The TV series "The Second Time Is Beautiful" is an urban emotional drama starring Wang Ziwen, Zhang Luyi, Yu Xiaowei and Yu Mingjia. It tells the story of the "bi-married" girl An An who grew up after a marriage change, but I was watching the first After a long divorce lawsuit, I can’t calm down!
divorced woman: Dr. , she did not reveal much information herself. When she was in court with a man whom she loved deeply and thought she would depend on her for life, she felt ashamed and distressed, nervous, facing The other party’s accusation was panicked, tears flowed down quietly, and he repeatedly retorted "No". The gentle voice gave the illusion of suffocation; instead, we got more information from the other’s lawyers and worked with high intensity and high density. , Missed the husband and wife anniversary, missed the growth of the child, so the other party decided that she was not a good mother and would not be a qualified guardian, and eventually the child went to the other party;
male party: company marketing director, good at making friends with people on both sides, facing people who have lived together for several years, facing her panic is just a faint disdain at the corners of her mouth, and when one piece of evidence is passed on The determination to win made people feel very uncomfortable, but he still got the custody of the child!
"Because she is a good doctor, but she has not been a good mother, so she cannot be a good guardian, so she lost her own child after losing her marriage. Behind a marriage, her youth, There is nowhere to put her hard work, blood and sweat!"
I still can’t understand, how can a woman not be harmed in marriage and stay at home full-time, saying that you are financially not alone, and your personality is not independent. You must go to work and be a new woman in the new era. When you go to work, the doctor said Breastfeeding, experts say that companionship is the most affectionate confession. The most sentimental sentence I have ever heard is that when I take up work, I cannot hug you, and when I choose to hug you, I cannot feed you! Even if life is as glamorous as An'an is not hiding in the dark and eating potato chips with tears, what she misses is the inseparability at the beginning, and what she fears is that nowadays words are not speculative. Your coquetry and your willfulness have become pretentious. You are very strange. You obviously have been like this all the time, but that person said he was tired, as if everyone was wrong, and as if everyone was right, he would say that he was tired because he didn't love anymore. When the heart was in love, she slightly frowned and was unwilling , When she decided to leave, she closed the door to her home and put on a look of pain and powerlessness to open the door, pretending not to see the surprise on the face of the person outside, and the injury slowly turned into despair!
Women in marriage, especially when they become mothers, are either extraordinarily strong and strong for mothers, or extraordinarily fragile and regressive and forbearance, but no matter what is always unsatisfactory, a doctor who saves lives and heals the wound and works with high intensity and high density In the process of fighting for the custody of the child, he lost to his sophisticated ex-husband. As a marketing director, would his working hours and work intensity be low? A mother lost her marriage and children because of her professional vows. , And who is at fault in the marriage can still be glimpsed from the attitude of the other's lawyer to the man after the sentence is pronounced, but the woman has become the one to be blamed!
In the process of a child’s growth, companionship is indeed very important, but after all, the child is not our world, and we are not all of the child. We teach him the responsibility and responsibility in the process of life and work. The three things, the correct three views, the positive attitude towards things, the good education habits, the kind and brave heart, are conveyed to him bit by bit, whether they take care of the diet and daily life, or work hard to set an example for him, as a mother think What is given to him is the best, even if there are deficiencies, it should not be a reason for harshness, let alone an excuse in contention, and no matter where you are, living the most wonderful self is the best for your child Love!
