chatted with friends a few days ago and discovered that the current idol drama basically ends when the lovers finally get married. The wedding will be held at the end of the day, but it is absolutely impossible to show the married life. A friend of
said, of course, once a boyfriend and girlfriend become an old husband and wife, that day will be mixed with firewood, rice, oil and salt all day long, will it be completely out of romance with romance, let alone idol drama.
It can be seen that most people's romance ends in marriage.
still remembered reading an article on GQ, saying that a certain wife lost her diamond ring. She suspected everyone in the family, but her husband took it to the jewelry store to compare the model, and planned to buy another one as a gift. Give her as a gift for her wedding anniversary.
I still think it's quite romantic when I see it here, but my husband's heart Os has to give gifts for the wedding anniversary. He is too lazy to bother, so he just takes a shortcut to deal with the next scene. After reading this,
couldn't help but sigh again.
Even in the same marriage, men and women have completely different perspectives.
In order to increase my understanding of the other half, I will find some love movies made by male directors to learn from. Look at men, how to answer marriage, answer love, among these people I prefer Feng Xiaogang.
Feng Xiaogang’s films include not only the classic commentary on marriage in "If You Are the One 2" about marriage, but also the reflection and discussion on marriage loyalty in "A Sigh". "Fanghua" shows that from multiple perspectives. In the age, people's choice and judgment of love. "Only Yun Knows", which is set for December 20th, shows the love back to the original and the life of each other.
It can be said that Feng Xiaogang's movies have captured the love of our generations.
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Feng Xiaogang's first film is about love.
In "Forever Losing My Love", the young flight attendant and the individual driver Su Kai fall in love. When the two are planning for the future, Su Kai suffers from an incurable disease. In order not to drag Grid, Su Kai chooses to break up and separate from her lover. Grid's best friend Yang Yan took care of Su Kai's life voluntarily after learning about Su Kai's secrets...
The love in Feng Xiaogang's lens at that time was like the first love of young people. Love and marriage are utopias in real life. Therefore, even if one party is terminally ill, there are still people who take care of him.
When we waited for "Party A and Party B", "Where to See You", and "Endless", the love under the lens of Feng Xiaogang was a bit more tossing and realistic. In "Party A and Party B," Liu Bei sighed: "A marriage without love is unhappy." Ge You replied, "A marriage without a house is unhappy." "Hot Spots", deduced a pair of men and women with completely different values, each holding their own views on love.
is nothing but tossing back to tossing, the men and women of the world are still like Ge You and Ye Bei in "Endless" in the feasting and feasting, they are still like Ge You and Ye Bei in "Endless". .
At this time, Feng Xiaogang's movie still has good expectations for love and marriage, and the ending is also satisfactory.
But at the stage of "A Sigh", the men in Feng Xiaogang's movies are beginning to enter middle age, with little success in their careers, but lack of marriage. At this time, the appearance of the third party became the light in the protagonist's life, and they betrayed the marriage with peace of mind.
However, "A Sigh" gives each couple a reason to continue, "Although holding your hand is like touching your right hand with your left hand, it will hurt if you cut it down."
Feng Xiaogang's movie can keep up with the times , Even with some advanced discussion.
is like the strange blind date Qin Fen encountered in "If You Are the One 1" in "If You Are the One". They each have ghosts in their hearts, but few people seek true love purely. In "If You Are the One 2", Qin Fen and Liang Xiaoxiao simply skipped the passion of love and went straight to the theme of marriage. They chose to use trial marriage to see if each other was really suitable. This is also very close to the current young people’s view of love. Let's try it out or not.
is free and easy, completely different from the feelings in Feng Xiaogang's "Forever Losing Love".
Some people say that only with a pessimistic attitude can you make the greatest comedy. The marriage and love in Feng Xiaogang's movies seem to be the same. He has never tried to beautify the marriage, and even shows you all the problems that may be encountered in the relationship between the sexes.
He used the mouth of the character to tell everyone: "Living at home is not a crimeLet's take a look at each other's heart, and be more kind. "I also said, "No matter how you choose a marriage, you are wrong, and a long-term marriage is wrong. "
sounds very sad, but you compare your life and feel that compared with the slobber articles about "how to make your boyfriend love you more", this is the emotional dry goods given by a man after a thousand sails.
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Feng Xiaogang's movie Here, the jerk man finally gets the punishment he deserves and chooses to return to his family. No matter how difficult it is to continue the marriage, he can finally find a self-consistent balance, understanding each other until reconciliation. It can be seen that he critically examines Looking at the status quo of marriage in the big era, what remains the same is his yearning and affirmation of true love.
In recent years, Feng Xiaogang’s films have become much softer than before. In
Liu Feng’s relationship with Lin Dingding in "Fang Hua" Love can be said to be unreserved. Even if he was rejected, he still had no regrets. He Xiaoping also loved him in the years when he loved Lin Dingding. It’s just that. Due to the many restrictions at the time, it was impossible to express.
Feng Xiaogang's comment on love at this time completely jumped out of a simple tragicomedy. As he himself summed up, "No matter what unpleasantness or bumps happened, it is still a very beautiful memory. "He began to enjoy the love itself and the process of beloved. At
's Golden Rooster Awards ceremony this year, he brought the latest love movie "Only Yun Knows". I watched the trailer specially for
. The movie was adapted from Feng Xiaogang's best friend Zhang Shuhe The true love story of his wife, without the complicated multi-faceted relationship of the previous movie, in the love world of "Only Yun Knows", only Sui Dongfeng and his wife Luo Yun, whom he has cherished for a lifetime, are the only ones.
Love in Feng Xiaogang's movie begins to be subtracted. Feng Xiaogang, who once said in "Party A and Party B" that "marriage without a house is even less happy", also changed sex. In "Only Yun Knows", in front of true love, material matters are nothing. "Where are you? Family. "
, it can be said that after more than 20 years of repeated discussion and reflection on the "view of love" in Feng Xiaogang's movies, it has returned to its originality.
is also like a couple in the world. When they were young, they might be bickering for three days. I think about divorce every day, but as I grow older, I feel more dependent on each other. Young couples and old companions, so-called true love, how can there be so many alliances and each other, all we want is to take care of the headache. , And a cup of tea at hand when thirsty. This is the case with Sui Dongfeng and Luo Yun in
"Only Yun Knows". From a young couple to middle age, they seem to have just realized the importance of each other in marriage, but suddenly lost their home. Love. In the
trailer, Sui Dongfeng put a ring in front of his wife’s photo. Yin Yin told me that if you come back, move the ring and let me know.
This reminds me of a friend who said that after her mother passed away, his father often held it. She cried secretly while she was in the picture frame of her mother, and talked about the trivial matters of life in the frame all day long, as if she had never left. The other half of
had an epiphany of her own importance, and it would probably take a parting of life and death to fully see it. .
Looking at the films directed by Feng Xiaogang, from 1994's "Forever Lost My Love" to 2019's "Only Yun Knows", it has spanned 25 years, and also filmed the marriage and love of Chinese people in these 25 years. . Whether it is the initial yearning for love, the twists and turns, and then the fatigue of the middle-aged person, until the return to the basics, Feng Xiaogang's movies have always revolved around the emotions of Chinese people, and it can be said that he is the one who understands Chinese emotions best. Director.
Although "Only Yun Knows" is scheduled for December 20th, I can’t wait to take my husband to watch it. I want to see how other couples get along in their middle age and how they get along Love is separated by mountains and seas, and mountains and seas cannot be leveled.
also looks forward to this time, how Feng Xiaogang interprets the love of middle-aged people.
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