Text | Golden Silk Grass
Editor | Xiang Wanwan
The popular Taiwanese drama "We Are Not Kind Enough" has its finale. Has everyone watched it? '
' is a drama with a total of 8 episodes. When the 24th episode was aired, the Douban score soared to 9 points.
The dialogue between Rene Liu and Rebecca, who have not been seen for a long time, was unexpectedly revealed in the drama. It really speaks to the heart:
People will grow old and money will depreciate. How much money should we save to provide for our retirement?
A 40-year-old has no right to think about things he likes. A 40-year-old can only think about things to prepare for a rainy day.
Only when Liu Ruoying opened her mouth did she realize that the world was awake.
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Rene Liu: A noble girl with a tragic fate
Everyone must be familiar with Rene Liu when it comes to her.
She graduated from the music department of California State University . The songs she sings can be said to be the youthful memories of those born in the 1980s and 1990s. Every song is so catchy that it spreads throughout the streets.
's song "Later" became popular across the country, singing how many people miss their lost love.
In June 1970, Rene Liu was born into a military family in Taiwan Province of China. Her father was once a navy captain. It stands to reason that the family conditions should be very good.
Unfortunately, her parents divorced when she was just two years old.
After the divorce, because her father had to go to sea all year round and could not take her with him, her mother felt that the child was a burden to her and did not want to raise her.
In this way, the little Liu Ruoying came to her uncle's house. My uncle already has two children at home, and he can't even take care of his own children, let alone Rene Liu.
Liu Ruoying eats leftovers here every day and is often bullied by her uncle's children. The uncle's wife would scold Rene Liu from time to time.
Later, the uncle's family was unwilling to raise Rene Liu anymore, so they sent Rene Liu to live with her grandparents.
Rene Liu has been learning piano since she was a child, and the learning process has always been inseparable from music. After
graduated from the music class of the private Guangren Middle School, he went abroad to study music at the California State University, Fullerton Campus (CSU-Fullerton), where he studied vocal music and piano performance, and obtained a bachelor's degree in classical music.
returned to Taipei after graduating from university.
Rene Liu then followed Chen Sheng to learn pop music and composition. Rene Liu was already 26 years old when she entered the film and television industry.
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Rene Liu and Chen Sheng: A fateful master-disciple relationship
He called her fragrant "milk tea".
In 1991, Rene Liu met Chen Sheng, a famous singer and music producer. Chen Sheng was ten years older than Rene Rene. At that time, she had just graduated from college and was still a girl who was in love.
Chen Sheng is very capable on the road of music. Rene Liu recognized Chen Sheng as her master. Under the leadership of her master, Rene Liu became more and more successful. As
gradually got in touch with her, Chen Sheng fell in love with this little girl more and more.
Chen Sheng said that Liu Ruoying is like milk tea, a kind of milk tea that is neither bitter nor astringent, sweet but not greasy, and you will never get tired of it after drinking it for a lifetime.
He will always be her "master"
In 2002, at Chen Sheng's concert, she sang "Crazy for Love" with him on the same stage. Finally, Rene Liu asked Chen Sheng in front of everyone: "Can you give me a hug? ?”
The whole audience burst into cheers.
Rene Liu's abnormal behavior makes people think that the relationship between master and apprentice is not simple.
But Chen Sheng just touched her head, and at this moment Rene Liu understood everything.
Maybe it was because he discovered her that she became so attached to him.
We know a lot about
Rene Liu in Milk Tea, but apart from knowing that Chen Sheng is a producer, he actually sang many songs:
such as "Keep My Sorrow to Myself", "One Night in Beijing", and "Love Song of the World" sung by Rene Liu.
When Liu Ruoying became successful in her career, Chen Sheng said to Liu Ruoying: "You can leave, you don't have to rely on me anymore."
Since then, the contractual relationship between them has been suspended.
Faced with various rumors, Rene Liu said: "Don't say that I have an affair with Chen Sheng anymore. He is my master to me.""
Although there will be a lot of entanglements in the future, no matter whether it is right or not, no matter whether the two people missed each other in time, the only thing that can be known is the two people's own hearts.
There are two kinds of emotions in the world that are unforgettable:
One It's called mutual affection, and the other is called forgetting each other in the world. Maybe it's not that the two of them have never been moved by each other, but maybe they just lack a little bit of fate, and their love is deep and shallow.
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The fourth kind of relationship between Liu Ruoying and Huang Lei is not like the later relationship between Liu Ruoying and Huang Lei. What happened? The scandal between the two people spread all over the world.
At the press conference of "Inside Time", Huang Lei once said: The relationship between him and Liu Ruoying is the second most important thing besides love, family affection and friendship. Four kinds of feelings.
The two first met in 1996 when Huang Lei went to Taiwan to participate in some entertainment promotion activities and met Liu Ruoying.
However, this time the two only got to know each other roughly, and they really understood each other. In 1999, the two collaborated on the TV series "April in the World" and played a couple.
The two of them felt like they met each other too late. They have many similarities: are both actors and singers. They both like reading and writing, and they are full of literary and artistic atmosphere.
Not only that, the two of them have many similarities in their favorite celebrities, favorite foods, and the way they talk.
Rene Liu suddenly cried during a concert. She got up and said that a boy called her and said that he was getting married.
If Liu Ruoying did not agree, he would not get married. Liu Ruoying said that she hoped that the other party would be happy forever.
I don’t know if it was a coincidence or other reasons. A few days later, Huang Lei and Sun Li registered their marriage.
In 2010, Huang Lei sent a message to a circle of friends and said:
"Every day after get off work, I see a small clothing store on the corner. The name is very special and reminds me of a song. Poetry, missing someone, and then thinking of myself that year. "
So many people think of Rene Liu again, and think of a conversation between two people in "Homecoming":
Have we ever been in love?
How long have you been in love?
It seems like a moment, and the rest is endless struggle and longing. .
There may be feelings between two people, but such feelings are more in the heart and have no chance in real life.
Now both people have each other's families and their own lives. There will be no more intersections.
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Rene Liu and Zhong Xiaojiang "have separated, but are not divorced yet"
In 2011, an unexpected wedding shocked the entire entertainment industry: Rene Liu married Zhong, a wealthy businessman with a net worth of 6.8 billion. Xiao Jiang.
This marriage has attracted widespread attention.
Liu Ruoying and Zhong Xiaojiang met at a business celebration banquet.
He is the investor of the movie "The Ghost in the Heart", and she is the heroine of the film. .
Although Zhong Xiaojiang is 10 years younger than Liu Ruoying, when he first saw Liu Ruoying, he was attracted by her simple clothes and natural and fresh temperament.
So Zhong Xiaojiang plucked up the courage and quickly started a conversation with Liu Ruoying.
During the conversation with Liu Ruoying, Zhong Xiaojiang learned that Liu Ruoying was still single, and Zhong Xiaojiang began to put aside his worries and pursue Liu Ruoying without hesitation.
Since they both liked photography and had common interests, they quickly fell in love. A relationship was established.
However, this relationship was not recognized by friends and relatives because there was a 10-year age difference between the man and the woman, and the other party was a wealthy businessman worth over 100 million yuan.
However, the two chose to get married without hesitation. When getting married, Liu Ruoying made three requests to Zhong Xiaojiang:
1. The two of them lived in separate rooms;
2. Not to do housework after marriage;
3. Not to be a full-time wife.
Every request she made was enough for countless people. The man was intimidated, but to his surprise, Zhong Xiaojiang agreed without hesitation.
He said very happily: "As long as I can marry you, I will accept any conditions. There is no problem with what you said."
Now, Liu Ruoying and Zhong Xiaojiang have been married together for more than ten years.
Rene Liu once wrote in a book that her marital status:
She went to the cinema with her husband, each bought a ticket to watch their favorite movie, and then went home together after watching it. After entering the house, one turned to the left and the other to the right. They have their own separate bedroom and study room, but share the kitchen and dining room.
Their lives include not only the ordinary life of daily necessities, but also the romance of poetry and distant places.
No matter how deep the relationship is, no matter how long they have been together, no matter how tolerant a couple is, they will always be two independent individuals standing side by side.
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She tried her best in the first half of her life, but was fearless in the second half of her life.
Rene Liu is a veritable hard-working Sannyasin. From 1995 to 2005, she released an album almost every year.
"Later", "Crazy for Love", "Love You Very Much", "A Lifetime of Loneliness", "So You Are Here Too"...
There are so many songs that are so familiar that we may not have heard them for a long time. I have never heard of these songs before, but the moment I saw the title of the song, I subconsciously hummed the melody.
Liu Ruoying always makes people lose heart easily when she sings love songs. Her ability to empathize is unparalleled, and almost every song she sings can reach people's hearts.
She has been in the music industry for more than 20 years. Not only is she at the top of the music industry, but she also has a place in the entertainment industry. She won Best Actress in her first acting role.
In 2001, the romantic comedy "Pink Girl" starring Rene Liu became the memory of a generation.
The "marriage madman" she created tried a different performance style than before, and her crazy image was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Rene Liu did not give up her career after her marriage. She partnered with Zhang Guoli to film "Halfway and Son". She was already pregnant at the time, but instead of holding back the crew, she insisted on participating in a series of promotional work.
In 2017, she transitioned into directing, and the movie "The Next Us" touched countless audiences.
Her label is not limited to singers. Whether it is songwriting, outstanding acting skills in film and television, or changing careers as a director, etc., she has left a deep impression on people.
I have to say that Rene Liu is really a "talented woman".
For her, the hardships she suffered in her early years, the people and things she saw, and the self-worth she realized were all enough to resist the anxiety of middle-aged women.
No one should be afraid of being old or disadvantaged by age, because all her achievements have never been achieved by being young. Try your best in the first half of your life, and be fearless in the second half of your life.
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Accept your age and enjoy life
From a rebellious little girl who sang "I think I will always be alone, I will be alone forever", I have been married for more than ten years, have a happy family, and have a lovely son.
Time flies by. Rene Liu is 54 years old this year. She is still as gentle as a goddess, with a face that has not been bullied by time.
Rene Liu often shares her life on Weibo. After having children, Rene Liu commented on her life as "every day is like a war."
It can be said that Rene Liu’s life is both fulfilling and full of expectations. Although running a business while raising a baby can be hard, she feels it's all worth it.
After many people reach their 50s, they will understand more and more clearly that the world belongs to them and has nothing to do with others.
Instead of caring too much about the eyes of others and living your life in an extremely rigid way, it is better to be free and casual.
Try new things, get along with the people you like, laugh when you are happy, cry when you are sad, there are so many standard answers in life.
Middle-aged women can also live calmly and calmly, without being influenced by their age.
