Guo Qilin told his good friend Da Zhangwei that he wanted to try singing love songs. Da Zhangwei responded bluntly: "Stop singing love songs."
Guo Qilin asked a little unconvinced: "Why? "
Da Zhangwei said sincerely: "If you think about your image in society and in front of the audience, it is more positive, or more cheerful and humorous, even if you sing love songs. If you give it to them sincerely, they will laugh. "
When Guo Qilin shared this past incident on the show, Shen Yue said "ah" and lamented that Da Zhangwei's words were "so hurtful!"
But Guo Qilin did not Disagreeing with Shen Yue's statement, he explained: "What Zhang Wei means is that if you tell others the softest things about yourself, they will laugh and think you are kidding."
Guo Qilin said to Da Zhang Wei expressed his gratitude for his outspokenness and still remembers this heart-to-heart conversation. Chang Huasen, another guest in the
program, said: "He (Da Zhangwei) must have felt the same way, so he said such words."
Guo Qilin immediately agreed: "Yes, because he is like this too. "
Through this exchange with Da Zhangwei, Guo Qilin concluded:
"The kind of people we want to confide our secrets to is a matter of boundary
Sometimes you feel very uncomfortable. Others may not be able to empathize with you about sad things.
There are many things that make me sad when I dream about them at midnight. I show you my heart, and then you say, 'That's all?'
This is the case? , it hurt me more than what happened to me at that time. So now I think, why bother to say it? "
In fact, there is no real empathy in the world. If the needle can't prick you, you will never know how painful it is. .
Through Guo Qilin's sharing, Shen Yue finally understood what Guo Qilin and Da Zhangwei meant: "No wonder Teacher Da has a song called "I Don't Like to Sing Love Songs"."
Da Zhangwei wrote in "I Don't Like to Sing Love Songs": You know I'm really not indifferent/I'm always at a loss when I'm deeply in love/You don't blame me for silently touching my heart/The rhythm slows down when I'm gentle. / Love comes and goes, almost / I deserve to be lonely...
Perhaps to make up for Guo Qilin, Da Zhangwei composed a song called "Qiao Cai" based on Guo Degang's original Taiping lyrics "Traveling to the West Lake" "Lang" , with cheerful music style and playful lyrics, is very consistent with the public's impression of them.
Conclusion
Some netizens do not support the views of Guo Qilin and Da Zhangwei. They also took Xue Zhiqian as an example, thinking that Xue Zhiqian is both humorous and his love songs are also very beautiful.
Someone immediately retorted: Xue Zhiqian was first liked for composing and singing love songs, and then showed his humorous side.
As Da Zhangwei said, stereotypes or labels have a very serious impact on artists.
Just imagine: Yang Di sings a love song affectionately, will you like it? Guo Degang, Yue Yunpeng, Song Xiaobao, Shen Tengren, etc. are participating in the movie. Is your first reaction a comedy?
To be able to change the audience's stereotypes through his works, or even take off some of the labels on himself, requires huge and persistent efforts!
For example, Shu Qi relied on her acting skills and years of hard work to put back the "dresses she took off" piece by piece; Fan Wei relied on his acting skills and persistence to gradually fade away his impression of "Fan Debiao, the most ruthless man in Northeast China"!
