedness, I picked up the egg tray and put it into his bowl. Haha laughed to the family, mother didn't need chopsticks to search, and in a flash, the eggs were put into the uncle's bowl. What if Xiaojie wants to eat? With a startled laugh, my aunt kissed Xiaojie's face, and the stubble hurt me. In this scene, my uncle laughed at me year after year, with warmth in the words. Jie is ignorant of his childhood, and his uncle often embraces, amuses, inspires, guides and sings continuously. Uncle
has been a teacher for life, and his name has been spread all over the world. He speaks witty and arrogant, calmly retreating from the hooligans, making him feel ashamed and willing; seeing poor neighbors, he is kind and friendly, leaving no traces to send warmth, making his livelihood hopeful. Teach the daddy that he is neither humble nor arrogant, and speak up to the ignorant naughty boy.
uncle clank ironBone, brilliant and resourceful, friendly and good-neighborly, Sansheng has been fortunate to be his student and has a lot of memorabilia so far. I have no regrets and benefited a lot from his mentor. Jie has a deep and strong nature, and his uncle teaches patience. Jieai is frank and has no city, and his uncle often grants tolerance. Good medicine is not bitter, don't go against your ears, keep in mind that you don't dare to forget the slightest, always pay and do everything and never change. On weekdays, my mother often said that my siblings were parents, and they were educating my siblings and aunts. Although the family is poor, the ambition is not short, and the talents help each other. Family motto: Be grateful and be kind. It is said that the grace of dripping water will repay the spring, and the world is for good.
Unforgettable preschool small class, poor family and no money to eat and wear. Classmates chewed hawthorn slices and salivated looking at the corners of their mouths. I vomit chewing gum, hate itchy gums. Unable to resist the temptation, steal the mother's money nest. Unexpectedly, the East Window incident, the needle was pulled along the earlobe line. Kneeling in the courtyard until midnight, the cold wind made me ashamed. My mother stood at the window and taught me to be honest. Nowadays, the times have changed, and I don’t perforate my ears at 30. Although the family is poor, it does not lose its duty. House rules are strict and no cheating is allowed. It is said that Qi Qi is a villain and a true gentleman.
The family style is hardworking and thrifty, just like the east wind is blowing; the family motto is grateful and kind, like flowers blooming; the family rules are sincere and honest, and the original intention remains unchanged.
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good family style, speechless teaching
Queshan County Fifth Elementary School Li Liangui
"Shanzi, look at your meal so many dishes, so many lights in a room at night! Yes, you are rich today, but you must not forget your roots as a human being. You are the son of a farmer. You must always remember this to me!" From the home of Zhao Benshan, a famous comedian in Tieling City, Liaoning, it was reported that he was more than 80 years old. Father's roar.
At the beginning of the Chinese New Year in 2014, when CCTV launched an interview on the topic of "family style", Zhao Benshan recalled the above scene again. He said: "My hair was gray at the time, but my father still scolded me in front of so many apprentices, saying that I was not frugal enough. It is with such a strict family tradition that I established my own principles of life. That is, "Be kind-hearted, learn to respect others; be open-minded and let go. "
Following the media's publicity and reports, the word family style inadvertently broke into everyone's vision. Although we are familiar with this word, what is family style? I am afraid that different people will have different answers:
Northern Song Dynasty Sima Guangguan, a politician and historian, has a high authority, and he has been the emperor of the four dynasties such as Renzong and Yingzong. However, he was stricter than his father and paid great attention to cultivating his children's self-discipline and self-reliance. His son: "Frugality leads to fame, luxury leads to self-defeating."
Reagan, who was once the president of the United States, is well-known and wealthy. But he has high demands on his children and will never let them depend on him. His son is unemployed. Later, while looking for work, while living by receiving relief funds. "You must be self-reliant, honest and upright people, and you can never expect to take a son from me. "
Talking about family tradition, our beloved Chairman Mao Zedong’s grandson Mao Xinyu said that people in the Mao family do not do business and make no money. From my mother to my generation, they live on wages. "Low-key life and cleanliness belong to the Mao family. Family style".
Zhou Enlai’s niece, Zhou Bingde, said that my uncle asked us to live a simple life like the people of the whole country. Our Zhou family brothers and sisters are ordinary people, no one is a high official, no one makes a lot of money in business, no small car, no big house. Son. "Being a down-to-earth person is the family tradition of our Zhou family. "
is low-key, incorrupt, ordinary, law-abiding, self-reliant, honest, and integrity... Reading these great people's family style is moving and infinitely emotional!
friends, throughout the ages, family style is important to a family or clan The core of energy is the behavioral principles and moral norms that all family members must follow. As a moisturizing and silent moral force, family style purifies the soul of every family member all the time. It is the most traceless education.
In the history of the United States, there are two famous families called Edward and Zhuke, and their family traditions have been passed down for eight generations. The old Edward is a learned and talented philosopher, hardworking, rigorous, and rigorous for his children. Demeanor. Among his descendants, there are 13 university presidents, more than 80 writers, more than 60 doctors, one has served as vice president, one has served as ambassador, and more than 20 have served as parliamentarians. Old Zhuke is A well-known drunkard and gambler, he is cynical, unconscious and doing nothing. His descendants have more than 300 beggars and wanderers, more than 400People were disabled or died prematurely due to alcohol abuse, more than 60 people have committed fraud and theft, 7 people were murderers, and none of them were promising.
Facts have proved that the family traditions of the two families have a subtle influence on the offspring, from father to son, descendant from grandchildren, descendants from generation to generation, and continue each other from generation to generation, and they are developing towards both ends on the big stage of society. Therefore, the quality of the family tradition directly determines the success of the children, and not only the current generation. This is just like Suhomlinsky’s famous educational saying: “Fathers and mothers, you continue to be in your children!”
Indeed, family style is a comprehensive educational force, which influences the lives of family members through daily life An invisible force of habits and ways of thinking. For children, it is a kind of speechless teaching, wordless classics, which is the most basic, most direct and most frequent education. In life, everyone’s world outlook, outlook on life, values, character characteristics, moral qualities, and dealing with others are all imprinted by family traditions!
The ancients said, “Don’t take evil for small things, and don’t take good things instead of small things. "Let us look at the subtleties, start from the little things, for the bright future of our children and grandchildren, for the warmth and harmony of the world, and to be the creators, practitioners and implementers of "good family style". Leave a beautiful scenery to the society, let our great motherland become a highly civilized and prosperous big family!
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without good tutoring, there is no good family style
Queshan County No. 2 Junior High School Ma Linlin
family style and family education are inseparable. Excellent family style catalyzes excellent family education, and excellent family education breeds excellent children and grandchildren. Parents are our first enlightenment teachers, filial piety to the elderly, kind people, family unity, parents set us a role model as soon as we can remember.
once read such a sentence from a book. Every child is like a book. To understand this book, we need to constantly master the essentials. When the child quack falls to the ground, the first thing we see is the parent. From this time on, we must always set a good example for the child. If we say: family is the child's first lesson. Then, the parents are the children's first teachers, and the parents are the important guides for the children. The parents' own quality and their words and deeds all play an important role in the development of the children.
cultivates the good character that children use throughout their lives.
"Sown a behavior to reap a habit, sow a habit to reap a character, and plant a character to reap a destiny." Good character will benefit children throughout their lives. We must educate our children from an early age to be kind, polite, honest, and trustworthy. Always educate them to respect the elderly and educate them to help their elders serve meals during meals. When there are guests, you must know how to come forward and greet the guests and so on.
Be thrifty, lead by example, and be a good example of education.
Diligence and frugality are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. My parents say in their daily life: "One hard work in the world, there is peace in one hundred forbearance hall" and "Diligence can make up for the clumsiness". Encourage children and grandchildren to study and work must be diligent and diligent. "It's a shame that just hardworking and frugal, the fruitful results will be wasted in vain.
There were many good examples of family education in ancient China, such as the three migrations of Meng's mother and mother-in-law tattoos. We always talk to students about going home after school to help parents do what they can, and we must be diligent and thrifty in our lives, and don't advocate extravagance and waste.
has such a story: it is a story that happened to a mother and a child.
The word diligence and thrift has always been in the heart of the child, but he has never understood what thrift is, and always feels that it seems to be far away from me. It wasn't until an event that happened when he was 9 that he deeply understood the meaning of thrift. That day, his mother asked him to buy a bag of vinegar. When he went to the store, he gave the money to the salesperson's aunt. The aunt smiled and put a bag of vinegar in his pocket and stuffed the dime in his hand. When
got home, he handed the vinegar to his mother and threw the recovered dime into the trash can. His mother asked him how to do that, and he said, "What's the use of keeping a dime? You can't buy anything. Just throw it away." His mother said, "That's not good. Although a dime is small, it is still money. If you gather less and grow more, it will be a lot of money in the future. You have to learn to cherish and be frugal." Then he picked up the dime and put it in a small box.
From then on, he and his mother put change in the small box, forming a good habit of thrift. Frugal, totalIt means to cherish the existing items, because every item has been paid or even hard-earned, and should be cherished even more. The purpose of
educating children and the duty of a parent is to let children learn to be humble, help others, respect teachers, and respect their elders. This may be an old education method. But as long as we have more patience, less irritability, more care, and less scolding, we may receive different effects. We know that parents are the objects of children's imitation, and the subtle influence will have different effects on children. Everyone says: There is a limit to life, but there is no limit to learning. As a parent, strengthen learning and scientific parenting, and strive to achieve family education and school education to grow together, actively cooperate with the school and teacher’s educational policy, and create a better for the healthy growth of children The vast blue sky.
Family education is the starting point of education, and only a good family education will have a good family tradition. If every child can grow up in a good family environment, it is not only the happiness of the children, but also the happiness of our country.
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talk about the importance of family style
Queshan County Second Junior High School Mei Caiyun
Some people say "home is the first school, and parents are the children's first teachers." Not fake. Only when the seedlings are moistened by rain and dew can they thrive. Children can excel only under the influence of good family style.
Family is the cell of society. Family civilization is not only the epitome of social civilization, but can also influence and change social atmosphere and create new social trends. Therefore, the construction and inheritance of a good family tradition is very important to us.
A good family tradition is the accumulation and inheritance of good quality in the family, and it is a precious spiritual wealth left to each member of the family. In ancient times, there was benevolence, wisdom, courtesy, righteousness, and diligence, filial piety, and thoughtfulness. , Each has its own merits: either benevolent and generous, father is kind and filial, brothers are harmonious, neighbors are friendly; or diligent and thrifty, often cherish the hard-won idea of one porridge and one meal, rely on diligence to build a family and work together, pay attention to economy and plan carefully; or be a person by duty, not To be prosperous, to be dedicated and honest to others. All of the above, invisibly affect the family and benefit the children for life, their value is inexhaustible and inexhaustible.
However, the formation of a good family tradition is by no means an overnight effort. It requires long-term nurturing and accumulation. Education should be strengthened, repeated training, and development should be emphasized to become the consciousness and behavior of each member.
The first parents must do a good job in passing and leading. Parents are the invisible power that shapes children. Their ears and eyes affect the formation of their children’s worldview. Your dressing, manners, viewpoints, reception of people, etc. all have a subtle influence on your children. This morality should be understood by everyone.
Second, we must create an atmosphere of advocating learning in the family. The ancients said, "You can't learn aspirations without learning, nor can you learn to broaden your talents." Let the family have a more book fragrance. After dinner, read books, read newspapers, and talk about things, so that the family can get more enlightenment and enlightenment. Swimming in the sea of books in a quiet family environment can always give people a calm mood and make people gain something and feel something.
Third, we must create a harmonious and civilized family environment. It is clean, bright, tidy and orderly both at home and outside. When visiting a friend’s house, some families also pay attention to the family culture and family education culture. They hang inspiring family mottos, such as "Accumulate funds and jade are not as good as books to teach children, and don’t be generous to others", "Family and everything are happy" Wait, let people be in it, produce a good psychological state, and a fresh and elegant feeling emerges spontaneously.
A good family tradition is a good school. The way of education is permeated in close contact in all aspects. Faithful guidance, cordial teaching, enthusiastic encouragement, strict requirements, all affect every member of the family, and affect the neighborhood and society . Let everyone pay attention to the construction of family civilization and leave a harmony and warmth to the society.
Dear parents and friends, let us work together to create a new world for our children, so that they can thrive under the influence of excellent family style!
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Female reading is a beautiful touch of the new era
Puhuisi Town Junior High School Creep in Queshan County
Mrs. Curie once said: "When you were 17 years old, you were not beautiful. You can blame your mother for not having inheritance. Good looks; but still not pretty at 30, you can only blame yourself, because in such a long day, you have not been in lifeInject new things. "And I think the new things should be knowledge and accomplishment. Because the true beauty of women lies not only in appearance, but also in her knowledge, accomplishment, and self-confidence. As women in the new era, we must let reading decorate our connotation. Let women's reading become the most beautiful color in the new era!
Let the soul fly in reading
In life, we often see women who complain and complain, which is what we often call grudges. They are covered by strong oily smoke. They are completely surrounded by the taste; they are taken away by the family trivialities of women's unique virtuousness; they are damaged by the parents’ shortcomings. I guess they absolutely do not like to read. Women who love to read will adjust their mood and take their good life The atmosphere affects others. Reading is undoubtedly the best enjoyment for housewives. After all the busyness, when encountering troubles in life, we need a good book to comfort ourselves, because we can be in the ocean of books Find your own sky and let your ideals and souls fly. Therefore, a book at this time may be our best friend, let our pressure be released, and our soul can be quiet. When we finish reading a book, There will be an unspeakable tranquility, vastness, and comfort in the heart.
enhances the temperament in reading
beauty is like the fruit of summer, which is perishable and difficult to maintain. For women to be beautiful and smart, they must be graceful. The ancients said: There is a poem and book, so women who love to read often have a different temperament. Reading increases self-confidence, and reading can enhance their own charm. Women who love to read not only have a broader vision, but also More extensive knowledge, but also further expanded her circle of friends. Because she loves to read, she exudes charming charm from the inside out, which makes her radiant. A woman who is not luxuriously dressed but has poetry and books in her belly, It is awe-inspiring. The temperament of a woman who likes to read has nothing to do with her appearance, but pure reading influence.
builds harmony in reading
women are the core of the family. So the harmony of a family, women are the key. In the eyes of a husband, a woman is a life-long companion, who will jointly shoulder the responsibilities and obligations entrusted to us by marriage, filial piety to parents, teach children, respect and love each other, trust and encourage each other, mutual understanding and accommodation, and mutual support. To do this, We must be wise. We must improve ourselves in reading, enrich our brains, and be a strong backing for husbands; in the eyes of children, mothers are the most credible and dependable, and mothers must give their children more than just food The care of life with warm clothes should also establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values for the child, and a happy attitude towards life. He must learn to listen when he is happy, answer questions when he is confused, and give encouragement when he is in trouble When you are anxious, you have to eliminate emotions, which invisibly requires a mother to have deep ideological connotations. And where does this ideological connotation come from? It is learned from reading and refined in books. In view of the uniqueness of women in family life Role, let us become women who love to read!
reading is no longer For personal matters, the national reading activity is written into the report of the Party’s 18th National Congress and the government work report, so that the concept of national reading is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. It will affect the society, the real mental state and the long-term spiritual trend of the whole nation. Inspiring the national spirit is the unshirkable responsibility and obligation of every family and every citizen. In the new era, new women, we must also join the ranks of the nation to read and light up the Chinese dream. Be a scholarly woman and make women's reading the most beautiful color in the new era!
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Accompany the baby to grow up, share a ray of scholarship
Zhang Yingying, Lao Zangzhuang Primary School, Sanlihe Township, Queshan County,
For parents, children are the best gift from God, but for children , The best gift is to accompany him to grow up, Su Shiyun: He has poetry and book spirit. The sweetest time to accompany a child is to travel the sea of books with him and share the fragrance of books.
In 2016, with the birth of my daughter, I had the first six months to accompany her. One day, I watched my daughter babble, as if telling me something. This gave me an idea, so I could read to her. The idea of listening. So, he took a nursery rhyme and read it to her. At first, the daughter happily grabbed her little hands in the air, while her little head stretched upwards, as if saying: Mom, let me see! This cute daughter The attitude gave me the motivation to continue reading to her.
My daughter became more interested in books when she was more than eight months old.From the beginning of biting books and playing with books to the present "love books", she would use her immature little hands to love her books and pile them together, and once muttered: "Reading..." But I know the child is still young. Reading is just a fun thing for her, and I must not save a kilometer of heart. This kind of means "just ask for hard work but not about harvest". It just adds the book to her young world. It's an interesting thing. When I watched her immature hands pick up a small children's picture book, my world seemed to be brighter.
As time goes by, my daughter gradually grows up. I found that my daughter can remember the words and phrases I read for her. It was a sunny afternoon, and the warm wind was blowing slightly, and my daughter was cleverly lying on my chest. I read poems to her as usual. When I read "Hohe Ridang...", my daughter's breasts took a gratifying sentence: "Noon -----" Then she looked at me with a smile. My daughter’s move made me flattered, and it also made me understand that my daughter needs a sense of accomplishment in studying just like me! This interesting game turned into a "one-man show" for my daughter. She can recite a few simple ancient poems. Such as "Goose", "Hoe Wo" and so on.
Reading together brought me and my daughter a lot of happiness. When my daughter was younger and older, I found that she had a keen interest in stories. Every night, when my daughter was not asleep, she always rubbed her eyes and said: "Mom, telling the story of the moon (the story of the monkey fishing the moon) telling about the Pig Bajie, I held my daughter in one hand and the story book in the other, gently telling the little world in the story. This has become our daily compulsory course. After class, at this moment, looking at my daughter’s childish face, I feel very happy. The same feeling makes me get closer and closer to her.......
Maybe, the story is a good teacher, and my daughter had it when she was less than two years old. What she thinks and feels, she will be happy because the little tadpole finds her mother, will cry because the puppy’s food is taken away, will be afraid and worried because the big bad wolf knocks on the little rabbit’s door... Whether it’s joy or sadness, these The emotions of truth, kindness and beauty will take root in her young heart and grow with her, affecting her life. Some people say that we cannot determine the length of life, but we can expand its width. A good book that benefits people is just one time. The expansion of life, "Snow White" let her know what kindness is, "Three Character Classic" let her daughter know what is polite...
time slips through our fingers, and the books we have read with our daughter are also quietly As it became thicker, I was also pleasantly surprised to find that "parent-child reading" also exerts a certain magical power. My daughter shows stronger language expression and literacy skills than children of the same age. I especially enjoy this happiness, as Shakespeare once said: " There is no book in life, it is like there is no sunshine, and there is no book in wisdom, it is like a bird without wings. "Yes, a person without a book is like a river without fish, accompany the baby to grow up, share a scent of scholarship, and lead the child to a deeper and more distant world, a scent of scholarship, a self-respectful temperament, and wish her daughter to be immersed in the fragrance of books Grow up sturdily, and may your world be colorful under the guidance of the book!
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teaches and teaches people the truth
Queshan County Lixindian Middle School Han Xiaoli
cousin take her grandson in the city after retirement, I came back to sweep the grave for my brother-in-law on Ching Ming Festival. At night, we were together to talk about ourselves. My cousin kept wiping tears for the brother-in-law who died young and for the son who was unsatisfactory. The next day, I told my cousin about her tears. Husband said. This person has a cold face, and for a long time he jumped out: "Cousin has today, it's time! "I was very angry when I heard it, but I didn't have the courage to quarrel with him, because from the bottom of my heart, I also recognized what he said. The nephew of
is 30 years old this year. After graduating from university, he kept looking for work and stopped working for a while. Now I work as a dad at home and take care of the children with my cousin. Relatives persuade him to find a job, but he can’t get in. How can a highly educated young man become a bug? The root is that his cousin loves him too much The cousin
served as a soldier in Fujian when she was young, and her nephew was brought up by her cousin. She really held the child in her hand for fear of falling, and she was afraid of turning it in her mouth. Since she was young, her nephew hardly did housework. One year my cousin and my brother-in-law were shoveling peanuts in the field. Just after it rained, the peanut field was full of water. My cousin called us to help. I asked my nephew what he was doing. My cousin said that he was drinking with classmates. I told him to come back. To help, my cousin said, "He hasn't been on the ground since he was a child, so what would he do? "
is at home for the New Year this year. My cousin called to pick some vegetables from her vegetable garden. I said let my nephewWhen she went, she opened her mouth and said: "He doesn't know where my vegetable garden is."
Queshan County is recruiting teachers this year. I called my cousin and asked my nephew to apply for the exam. My cousin was very positive this time, and she gave it to my nephew. Having said that, the result was a rush. The cousin now fully understands that her most beloved son has now grown into a crooked neck tree, and that the biggest failure of her life as a retired teacher is "specializing teaching" and not teaching her son to "be human".
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: "Mr. should not be dedicated to teaching, his responsibility is to teach others; students should not be dedicated to studying, his responsibility is to learn the way of life". Mr. Tao also said, "Teach thousands of teachings, teach people to seek truth; learn thousands of studies, learn to be a real person." But in real life, many parents are "specializing in teaching" like their cousins, hoping for their children to become talents, intentionally or unconsciously neglecting to teach their children to "be human", and waiting until their children grow from a small slim pine tree into a crooked tree. When the Four Ailanthus altissima trees thumped their chests and feet, they were too late to regret.
Parents hope that their children will "become a dragon and become a phoenix", but if they want their children to become talents, they must first learn to be human.
To be a good role model is to teach children the first priority. The cousin's husband liked to smoke before his death, and the cousin liked to play mahjong on holidays. After a long time, his nephew would smoke and drink and play cards at a young age. After he learned how to eat his job, he would go out and play with friends. It can be said that the cousin and brother-in-law have caused a serious negative impact on the children and planted the seeds of the children's bad learning. Suhomlinsky’s words are worthy of every parent’s comprehension: “Every moment, when you see your child, you also see yourself; when you educate your children, you also educate yourself and test your own personality.”
teaches children how to behave. A very important one is to teach children to be filial. Filial piety is the foundation of all morals and the foundation of life. A flawless jade can be a national implement; a son of filial piety can be a national treasure. How to cultivate children's filial piety? You can start from the following aspects: to honor the elderly with the children. When parents visit their parents (children's grandparents, grandparents), they should bring their children with them, and let the children see with their own eyes how their parents respect their parents. Let children feel the hardships of their parents, and provide opportunities for children to honor their parents. Ask your children to be confident when they do things for the elderly. When a parent is ill or unwell, ask the child to do what he should do, such as taking water and medicine or accompany him to see a doctor. Don't be afraid to delay his study time. Let the children celebrate their parents' birthdays. Let the children remember the birthdays of mom and dad. For children above junior high school, it is completely possible for the child to host the birthday to mom and dad. Let the children experience the hardships of their parents. You might as well tell your child about your daily work, or take your child to one or two classes to let him know what you do every day and what difficulties you have in your work. In short, let the child see and experience the difficulties of his parents and let him hear the parents say "I am very hard."
train children to be honest and trustworthy. Honesty is the foundation of being a human being, and keeping promises is the first principle when interacting with others. Honesty is the only way to cultivate a healthy personality for children so that children can be honest. There are almost no children in the world who never lie. Faced with a child’s lying, parents must analyze the reason for the child’s lying after knowing the child’s lying, and make use of the situation to explain the dangers of lying.
helps children build self-confidence. Every child is eager for success, especially after he is successful for the first time, parents should applaud for him. This will be the greatest encouragement to the child, so that he is full of confidence in the prospects and gains self-confidence. Be good at discovering the shining points on your child, don't always look at your child critically, don't compare your child with other children horizontally, find your child's little progress, promptly give praise and rewards to make them more confident!
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Talking about the way of husband and wife
Shao Jinggai of Xiezhuang Primary School, Lixindian Town, Queshan County
Mentioning the way of husband and wife, there is no doubt that harmony, happiness, and happiness will appear in people’s minds. The scenes, so these scenes are innate and exist at the beginning of getting along? The answer is obviously no. I think superficially: it is the result of the collision of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, and trivial things in life...
and her husband met, although it did not make people The enviable romantic was met in the old way of being introduced by a matchmaker, but the process is also ridiculous. Now every time we mention it, it is a joke between us that we laugh at each other: when we were in high school with my husband, we were students in the same school, although it is also Once in a class, But I didn’t know it before being introduced by a matchmaker. I only knew which teacher taught me that year and the class I was in when I was chatting. Maybe it’s a rare case for my classmates to be like us? Classmates belong to classmates, but classmates are still acceptable, but if we are promoted to boyfriends and girlfriends or get married, I think we are not suitable, because the personality difference between my husband and I is really too great. In a popular saying, I am a typical female man, and my husband looks like a gentle and dignified Xiaojiabiyu in appearance and personality. At that time, I felt that even being a friend could not be a close friend. After turning down the matchmaker, the husband showed his perseverance. After get off work every day, he would go to my unit to play for a while, pretending to be very familiar with the chat. Although he got acquainted, he always felt that it was just Only a shallow friend, when it comes to marriage, I always feel that he is not my beloved. Later, the matchmaker urged me to say: You talked for so long, and it’s not too young. It's time to get married! The matchmaker’s words shocked me, what? marry? ! We just met, chatting occasionally! We did not talk! The matchmaker said: Stop talking nonsense. We have lived together for such a long time. Why don't you call it talk? ! A word stunned me like a thunderstorm, my god! At that time, you didn't know it. I was shocked, wronged and at a loss. It was a huge injustice. I want to say: Have we really talked about it yet? We haven't even pulled our hands! It was said that they lived together for so long? ! Also, in retrospect, when my husband left work, he went to our unit. When he went there, everyone just saw him just after get off work, but when they left, no one saw them. It is no wonder that others thought they were living together. Yes, this misunderstanding made me, who was feudal and conservative in my bones, let my husband pick up a wife for nothing. (Haha, I always thought it jokingly) Even though the three views of personality, outlook on life, and values are not in harmony, I still pinch my nose.
But it’s always easy to say, but it’s really hard to do. Don’t talk about anything else, just some things before and after marriage made me almost disappointed in our marriage: according to rural customs, before marriage, the man should bring Asking the woman to buy "Yingyi", although he is an only child, his family is considered rich, but his parents and him are accustomed to money all the year round. I always like to buy clothes that are cheap and affordable, and I think marriage is a lifetime event, and everything is about quality. , Talk about brand, talk about taste, so for the first time we blushed in front of his parents. Although I didn't like it, I didn't break up anymore. I thought that maybe I couldn't break up, so I told myself: endure it. Once you have chosen to get married, just endure it and do it. Who knows, this is just the beginning. In many things in the future, he will show the "small" in Xiaojiabiyu everywhere. After blushing and running in, I finally fulfilled my wish even in the unpleasantness. I slowly discovered that although my husband and I are at odds with each other in many places, he has one of the biggest characteristics: he can compromise and compromise! It is very suitable to use a classic line in Zhao Benshan's sketch: change it if you make a mistake, repeat it after you change it, and work hard!
Yes, although my husband and I started in desperation, the ending is beautiful. We have been in the same boat for at least 17 years, and we also have a pair of smart and lovely daughters. Sometimes even though we were angry, we skipped over. In the first few years, I also threatened to say: If I marry Hitler, he will be transformed into World War II, and marrying you, it has not changed in so many years! It is true that a joke is always a joke. In fact, I sincerely believe that in married life, it is not to change each other, but to adapt and tolerate each other. The way of husband and wife lies in tolerance and tolerance. Although quarrels and scolding can promote communication a little, it does not really solve the problem. . Even if it happens during quarrels and scolding, don't always put the word "divorce" on your lips. I wonder if the majority of friends also agree with me?
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parent-child reading, taste of books
"reading is everything." "Knowledge changes destiny, reading lights up life". A nation full of love for books is a nation full of hope; a person full of desire and diligence for books must be a person full of wisdom. There is an old saying in
: "Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles." It can be said that if a person can develop good reading habits from an early age, he will benefit infinitely throughout his life.
Professor Zhu Yongxin, an advocate of my country’s new educational experiment, once said: “In a certain sense, a person’s spiritual development history isThe reading history of a person and the level of spiritual development of a nation depend to a large extent on the reading status of the nation. Reading is a bridge to inherit civilization and an intermediary to continue culture. A full and meaningful life should be developed with reading. "
" The establishment of a body is based on the establishment of learning, which is based on reading. "Starting from this semester, our school has launched the "Teachers and Students Reading a Book" activity, requiring teachers and students to read a book each month, so that good books can broaden our horizons, increase our wisdom, and cultivate our sentiment. , To enhance our realm, and strive to create a strong reading atmosphere.
children’s reading is not only at school, but more at home. Parents also have the incumbent responsibility to cultivate their children’s good living and study habits. "Reading" is built on the basis of "teacher-student co-reading", so that parents can also participate in reading activities. The purpose is to better form a home-school joint force, promote a wide range of reading activities to the family, and strive to share the school and family With hard work, make students understand the truth of "reading well" and develop the habit of "reading well" and "reading well."
Parent-child reading is a learning method and a way of life. In this way, Parents teach their children how to love life and enjoy life.
parent-child reading is a beautiful leisure. In the children’s world, the purity and frankness are worthy of our eternal recollection and collection.
parent-child reading is a kind of soul The blending of children and parents can promote the communication between parents and children, improve the level of parental education, and be a "smart parent." A child's growth is also a book. With a little more thought and investment, the harvest is actually not only the child.
In order to make the "Parent-Child Reading Together" activity get the understanding and support of parents and continue smoothly and lastingly, the school requires every parent to spare a little time every day to read a book with their children and talk about their experiences. Families should often bring their children to bookstores to buy books, borrow books in the library, and expand reading channels. At least one book a month, the accumulation of quantity will become a qualitative leap. Reading
can shake the strings of life; reading, It can be full of the tension of life; reading can delight the happiness of life; reading can be smart and delicate in life.
No one is born to read and loves to read. Reading must have a method and be progressive. Parent-child reading is to train children Reading habits, an important factor to improve reading interest, and the intimacy of reading with fathers and mothers, will make children feel safe and trust; rich reading experience will make children's language expression ability and imagination more abundant, and give Children bring joy and satisfaction.
Children's books suitable for parent-child reading:
1. There are: bath book, pillow book, saliva book, touch book, pull book, hand-made book, etc. by function.
2. : Cloth books, wooden books, plastic books, cardboard books, audio books, paper card books, etc.
3. According to the content, there are: family life stories, fantasy-rich fables, fairy tales, campus life stories, biographies of great men, flora and fauna, Natural stories, science fiction sketches, beautiful poems, adventure stories, travel notes, humorous jokes, riddles, etc. The book is endless, and the most important thing is to choose good and interesting books according to the child’s level and personality.
For example: about 3 years old Because the child's oral ability is still insufficient, it is most suitable for reading rich patterns Picture book. Picture books have different materials and formats, not only have different functions, but also can be used in different places. They are most suitable for parents who want to integrate education into their lives. Many parents seldom have the opportunity to hold their children by their side and finish reading a book. Therefore, their children's language ability is often low. If you want to raise a child who loves books, start with picture books that attract children!
is equipped with a comfortable reading environment:
1. A comfortable and relaxing reading environment will help increase children's interest in reading. Children can see and get books everywhere, and they will naturally read.
2. Arrange the bookcase in a quiet and fixed place with plenty of light, comfortable chair cushions, pillows or character dolls in the book, so that children feel safe and warm there, and they will walk over automatically whenever they want to read.
3. The time for co-reading does not need to be too long, about 20 minutes, depending on the child's situation. Don't be too forceful to avoid rejection by the child.
4. You can also read during a nap or before going to bed. At this time, the child's physical strength is almost exhausted, and he can calm down to read a book or listen to an adult telling a story. Tell some warm stories to get your children used to this necessary activity. Because the time is fixed, the childOver time you will get used to reading during this time.
reading together:
1. Holding your child around to read a book together; or reading the same book together with family members next to each other, is a very intimate and interactive way to help children enjoy reading.
2. Let children choose books by themselves, and children will not get tired of reading the books they like.
3. The same book can also produce different stories. Because the child's attention is not long, parents can pick a key point to tell the story, and then look for a different topic next time, or add a new role, and make a different interpretation each time to keep the child fresh .
4. Use PAC theory to cleverly exchange roles: children tell stories to adults, or use Solitaire to adapt different picture book stories to train children's imagination. PAC is a kind of interpersonal relationship theory that emphasizes that everyone has these three characteristics "at the same time"; P (parent) represents parents and authority. A (adult) stands for adult and rational. C(child) stands for child, helpless. These three characteristics will appear "automatically intertwined" according to the actual situation. This theory also applies to teacher-student and parent-child relationships. For example, sometimes a child reads a book and asks him to talk about his thoughts (P), the teacher or parents listen carefully (A), or show infinite worship in the eyes (C) , The child will have a great sense of accomplishment, let him have authority and strength, and the child will love to read more.
5. Review the storyline: After reading the book, encourage the child to talk about his feelings, or use props (such as puppets, finger puppets, etc.) to perform with the child, or to record the video of his speech, not only to leave a memorial, but also to enhance the child’s Memory and language skills.
6. When an adult tells a story, he must first be moved by the story. The expression and tone are integrated into the story, and various sounds can be imitated to change the tone, plus some simple gestures, so that the child has a sense of freshness, and can attract the child's attention.
7. You can also follow the text in the book word by word, slowly narrating. If there is a plot, children can play it if they are interested; the lengthy part can be deleted as long as it does not affect the original story structure.
8. After reading the book or telling the story, you can also encourage the child to read it aloud together, which will help the child's listening and language ability development. Once the child is catchy, he can naturally write down the content of the story. When children can understand the meaning, they will enjoy the beauty of the story, text, and rhythm.
9. Who to use, where, and what happened, ask your child to help with reading.
10. Add some extended activities to review the questions and discussions of the story, so as to broaden your thinking.
In short, using stories to guide children to learn is the most convenient and effective way. Through the guidance of story characters, children can learn various virtues in a subtle way. The preschool stage is the golden age of reading. Although children cannot read by themselves, they will enjoy the fun and have more time to read. After school age, teachers and parents must continue to lead by example, often read with their children, and tell them stories, so that children love reading as well.
hope that more children can experience the happiness brought by reading! I hope more parents can devote themselves to the education of cultivating their children's interest in reading!
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Parent-child reading, the sweetest gift for children
Qian Ying, Junior High School, Puhuisi Town, Queshan County,
I teach in a boarding rural middle school, and I check it out every day because of my role as the head teacher It was already very late for all the children to go to bed. They would get up at five o'clock the next morning and lead the students to do morning exercises and study early. So I rarely go home. My child: "Gangbenger" has become a left-behind child.
I remember the first two years of my marriage. Because of my inconsistency with my in-laws, there was a period of running-in in a new family. The birth of a child has aggravated the conflicts in the family, and even how to raise children and how to dress up children, the concept of the elderly and ours is different. At that time, I was once perplexed and confused, struggling in the whirlpool of life, but forgot to use reading to calm my heart. Until one day I came into contact with children’s picture books, simple stories, and enlightening text introductions, which filled me with happy and warm feelings in my limited time with children. His favorite picture books are: "Make Way to the Little Duck", "Guess How Much I Love You", "Love Tree", "My Mother", "Lord"The Lord will always have a way", "Awen's Little Blanket", "Mom's Red Sofa", "Grandma Xi Who Hates the Night" and so on. When he was two to four years old, I watched it over and over again, and let me tell him over and over again, until I told it myself. In this process, not only his thinking ability and language expression ability greatly improved, but also more and more assured me. From a clingy, teary child to a lively and mischievous ghost. In my opinion, persevering in parent-child reading at the age of zero to three will benefit children for life, and it will also be very helpful for resisting the temptation of electronic products in the future. What's more gratifying is that the family atmosphere of our mother-in-law relationship is getting better. My mother-in-law used to play mahjong, but because my children would pester her to tell stories when I was not at home, she had to put on reading glasses and transfer her activity position from the mahjong table to the desk after a meal. Seeing some interesting storylines, the grandfather and grandchildren laughed together, and there was no time to be angry about family trivial matters. Occasionally, when an old friend visits and sees that the child is sensible, he will sincerely praise the two elders for taking the child. There was an immediate smile of relief on their faces. The same story has been read many times, and the child actually knows a lot of words in a subtle way. Walking on the street will pay special attention to various places with words and read it aloud to me, giving me extra surprises. As the child grows up, he and I explore new tricks in the process of parent-child reading. Sometimes it’s an audio recording to share with other children a reading experience. Sometimes it is sitting quietly listening to an audiobook or a new story. We often play the game of Story Solitaire. It is rock-paper-scissors that decides the winner to say a sentence, and the other person composes a story along the sentence. Both the child and I felt so much fun in this kind of interaction. Beng'er is now six years old and can read independently. All I can do is sit next to him, take a book I like, and quietly accompany him to read it. Because I know: As a woman, reading is not to make you rich, but to make you grow; reading is not to let you see the prosperity, but to let you endure loneliness. If the study and work in school have given me meticulousness and knowledge, and reading, it has given me tolerance and restraint. As a mother, reading makes me have a tolerant heart. Let me have a quiet heart that is willing to accompany my children to grow up.
I know that reading is not an end, but a process, subtly inclusive of all your life. As a woman, let time sculpt our delicateness and life, and let reading sublimate our temperament and dignity. Perhaps reading cannot teach us the way to behave, but reading can give us a calm attitude. When we are struggling in the quagmire of life, we must not forget to study hard. As a mother, if you can spare two hours a day for parent-child reading, accompany your children to read some words that can make us calm, and wander in another world, believe me, it will be the most beautiful enjoyment in the world. There is a saying on the Internet: "Traveling or reading, there is always one body and soul on the road." When your body is bound by reality and cannot travel far away, please remember that there is a leaf boat that can take you to the ocean of knowledge. This leaf boat is a book.
I show to my children through those excellent picture books: to be simple, honest, sunny, affectionate, kind and willing to give. In fact, we parents should demand ourselves according to this standard. People often say that parents are the children's first teachers. In fact, children teach me more. The time for children to accompany us is really limited. In their childhood when they need us most, if we accompany them with love and patience, they will have more tenderness and confidence when they leave us to fight alone in their youth. Some people say that every child is a precious gift from heaven to parents. Cherishing this gift takes a lifetime to prove. Whether a child’s tutoring is good or not is not the final say, but through his child’s future, his performance is the best proof. So from now on, we must begin to take on our responsibility as parents and devote 100% of our love to our children. Love reading, unite knowledge and action, practice parent-child reading, and accompany children to grow up together. I believe that parent-child reading is the sweetest and most precious of all the gifts we give back to children.
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A letter that cannot be sent
Xiushan Primary School, Sanlihe Township, Queshan County, Liang Huijuan
Mom:
Are you okay in heaven? My tears shed when I wrote down the word mother. look! I'm still the crying girl. If you are here, you must laugh at me again!
I am very sad today. Coming soonIt's Children's Day. My colleague asked me to buy student cosmetics to prepare for the performance, but I didn't go. Two days before the performance on the last New Year's Day, I hummed your favorite Henan opera happily while walking on the way back after buying school cosmetics. However, when I got home, I received the bad news of your serious illness. When I rushed tonight, I didn't see your last side. I squatted in the corridor of the hospital. I wish you had said to me like before, marrying so far is fine, don't come back. Mom, do you know how sad I was at that time?
rejected my colleague today. I took my child home and cried on the bed. Mom~ I miss you!
Mom, I never wrote you a letter. You always say that I have no mouth and cannot speak. In fact, I have always had a lot to say to you! You left, I will never have a chance to tell you again, today I will tell you about the unforgettable things when I was a kid!
When I was very young, my father worked in the county and didn't go home for a long time. I said I missed my father. You taught me to write a letter for the first time. Up to now, I still remember what I wrote at the time, "Daddy, come back! My mother and I miss you, I don't want money, I want my father". Thinking about it so far, my mother wants me to be a loving person!
Another time, it was Women's Day, when I was young, I gave a bunch of cherry blossoms. But you beat me up. It turned out that I cut off the cherry tree sapling and made you angry. You told me that the cherry blossoms are beautiful, but if I break the cherry tree, it may die, and there will be no beautiful cherry blossoms in the next year. Mom, you let me know that I must fear life and be a kind person.
I am about to celebrate my 30th birthday. What a long time is thirty years! You taught me too much for thirty years. I have grown up for thirty years, but you are old. When I grew up, I had the ability to fly, but I got farther and farther away from you. Every time I took my child back, you would say to me, "You were the most obedient when you were young, but you are the most disobedient when you grow up." Yes, I fell in love with someone whose home is far, far away. Your tears and your perseverance have not been able to keep me, I married him without hesitation. You always say, "Your home is so far away, it's like no sky." But I always smiled, "Said it's not far, I can come and see you more!" But I didn't expect you to think of my house and see if I was happy or not.
Mom, now you can't see me anymore, even if I cry so fiercely, you won't scold me. Besides, the tears can't be stopped, mother, there is no sickness, no worries with you, you must be happy!
Mom, I miss you so much, even if I dream of you, okay?
Your daughter: Juan
May 25, 2017
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Everlasting Taiyang
Queshan County Straight Kindergarten Wang Jing
Dear kindergarten celebrates its 60th anniversary, we are extremely happy! It's hard to restrain the excitement, so I can make a gift for the birthday! What does
say? Let’s talk about this class group that we love every minute!
Here, the children are innocent and smile like flowers! Starting from the crisp "Teacher, good morning!" in the morning, they attributed their immature and vigorous hearts here. Naturally, they started to eat breakfast, walks, outdoor activities, games... In every link, they were sometimes serious, sometimes playful, sometimes happy, and sometimes quiet. Here, monologue, discussion, cooperation, and freedom fill every corner. In the accompaniment of silent communication between heart and heart, children can always live each day as beautiful as a poem, happy as a bird, free as an eagle, and warm as the sun. Every child is a peculiar elf, and the role they play will make you intoxicated, moved, heart trembling, and pampered. What kind of little people are this group of people, let us not love enough, not hurt enough...Looking at their flowery smiling faces, listening to their immature voices, and smelling their fragrance, everyone is drunk and drunk here. In the pure and incomparably pure soil in full bloom!
is here, parents are sincere, friendly, understanding and support! They actively participate in every activity. Parents assisting in teaching, parent-child planting, unpacking and washing bedding, accumulating teaching aids...you can see their busy figures and feel their no regrets! They don’t take care of their children well, they smile understandingly; when it comes to children’s problems, they openly accept them; when there is a deviation in communication between teachers and students, they always show trust first; when we hear that we do some work that should be done , They are always grateful. Just like that, break inMoving, moving forward, moving forward and blending together... In one year, our hearts are getting closer and closer, and we have more and more consensus on the education of children. Parents cherish their children with a friendly and broad mind, and cherish our hard-won class collective. Their love is like a trickle, nourishing our hearts and nourishing this hopeful land!
is here, the teachers are united, friendly, and enterprising! For majors, we classify and study carefully; for work, we divide labor in a reasonable manner and cooperate in an orderly manner; for gardens, we actively love and support them; for children, we love and care; for parents, we understand and accept , Communication without boundaries; for ourselves, we strictly demand and forge ahead. Upward, upward, this is a kind of life belief we convey to our children! Friendly, friendly, this is a kind of friendship that pervades us as teachers! We tolerate each other, understand each other, support each other, and move forward happily. The sun is bright at every moment, and the smile at every moment is sincere. Wrapped in this collective of love, we are full of power. We are "moisturizing things silently" at any time, and our professional happiness always agitates us to move forward in the big education of no small things!
The years have been washed out, and the birthday is just as promised! No sadness or joy, my dear garden will always stand here; no fear or fear, generations of preschool educators will struggle for life. The beloved cause, the beautiful homeland, the eternal sun in our hearts! Cheers for your 60th birthday and presents for your 60th birthday!
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Feel your charm and grow up with you
Queshan County Direct Kindergarten Zhao Huifang
"Beautiful Mountain" is my hometown, because it is an old revolutionary area, also known as the Red Mountain. It is in such a good place, surrounded by mountains and rivers, with outstanding people and spirits, there is a kindergarten with 60 years of history-the "county-directed kindergarten". Today is your birthday. Although I have never been with you for 60 years, but because I went to school here since I was a child, I am honored to be a teacher after work, and I am honored to be one of them, watching you day after day I am proud of the vitality and elegance that I have injected during my growth. As you are about to celebrate your 60th birthday, I would like to offer my deep blessings and hope that the kindergarten will get better and better, more brilliant, and write a new chapter.
county-level kindergartens have always been adhering to the "unity, dedication, truth-seeking, and pragmatic" teaching philosophy of "childlike innocence playing science, innocent and childlike exploration of science", with strong teachers and rich experience in teaching and parenting. The preschool education system in our county is a benchmark and a banner. In the county-level kindergartens, there is a vigorous and dedicated young teacher who uses his own mind to enlighten the children’s wisdom; there is also a courageous, innovative, truth-seeking and pragmatic leadership team that leads the entire kindergarten staff in an orderly manner. Forge ahead in the preschool education boom. For a long time, kindergartens have always used the establishment of demonstration gardens as their starting point to promote the construction of the kindergarten's backbone system, provide education that satisfies the people, and benefit more families and children, and has won a high reputation in the society.
I have gone through 16 springs and autumns in the early childhood education job. Here, I can fully appreciate the demeanor of the past garden principals and the vigorous vigor of working vigorously at work; here I feel my colleagues There is a good learning atmosphere of unity and improvement, and hard work in business; here, I experience my continuous growth and feel the joy of growth. This is our county-level kindergarten, so that every teacher will feel that working is the essence of happiness.
In this glorious 60-year history, how many teachers who have worked here have taken up leadership positions and contributed to the county’s preschool education; how many teachers and children have set sail here and finally succeeded Charismatic testimony. As a member of the county-level kindergarten, I am proud and proud of being in such a team. Finally, I want to say: My favorite kindergarten, I wish you a happy 60th birthday, and I would like to grow up with you .
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Poetry and Book Successor
Liu Lili Junior High School Puhuisi Town, Queshan County
If the personal achievements of a generation of famous minister Zeng Guofan are admirable, then what is even more impressive is his descendants. Coming out in large numbers, with outstanding results. This is closely related to his rigorous tutoring. Zeng Guofan's family book mentioned: "I don't want to be rich from generation to generation, I hope there will be talents from generation to generation." His family letter and the family education theory of "being clear and cultivating morality, diligence and thrifty" are left toThe most precious legacy of future generations.
The so-called "Prosperity by virtue of inheritance, and death by wealth." Many people of insight in the history of our country pay attention to the inheritance of family traditions, from Yan Zhitui's "Family Instructions of the Yan Family" and Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments" ”, Zhu Zi’s "Guidelines for Family Management" to "Qian Family Instructions" and "Fu Lei Family Letters" all gleam with the light of good family traditions, reflecting the good intentions of "parents love their sons for far-reaching plans".
Every family has its own style. It may not have formed a certain text to hang on the wall, nor has it formed certain rules and regulations to be placed on the bedside. It plays an educational function invisibly and affects the family subtly. The members are especially children. Because of the different backgrounds, each family style has its own merits, or talk about benevolence and generosity, harmony with neighbors, and be generous to others; or talk about diligence and thrift, often thinking that one rice and one meal is hard to come by; or talk about filial piety, good faith, brothers, brothers and sisters, respectful father and son Filial piety; or talk about the inheritance of poems and books, knowing the books clearly. It can be said that there will be children of any kind.
I was born in a rural family. When I was young, there were some unwritten rules in my family. For example, when eating, adults should not sit down and use chopsticks, and children can’t eat first even if they are hungry; even if there are few things, they can’t be small. Children eat alone; adults talk, children can't just interrupt and wait. At that time, there were often guests at home, and the parents did not talk about these rules all day long. They did it themselves, and my sister and I consciously followed them.
In my first impression, the Spring Festival couplets at home were handwritten by my father. In the sunny afternoon, my father took out the prepared red paper, carefully cut it out, first folded it into equal squares, then unfolded it and spread it flat on the table, picked up the prepared pen and ink, leaned over and started writing. Write a word and move the paper gently. This work is done by me. I stand opposite my father, gently pinching the top of the red paper with my hand, and waiting with my breath. Seeing him finish writing a word, I hurriedly moved the red with excitement and carefully The paper gets longer and longer. At this time, no matter how fun things are, it is hard to move me. One of the couplets my father wrote most often is "Loyalty, family is far away, poems and books are forever". Every time he writes, he will read it to me, but because he was young, he was ignorant and puzzled, just Remember that this couplet is always pasted on the door frame of the hall. The father of
was a rare high school student in the village at that time. He returned home after graduating and served as the production team accountant, the production team leader and then the team secretary in the village because of literacy and hyphenation. In my memory, there are always many people who come to the house, yelling, and the inexplicable lawsuit requires the father to mediate. Even on the morning of the New Year’s Eve, there were old women and old ladies coming to the house crying and complaining that children and grandchildren would not be able to celebrate the new year. I find it very annoying. They just keep repeating just a few words, but fathers and mothers always listen patiently, give them warm words and comfort, and sometimes even give them some new year goods. When I complained, my father always said: "When anyone is in trouble, I can help." In this way, Zhima's little official, his father has been working for more than 20 years, what else can someone find him? He must be enthusiastic to help, and people in the same village have always been convinced by him. Although my father is very busy, he always pays attention to my study. In the era of material scarcity, my spiritual food has never been in short supply. As long as I want to buy a book, my father never said anything. He loves to read books, so he is also very happy for me to make friends with books. After graduating from elementary school, my father sent me to the county town to study in middle school. Many people in the village thought it was unnecessary. What is the use of spending so much money and reading so many books for a girl. Many girls in the same village graduated from junior high school or even elementary school, dropped out of school, helped their parents with two years of work, and then went out to work. My father never paid attention to other people's discussions. He always said to me: "As long as you are willing to go to school, I will sell iron and sell iron to the end." In this way, I became the first undergraduate in the village.
When I was going to school in the county seat, I lived with my relatives. They had a lot of books in their homes. I was like a fish and plunged into the sea of books. Every day I thought of ways to read books secretly. As a result, my grades in the first semester Regressed from the top ten in the class to more than 30. When I went home during the Chinese New Year, I was very nervous, afraid of my father's criticism, and even more afraid that he would stop letting me go to school in the county seat. After my father asked me about the situation, he didn't criticize me too much. Instead, he agreed with me: He prepares a book for me every month, and I write him a letter to explain his study and reading experience. Later, when I was admitted to university, I did not hesitate to choose Chinese and continued my hobby of reading. The letter I wrote to my father is still intact. Looking at the immature and serious words and sentences at the time, I once again realized my father's good intentions. Now i have my own child, I will explain this principle of life to her, hoping that she will also become an enthusiastic, honest, and love to read.
French writer Roland once said: "Life is not an individual that can grow in isolation. It grows while collecting flowers and leaves along the way. It is like a sensitive camera that takes in everything you hear and see along the way. An inch of daily trivial matters are the fibers that create personality. Everyone's words and deeds in the environment are the building materials integrated into the growth process, which infects the person's thoughts, feelings and behaviors, and influences the person's life attitude. The environment gives In addition to tangible imitation, a person’s influence is more important than intangible shaping. "It is better to leave material wealth to children than to leave spiritual possessions. A good family style is not only the precious spiritual wealth of a family or family, which affects every family member, but also radiates from a small family to everyone, improving the atmosphere of the whole society. It fills our daily lives. It is the beautiful quality we have received from our fathers to behave in the world. It should also be passed on by us, so that it will become a mirror for us to dress and remove dirt, and a light to guide us forward. .
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happy long book companion
Queshan County Fifth Primary School Wang Yueqi
often hear parents say: children do not like reading. I will ask carefully: "Do you like reading?" Parents often answer: "I like watching TV, but don't like reading." "I have a headache as soon as I read a book and can't stand it." "Friends often come to my house to join in. How can there be idle time?" Such prevarication made me laugh dumbstruck: Do not do to others what you do not want, and the same applies to reading. If you don’t go to school, you are addicted to having fun, but you ask your children to read. How can children go to school obediently? Therefore, I often say to parents: buy more books and read more books, even if you pretend to read, it will have a subtle impact on your children; not to mention that by reading and discussing with your children, you can increase parent-child communication and make parent-child The relationship is more harmonious.
In order to expand my son's knowledge, I bought him various books. Like the "Four Masterpieces" Embroidery Collection, "Selected Essays by Middle School Students", "Youth Diary", "Military World", "Light Weapon", "Encyclopedia of Middle School Students", "We Love Science", "Special Concern", " Books and periodicals such as "Weifang Family" cover military, science and technology, literature, sports, history, geography, etc. It is often my first glance. After reading good articles and seeing new knowledge, I will discuss with my son. Sometimes I would argue over the questions in the article with red ears, and no one was convinced, so I had to "seek help" from his father or go online to find the answer. In this way, under my lead, my son reads everything and reads everything. This broadened his horizons and learned more about history, geography, military affairs, science and technology, daily life, etc., as well as his physical and mental health. The growth has laid a solid foundation.
In order to make our son achieve better grades, our couple often accompany him to study together. In order to urge my son to read "Beautiful English", I always set an example and read it myself. I haven't learned and used English for more than 20 years, and I almost forgot what I learned before. Not too much, so I held the English dictionary and searched them one by one, word grammar and sentence patterns...there was nothing in detail, looking for answers one by one. I often ask my husband and son for advice. I use this kind of diligence to ask questions and study hard to inspire my son to study hard and work hard. Mathematics is a weak subject for my son. In order to enhance his confidence in learning mathematics, my father bought him inspirational stories from scientists such as "The Story of a Mathematician", "At the Entrance of Science", "I Love Invention". Father and son read together and feel With the extraordinary struggle and happiness of scientists, they gain diligence and tenacity, and increase their life experience.
books are the ladder of human progress, guiding children to read, it is endless fun!
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Take as a model, be a good guide for children
Haogang Primary School, Xin'andian Town, Queshan County Wu Li
Throughout the ages, the sons and daughters of heroes often have a great mother behind them. The stories of "Mother-in-law's Lettering" and "Meng's Mother's Three Moves" are familiar to us. In modern society, family is the first lesson for children. The health of the family environment has a very important impact on the growth of children. Although the affluent material foundation can provide superior conditions for the growth of children, it really allows children to have a "home". "The feeling does not lie in how big or rich the family is, but in the quality of the spiritual environment. Good familyEnvironment, atmosphere and atmosphere play an important role in the growth of children, and a healthy family environment has a profound impact on children's growth.
I am the mother of a six-year-old child, engaged in education. Like the mothers of all the children in the world, "I hope my son will become a dragon and my daughter will become a phoenix" is my earnest hope. Since the child was born, my husband and I have taken care of her. We love her very much and love her, but the child has been very active, naughty, and very difficult to manage, which makes me very troubled and exhausted. In order to find the right way to educate and make children grow up healthily and happily, we have tried many methods, read a lot of books, and consulted others from casual chats. The effort paid off. Now my child is growing up healthy and happy, like The spring seedlings, after careful care of the family, exude vigorous vitality.
1. Cultivate children to be caring and learn to care for life.
When a child was two years old, he saw an ant for the first time. Maybe some mothers would encourage the child to trample on that ant to exercise their courage, but doing so seems to make the child go to the other extreme. After all, the seeds of love take root and sprout more important. So, I whispered to the child: "Baby, look how cute it is, mother ant must love her baby ant very much"! So the child lay on the ground and looked at the ant in surprise, and carefully observed their appearance. When he encountered obstacles that could not pass, the child used a small hand to build a bridge to let it climb over. Looking at the child's focused and surprised look, I know that I did it right! Who said that parents are not children’s enlightenment teachers? I think that this small move of mine may have sowed the seeds of love in the heart of the child, and he will benefit infinitely in the future life.
2. Communicate equally with children who love to "talk back".
I believe that parents are dominant in the family. They must be principled in their words and deeds, and pay attention to methods. The weight of language is not necessarily expressed by the size of the voice. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children when communicating with their children. Your eyes should be gentle, serious, and determined. , You can tell your children your attitude and the slowness of your language will help your children understand and accept the importance of your speech. My child has a strong personality, and sometimes loves to "talk back" with adults. A small mouth is very clever. What you ask her to do, always reluctant to do it, always find a reason, sometimes quarrel with her father, during an argument, I blocked her husband, I said: "Let the child finish her reasons first, Listen to her thoughts." And encourage the child to explain her thoughts, I think this is not only a training for the child's ability to observe things, thinking, and speech expression, but also enable us to understand the child more comprehensively. Therefore, parents should learn to be patient at all times and have an equal dialogue with their children and understand their children with heart, so that their children can be reasonable and calm in dealing with problems from elementary school.
3. Demonstrate by example and be a guide for your children.
I am a teacher. I am usually very busy at get off work. I often leave work very late every day. In my children’s impression, I always have something to do. But no matter how busy I work, I can’t let go of my hobbies. In my spare time, I read, sing, and paint. My children are influenced by me and gradually become interested in them. Every time I sit at my desk and read a book, She would also sit next to me with a toddler book and look at it seriously. Sometimes she saw pictures she thought were funny. She would also be my "little commentator" to tell me her findings seriously. At that moment I felt How important is the influence I have on my children.
As a child’s mother, we must sincerely pay attention to the child’s happiness, anger, sorrow, and happiness, and take care of the little progress of the child’s growth. Not only care about the child’s physical condition, academic performance, but also the child’s psychology, thoughts, quality, and A sufficient understanding of personality, and able to consciously help the child to overcome his shortcomings in the process of growth, be a good teacher and helpful friend of the child, guide the child's self-improvement, self-confidence, self-improvement, down-to-earth, hard work, and embark on a healthy and happy life.
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Let us open a door together
Queshan County Second Junior High School Wang Yanhong
The first text I entered into junior high school was "Open a Door for You" written by contemporary writer Zhao Lihong. In this article, the author issued an appeal to young friends, let us young people love literature, strive to open a door to literature, and strive to be a civilized person with modern civilization consciousness. Coincidentally, I am standing here today with a surging heart. I want to say, my friends, let us act together and open a door of ritual and honesty together!
Open the door of Mingli integrity, and having Mingli integrity will make our society as a collectiveMore harmonious and happy. In recent years, we have often seen many disturbing things exposed by the news media: if the elderly fell down, should we help them; if someone fell ill, should we help; if someone encountered difficulties, should we not help? Reach out a helping hand; the debtor has passed away, should the debt be repaid...Faced with these many problems, everyone has their own opinions. So, what should we do? I once read such a report: In Shangqiu, Henan, there was a 72-year-old widow. Ten years ago, the wife of this grandmother died in an accidental car accident. This news is like a bolt from the blue for the grandmother. Moreover, his wife had borrowed a huge sum of 200,000 from a friend to do business before he was alive, but ended up in bankruptcy, and the money has never been repaid. The old grandmother has to accept this cruel reality while suffering the pain of losing her husband. She said to the creditor: "People cannot die with debts. I have lost my wife and cannot lose my integrity anymore"! Since then, in order to pay off her debts, she went to work as a cleaner on the street and went to restaurants to wash dishes for others. She took out all the savings at home, and even the one yuan and one dime in exchange for picking up tatters, she used to pay off the debt. Day after day, year after year, she has not eaten a decent meal! The sincerity of the old lady moved the people around her, and everyone offered her a helping hand, and even the creditors stopped asking her for debts, but came to help her instead. In this way, the old lady just paid off the debt one by one. No one can stand without credibility, the old lady is a capitalized herringbone in honesty!
opens the door of Mingli integrity. Having Mingli integrity will make the small groups around us more united and energetic. In our daily life, work, and study, there will be a lot of unhappy things among colleagues and classmates. If we do not handle them well, conflicts and even big conflicts will occur. We must know that all the disunity and disharmony are caused by the lack of courtesy and integrity between us. Therefore, we must open the door to Mingli's integrity and embrace Mingli's integrity together! It can make our collective unity, full of vitality!
opens the door of Mingli integrity. Having Mingli integrity will make our personal family more harmonious and happier. Every family is made up of people with different personalities, hobbies, psychology, and qualities. Although we have blood and kinship to maintain our relationship, we still have problems of one kind or another because of our differences. Just imagine, if each of us lives in a family of suspicion, misunderstanding, resentment, and disputes, are we happy? Are we happy? the answer is negative. Therefore, we must open our hearts and embrace the integrity of Mingli together! It can make our little family happy!
Friends, Mingli integrity starts with you, me, and him. Let the wind of civilization, politeness and integrity warm our hearts, make our society and our country more harmonious and beautiful, let us open a fan together The door to ritual integrity!
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The story of me and the book
Lixindian Town Wanglou Primary School Tu Maini
Shakespeare once said: "Books are the nourishment of all mankind." Yes, reading is my "food for the mind." ,my favourite. Whenever I read, I feel that reading is my greatest joy. I love reading, because books have given me a lot of knowledge and also taught me the principles of being a human being.
I actually started reading extracurricular books when I was three or four years old. It's just that at that time, all I was reading was the color version, the kind of "little man book" with only a few words. At that time, I was obsessed with this kind of book. I often read it for a few hours, forgetting to eat and sleep. Moreover, I will read the same book several times over and over again, and enjoy it.
In the childhood of our generation, we often accompany us: persimmon core, copper plate, cardboard, slingshot, etc., occasionally there is a small book, and our parents did not tell us stories, so we read books with us. Our childhood was unfettered, but it was also a bit "shallow". In the current words, we lost at the starting line. In order not to let our children grow up to have such regrets, we decided to tell her stories before going to bed. , Make time every day to study with her.
From the original vegetable book, fruit book, daily necessities book, to a lovely fairy tale book, a science book full of natural mysteries, I read it inadvertently before going to bed and after dinner. One was sitting or lying on the side of the bed to talk, the other lying on the bed to listen, and from time to time he asked one or two ridiculous or esoteric questions, causing the two to laugh.
As she heard more and more stories, she knew more and more things. There are also more and more questions about the surroundings, sometimes I even ask some of us adults who don’t know how to answerAnswer the question. Although asked by her, I still feel that our efforts have been rewarded.
accompany her to study and enhance our mutual understanding. For the same thing, adults and children look at the problem from different angles, and naturally come to different conclusions, but why are they different? Only when you are with her can you know. Reading and speaking with children can better understand their psychological activities and analyze her state of mind more accurately. This is very useful for understanding the way children think about problems.
Studying with your child can help her develop the habit of reading, accompany the child to read, and help her choose the book that suits her. Reading with her child can deepen the communication with the next generation! Accompanying the child to renew the book can be reserved for the child The next childhood she missed!
I know that cultivating a good habit of reading for children is not a day’s work. It is not only a test for children, but also a test for our parents. I will always accompany my children to study every day Persevere in the good habit, let the child keep this habit in the future study life, and even the future life growth. Let children have a correct understanding of the complex world they will face in the future through reading (in a broad sense), establish a correct outlook on life, and take every step of their lives with enthusiasm, optimism, tenacity and calm attitude !
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talk about the family style
Wang Darong
family style, is a down-to-earth, life-oriented "family virtue", with invisible power deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. It can be the principle of being a person or the principle of doing things. It can be a philosophical attitude towards life. It does not stick to any field, and there is no family rich or poor. Family style is something that everyone has been touching since childhood. Therefore, the impact on a person is overall and comprehensive. The Chinese nation is known as the "state of etiquette" and has always attached importance to family education. Family style is the combination of a relatively stable ethics, traditional habits, ways of being a person, style of life, and lifestyle formed by a family from generation to generation. It first reflects the power of morality. Paying attention to the construction of family style is the foundation of many people with lofty ideals in the history of our country. From ancient times to the present, Yan Zhitui "The Family Instructions of the Yan Family", Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments", and Zhou Yi "Mianyuer generation", Zhu Zi's "Guidelines for Family Management", "Zeng Guofan Family Letters", "Fu Lei Family Letters", etc. are widely circulated among the people, shining with the ideological light of good family traditions. The historical "Mengmu's Three Moves"" "Mother-in-law tattoos" and so on, also show good family traditions. "It is not indifferent to clarify the aspirations, nor to be quiet, and there is no way to go far." "There will always be days but no day, no time to think about times", "Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth "Don't drink too much wine" and other ancient teachings in the gods have been respected by the world. The politician and historian Sima Guangguan of the Northern Song Dynasty has a high power, and he has served as the emperors of the four dynasties such as Renzong and Yingzong. But he is strict in teaching his children and pays great attention to cultivating his children's self-discipline and self-reliance. He wrote the "Xunjian Shikang" that has been passed down to this day, admonishing his son: "Thrifty makes a name, and extravagant defeats oneself".
Zeng Guofan's family letters, with a total of more than 330, is the most preserved family letter in history. The Zeng family has always governed the family extremely strictly and very well. Zeng Guofan was influenced by family traditions, and he was very strict with his children, and he was instructed. There are many good points in his guiding ideology of family education. Such as teaching children to read, learn, be diligent, frugal, self-reliant, perseverance, self-cultivation, and be an official, etc., they have inherited and carried forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.
Zhou Enlai’s niece, Ms. Zhou Bingde, said that my uncle asked us to live a simple life like the people all over the country. Our Zhou family brothers and sisters are ordinary people, no one is a high official, no one makes a lot of money in business, no small car, no big house. "Being a down-to-earth person is the family style of our Zhou family." A good family style is not only beneficial to ourselves, children and family members, but also gradually affects the moral standards of the public and the social atmosphere.
Invisible forces have been affecting people subtly. Everyone lives in a native family. The native family has a good family style, and the person will thrive; the native family does not pay attention to the construction of the family style, and the person will grow up Take a detour. A good family style will have some common characteristics, such as: a good moral atmosphere, a healthy ideological atmosphere, a positive emotional atmosphere, a serious study atmosphere, a frugal living atmosphere, etc. It is this kind of atmosphere that creates People who are physically and mentally healthy, those who have made achievements, and even those who have made outstanding contributions to society. It can be said that a good family style has created a good cradle for children's growth. Under the conditions of the market economy, there are some urgent problems in the field of marriage and family in China. Question: Worshiping money in the concept of loveDoctrine, the carelessness in marriage, the excessive spoiling in family education, the ignorance of the elderly in the filial piety, and even some people of prestige and social status, because they do not pay attention to the construction of family traditions, they, especially their children, embark on the road of crime, and learn It is painful. It confirms the importance of family style building from the negative side. The key to family style building is the parents. Parents must first become caring people in family style building to consciously create their own good family style and continue their own good home The wind benefits the whole family and children. Leading cadres at all levels must take the lead in building a good family style and take the lead in educating their children. People are used to going up and down, and the good family style of leading cadres will have a very important impact on the establishment of a good social atmosphere. .
In the new situation of accelerating the pace of reform and striving to realize the Chinese dream, it is of great significance to reintroduce the construction of family style. Family construction affects social construction, and a good family style will lead to a good social atmosphere. Therefore, a good family style is A positive energy. We must start from each family, let each family have a good family style, and cultivate civilized people. If this persists, the righteousness of the society will be carried forward, and the level of civilization of the Chinese nation will be further enhanced. Improve.
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A good family style is the cornerstone of minors
Queshan County Fifth Primary School Wang Hailan
Family education is the basic education for the growth of children, and a good family style is the growth of minors. cornerstone.
family style is a stable style, style and tradition that people form in family life, including the attitude and code of conduct for others. Family style also contains what we often call family style, which is the norm of people's behavior in family life. They are like a kind of magnetic field deeply felt by people, urging people to obey and abide by certain approved norms from the heart. The
family style is created by the attitudes, behaviors and public opinion of family members, which exists in the family's daily life, and manifests in the attitudes and behaviors of adults in dealing with various relationships in daily life. Good behavior habits and correct public opinion create a good family style; bad behavior habits and incorrect public opinion create a bad family style.
The habitual speech and behavior of parents in daily life creates a specific family style. Under the influence of this specific family style, minors will receive influence through hearing, seeing, and seeing. Among them, "imitation" plays an important role. Regardless of whether adults realize that their speech and behavior will have a certain
effect on minors, minors are imitating. The early behavioral habits of minors reflect the personality and behavioral habits of their parents and are a mirror of their parents. College student Zhang grew up in a family of three generations. Three generations of grandparents lived a peaceful and harmonious life. The family has never quarreled with neighbors. Grandma is a diligent person. She gets up early every day and cleans the entire compound with a big broom. Zhang followed his grandmother since he was a child, and grandma also specially prepared a small broom for him, let her follow behind to compare paintings, and told her: "Human hands are a treasure, hard work can create everything." Although the young Zhang still couldn't listen. Understand those great principles, but she loves to work, and experience happiness from work. Every time
mother takes Zhang to the park, she has to bring a plastic bag, put the leftover peels and candy paper into the trash can. Zhang still has the habit of carrying plastic bags with him, putting unused waste in the trash can. Although Zhang's father did not receive higher education, he loves to read books. He bought almost all the money he saved for books and often wrote reading notes. Under the influence of his father, Zhang also loved reading since he was a child. He has kept writing diaries and reading notes since he was in elementary school. He has published more than a dozen articles in newspapers and magazines.
's harmonious, calm, warm and rigorous family style has laid a good foundation for Zhang's growth. She is diligent and simple, has excellent academic performance, and has an elegant temperament. She gets along well with classmates and friends. No matter what kind of work she is doing, she never compares with others. Someone said: "Now is the era of competition, don't you feel that you are at a disadvantage?" Zhang Mou smiled and said: "I just want to do what I can do well. I have never thought of losing money and taking advantage. Everyone in our family does things like this. Style."
gives another example of the opposite. Junior high school student Wang has a very good family life since he was young. His parents were busy with business. They hired two babysitters at home. One is responsible for daily life at home and the other is responsible for taking care of Wang. Everything is done without Wang. When I was a child, sometimes Wang wanted to wipe the table and the floor out of curiosity as a nanny, and my mother said, "It’s not promising.If you do it, you are not born to do it. This is what the subordinates do. You should be the master. "The young Wang saw his mother picking three to four with the nanny every day, and when he was never satisfied, he gradually thought that he was born to be a human being, and being delicious and lazy was the greatest happiness. When
was in kindergarten, the teacher asked her to pose. Chair, she would say: "My mother said that doing this kind of thing is nothing good, and I will be a master. "Now a junior high school student, Wang is still only used to being a "superior", pointing fingers at classmates, relatives, and friends, yelling, often asking others to do things for her, but never willing to do something for others. Because She is selfish, lazy, self-righteous and narrow-minded. She has no friends and is lonely. She is afraid of hardship in her studies and poor grades. No one likes her. Many neighbors also think that Wang's family is vulgar, arrogant, domineering, greedy and unwilling to deal with them. Communication. What’s more sad is that Wang’s parents still don’t know where the crux of the problem is. These examples of
tell us: family education is a continuous process, and every detail of it is influenced by family ethos; and family ethos It was not thought of, it was created by the lives of each member of the family and their own conduct. If the adult’s speech and behavior are not standardized, even a carefully researched education method will not help. Only a proper family tradition can To create a good growth environment for minors, a good family style is a child’s lifelong wealth.
Therefore, every adult must grasp his own words and deeds to create a good family style for the growth of children. The future of children is actually It is in the hands of adults.
