It turns out that domestic dramas can also break up because of inappropriateness, and they can also let the male supporting actor and the female protagonist break up in a dignified manner.
accidentally came across a clip of Ji Xing and Shao Yichen breaking up. After watching the clip, I got into this drama, not for anything else, but for the dignity of Ji Xing and Shao Yichen's breakup.
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The reason why Ji Xing and Shao Yichen broke up is neither bloody nor routine.
only chose to separate because the two of them were no longer suitable, had different frequencies, had inconsistent outlooks on life, and no longer had a sense of participation in each other's lives.
It’s been a long time since I’ve seen a plot setting where the male protagonist chooses to break up because he and the female protagonist are not suitable, rather than forcibly making way for the male protagonist.
In the TV series of the past two years, the heroine broke up with her ex, either because she was a scumbag or because she was cheated on. No couple broke up with dignity.
It is rare that the screenwriter of " You are more beautiful than the starlight " did not vilify Shao Yichen's image, but gave him a slightly normal job and a very reasonable reason for exiting, which was neither abrupt nor bloody.
Many people said that the breakup between Shao Yichen and Ji Xing was a cliff-like breakup. There was no sign before, and they broke up suddenly.
But I feel that the breakup between Shao Yichen and Ji Xing is not a cliff-edge breakup. Ji Xing's inability to accept the breakup is not because of the sudden timing of Shao Yichen's breakup, but because she cannot accept the reason why Shao Yichen broke up with her.
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The moment Shao Yichen said he wanted to break up, Ji Xing knew why Shao Yichen wanted to break up.
When Ji Xing went to see Shao Yichen, he brought a contract with him and told him that she had already raised funds and he only needed to wait for her so they could get married and live the life they wanted.
But the fundamental reason why Shao Yichen and Ji Xing broke up was not because Ji Xing started a business or raised funds, but because he felt Ji Xing didn’t need him anymore. He couldn’t give Ji Xing what he wanted, and Ji Xing couldn’t give him what he wanted. life.
Shao Yichen is a person who knows how to live well and is also a family man.
When he was on a business trip, he would speed up the work process just because Ji Xing said "Miss you"; after the work was completed, he did not choose to hang out with his colleagues, but went home to be with his girlfriend of four years, which shows that he is interested in More life than career.
Every time he videos with Ji Xing, what he cares about is whether she has eaten and whether she eats seriously. Even after breaking up, he always tells her to eat well. It can be seen that he is interested in three meals a day and daily life. every moment of life.
Shao Yichen and Ji Xing have always had a relationship of caring and being taken care of. When at home, Shao Yichen usually cooks and Shao Yichen washes the dishes, while Ji Xing is responsible for praising, enjoying, and providing emotional value.
Shao Yichen enjoyed the feeling of being needed by Ji Xing.
But one day, he found that Ji Xing no longer needed his care, had no time to eat the food he cooked, no longer needed his company, no longer needed his help, and when he could no longer help her, he would have a A sense of frustration and loss.
He will feel that he is no longer needed and has no value.
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Shao Yichen is a delicate and sensitive person.
From the beginning, he did not agree with Ji Xing's entrepreneurship, but he did not say it. Not only did he not say it, he also gave Ji Xing his own down payment to support her entrepreneurship.
After that, Ji Xing focused all his energy on entrepreneurial projects and completely ignored him.
There is a detail here. On the day Shao Yichen had a rest, he brought a lot of food to Ji Xing's company to see her. He told Ji Xing to be busy and not to worry about him, and then he sat on that stool from noon to night.
The look on his face changed from admiration and pride at the beginning to loss and loneliness.
Finally waited until get off work, thinking that he could have a good chat with her, but Ji Xing still didn't have time to accompany him, and she had to go back to find information. On the fourth anniversary of
, the two made an appointment to go see a play together. As soon as they arrived at the theater, Ji Xing was called away again by a phone call.
Shao Yichen mustered up the courage to propose marriage, but Ji Xing refused because he was busy starting a business. Ji Xing's refusal and absence made Shao Yichen feel that he and Ji Xing were getting farther and farther away, so far away that he might not be in her future at all.
The time the two spend together is getting shorter and shorter, and the gap in their hearts is getting bigger and bigger.
Ji Xing fainted and something happened at Shao Yichen's home. Shao Yichen tried to contact her but couldn't. He thought she was busy again and hung up the phone after a few words.
When they met again, there was a gap between the two of them, and they could no longer treat each other as frankly as before.
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Shao Yichen said that after the breakup, Ji Xing went to Shao Yichen's home. She looked at the room, looked for cabinets, and rummaged through drawers, trying to find out the real reason why Shao Yichen broke up with her and find evidence of his cheating at home.
But she found nothing. The reason why he wanted to break up with her was really that simple.
It’s really just because the two of them have different pursuits, because they are inappropriate, have different frequencies, and have different outlooks on life; because she wants to realize her own life value, and he just wants to live a stable life; because the two of them want to take a different path. I want a different life.
It turns out that domestic dramas can break up because of inappropriateness, and such a decent breakup.
