The happiness of a family often depends on women.
If a woman is virtuous, generous and good at managing the family, men will have no worries and can boldly develop their careers; and if women are always careless and have no pattern, the family will be prone to restlessness and even lead to family breakdown.
Vanves women generally have these three characteristics.
stay optimistic,
always say that women who love to laugh will not have bad luck.
Vanves' women must be women who love to laugh. love to laugh here not only refers to a sweet smile, but also refers to an optimistic life. She will not put too much pressure on men, but always believe that as long as she is with the one she loves, life will be better.
Lin Huijia, wife of famous director Ang Lee, is such a woman. When the two got married, Ang Lee was still unknown. He stayed at home and studied movies every day, but he didn't study anything.
Li Ang was very discouraged and wanted to go out to find a decent job, and switched to learning computers. But Lin Huijia said: "Ann, remember the dream in your heart. There are so many students who learn computers, and you are not bad."
It is precisely because Lin Huijia has always been optimistic and positive, and has firmly supported Li An, so that Li An can study without distraction. , Research, and totally indulged in movie dreams.
In 2013, Ang Lee won the Oscar for Best Director in one fell swoop with "The Fantasy Drifting of the Youth Pie".
On the podium, Li Ang said moved: "Thank you my wife Lin Huijia. Whether she is waiting at home for six years or becoming an international director, she has always been my pillar."
women can only remain optimistic and hopeful for the future. , Can give men strength, let men let go and work hard for their own business, and finally reap the fruits of success.
knows how to speak
knows how to speak, it is a compulsory course to keep a happy marriage.
A woman who knows how to speak, knows what to say and what not to say.
When a man does something wrong, she will not ridicule him, exclude him, but try to comfort him, encourage him, and give the man the courage and confidence to continue fighting.
And when a man is complacent, she will calmly remind him and call him, lest he sleeps in the past merits and does not want to make progress. When the empress Cai Shaofen married Zhang Jin, Zhang Jin was still a poor martial artist, and his name was unknown. The Hong Kong media ridiculed him: a man who eats soft rice. But Cai Shaofen didn't care. No matter what the occasion, he always turned into a dazzling demon: "My husband is so handsome!"
is Cai Shaofen's compliment and gave Zhang Jin the courage to continue fighting. In 2014, Zhang Jin won the 33rd Hong Kong Film Awards for Best Supporting Actor with his brilliant performance in the movie "The Grand Master". Zhang Jin, a late bloomer of
, praised Cai Shaofen when he delivered his acceptance speech. Over the years, he finally changed from "Cai Shaofen's husband" to "Zhang Jin" and became a real actor.
Behind a good marriage, there is often a woman who knows how to talk. She knows how to manage, and how to praise, so that no matter how dormant men, they will one day shine.
insist on reading
There is a saying that the more you read, the bigger the pattern.
Only by reading more can women appreciate the excitement of the world and open the pattern, not only men follow. Modern society is highly competitive. If women are always addicted to oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, they will be eliminated by the times. In the
TV series "My First Half of My Life", the reason why Luo Zijun, played by Ma Yili, was abandoned by her husband is that she stopped working and gave up making progress. Like a parasite every day, she depends on others to live. Such a woman, once a man has an affair, will have nothing and lose completely.
On the contrary, her best friend, Tang Jing, played by actor Yuan Quan, is an independent, structured and visionary woman. Even if Tang Jing left the congratulatory letter later, she could still live well.
Yuan Quan herself is also such a woman. A netizen’s child goes to the same kindergarten as Yuan Quan’s child. When other parents were reading their phones, Yuan Quan held a book in his hand and read it quietly.
It is precisely because Yuan Quan is often infiltrated and nurtured by words that she can settle in the years and is so beautiful.
"If you win, I will accompany you to rule the world, if you lose, I will accompany you to make a comeback." Vanves’ woman,No matter what changes you face, whatever scenes you face, you can be spoiled and humiliated, snuggle up with men, and take every step of your life well.
