In 1996, Ni Ping was cooking and washing clothes for Chen Kaige at home.
Suddenly, a woman came to the door.
Ni Ping opened the door and discovered that this woman was Chen Hong, known as "the most beautiful woman in ancient costume".
The first thing Chen Hong said when she saw Ni Ping was: "I'm pregnant and I want to marry him. You can quit."
Ni Ping froze where she was, as if someone had poured cold water over her head. Before
, no matter how powerful the rumors were, Ni Ping always had great trust in Chen Kaige.
didn't expect that her trust would lead to this kind of result.
Heartbroken Ni Ping moved out of Chen Kaige's residence overnight, severing her four-year relationship.
As a famous program host, Ni Ping always looks glamorous when she appears in front of the public.
But few people know that behind the glory is endless pain.
's father favors boys over girls. He has been injured 4 times in 5 relationships, and his son is born with a disease.
All kinds of sufferings piled up on Ni Ping, which made her sigh: "If there is an afterlife, I don't want parents, children, let alone a family."
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In 1959, Ni Ping was born in Weihai, Shandong.
My father is an extremely patriarchal person. When he saw his newborn daughter, he did not feel the joy of being a father for the first time, but only endless distress.
But mother is very protective of Ni Ping.
My parents often quarreled over this.
When Ni Ping was in elementary school, her parents finally divorced amid endless quarrels.
From then on, Ni Ping lived with her mother and grandma.
It is very hard for single mothers to raise their children, and Ni Ping sees it all.
Therefore, Ni Ping has been very sensible since she was in elementary school.
's academic performance has always been among the best. He never lets his mother worry. He comes home from school and starts doing housework after finishing his homework.
does its best to help the mother share the burden.
When she was in middle school, Ni Ping was still the top student in the class.
She knew that only studying could change her destiny, so she devoted herself to studying.
He has no ears to hear what is happening outside the window, and he only reads the books of sages.
One day, the school drama troupe came to the class to select actors.
Ni Ping was not interested in these at all and didn't take them seriously.
But the teacher felt that Ni Ping's image was very suitable and strongly encouraged her to give it a try.
couldn't resist the teacher's insistence, so Ni Ping had no choice but to agree to give it a try.
In the drama troupe, Ni Ping saw that all the actors were full of passion and devoted themselves to creation.
itself was infected.
Since then, she has determined her goal and is admitted to an art university.
In 1979, Ni Ping was admitted to Shandong Art Institute.
After receiving the admission notice, the first thing Ni Ping did was go to the police station to change her name.
Ni Ping was not originally surnamed Ni, but had always followed her father's surname of Liu.
But as she grew up, she became more and more aware of her mother's difficulties, so she took it upon herself to change it to her mother's surname.
When her father found out about this, he became furious and had a big quarrel with her.
No matter what her father said, Ni Ping remained unmoved.
From the moment she planned to change her name, she had already made up her mind to draw a clear line with her father.
In her second year of college, Ni Ping was lucky enough to be selected as the heroine of the movie.
played the heroine Zhou Yiyan in "Female Soldier".
Later, she played Taozi in "Mountain Chrysanthemum", which made more people know her.
After graduating from college, Ni Ping was assigned to the Shandong Provincial Theater.
Ni Ping's acting career has been going smoothly since she was in college.
In 1988, television valued her talent and offered her an olive branch.
In this way, 29-year-old Ni Ping entered television work.
At the beginning, Ni Ping still mainly shot movies and TV series, and only acted as a host in her spare time.
Two years later, Ni Ping began to host "Variety Show". After
became the host, Ni Ping slowly withdrew from the entertainment industry and became a host wholeheartedly.
Ni Ping has developed a character of refusing to admit defeat since she was a child, and her hosting skills left a deep impression on her leaders.
Starting in 1991, Ni Ping began to partner with Zhao Zhongxiang to host the stage.
Her speech was crisp and clear, her voice was sonorous and powerful, and her image was very approachable, which left a deep impression on the audience.
Especially when Zhao Benshan and Song Dandan were performing in the sketch, they said the famous sentence "Ni Ping is the lover of my dreams."
Ni Ping was sitting in the audience at that time.
It can be said that this sentence expresses the aspirations of netizens across the country.
I thought that Ni Ping would accompany everyone on the stage to spend Spring Festival after Spring Festival.
Unexpectedly, in 1999, Ni Ping withdrew from the stage after hosting the stage.
No one knew that Ni Ping, who was smiling like a flower on the stage, was suffering tremendous physical and mental suffering at that time.
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Compared with her smooth acting and hosting career, Ni Ping's emotional journey is extremely difficult.
When she was still an actor, Ni Ping met her first love, the sketch actor Guo Da.
Of course, Guo Da was not famous at that time, nor did he form a "golden partner" with Cai Ming.
Two young people who are just starting out have a very pure understanding of love.
The two had a very sweet time.
However, being young often means not being fashionable and not having your own ideas.
When Guo Da took Ni Ping home to meet his parents for the first time, his mother persuaded them to break up because they were not suitable.
Although the two tried their best to fight, their arms could not twist their thighs.
Not long after, the two broke up under pressure from their parents. After
broke up, Ni Ping, under the arrangement of her family, went on a blind date with a man from her hometown and got married.
soon had another daughter.
But at that time, Ni Ping had already tuned into the TV and was often away for several months.
This caused dissatisfaction with her husband, especially because Ni Ping, as the host, often appeared in public.
Her husband always feels that Ni Ping's career is too successful and he cannot control her.
And Ni Ping was very popular at that time, unifying the aesthetics of the three generations of old, middle and young people. Many people regarded Ni Ping as their "dream lover".
The husband is inevitably suspicious.
Because of these reasons, the conflicts between the two accumulated more and more, and eventually broke out and ended up breaking up.
When they broke up, the husband won custody of their daughter.
and asked Ni Ping not to tell anyone that he had a daughter. He wanted his daughter to grow up without any worries.
Ni Ping agreed.
For decades after
, Ni Ping never publicly said a word about her daughter, and many people didn’t know she had a daughter. After
broke up, Ni Ping focused on her career.
However, before her emotional tribulation was over, she met Chen Kaige again.
Chen Kaige is a famous director who has the temperament of a cultural man.
is very attractive to Ni Ping who likes reading.
Chen Kaige met her when she participated in a TV show.
Ni Ping appreciates Chen Kaige's talent, while Chen Kaige is attracted by Ni Ping's elegance and generosity.
At the beginning, the two just talked as friends.
But soon, the relationship between the two changed subtly.
The ambiguous atmosphere cannot be stopped.
However, Chen Kaige was a married man at that time, and his wife was named Hong Huang.
Chen Kaige was attracted by Ni Ping, who was 7 years younger, and immediately divorced Hong Huang when he returned home.
The hurt Ni Ping was very attached to this relationship and moved to Chen Kaige's residence just to take care of his food and daily life.
In the fourth year when the two were together, Chen Kaige's father passed away.
At that time, Chen Kaige was filming in other places and could not make it back immediately.
As a "quasi-daughter-in-law", Ni Ping took care of Chen Kaige's father's funeral affairs and was very busy.
Being able to do this, whether in the eyes of the Chen family or the outside world, it is a certainty that Ni Ping will marry into the Chen family.
But no one expected that Director Chen Da was not only busy filming, but also busy dating.
Chen Kaige met Chen Hong, who is 16 years younger than himself, during the filming process.
Chen Hong was stunningly beautiful when she was young. She was known as "the most beautiful woman in mainland China" and "the most beautiful woman in ancient costume".
For some reason, I met Director Chen Da and had a child.
Chen Hong did not hesitate to bear the reputation and gave up her bright acting career to marry Chen Kaige.
Ni Ping had long heard of various rumors between the two, but she didn't believe it as long as Chen Kaige denied it.
Until Chen Hong came to the door in person with a big belly.
Ni Ping was heartbroken. She never expected that after being together with Chen Kaige for six years, she would end up being broken up.
Later, Ni Ping wrote in her book "Confinement": "He told me many times, marry me, live with me, but he didn't mention the word marriage."
After breaking up with Chen Kaige Ni Ping sheds tears every day.
’s good friend couldn’t stand it and introduced her to a man six years older than her—Wang Wenlan. After
married Wang Wenlan, Ni Ping gave birth to a son.
Friends around her also breathed a sigh of relief, thinking that this time Ni Ping would finally find a good home.
Unexpectedly, Ni Ping's misfortunes are not over yet.
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Wang Wenlan is a photographer.
When the two first got married, they were indeed sweet for a while.
But with the birth of his son Huzi, this sweetness no longer exists.
Huzi was diagnosed with congenital cataracts just after he was born.
Ni Ping was shocked when she heard the news.
She couldn't figure out why her life was so miserable.
After crying, Ni Ping started taking her son to seek medical treatment.
Unfortunately, even though she visited all the hospitals in the country, she could not cure her son.
In grief, Ni Ping made a decision to quit television and take her son abroad for treatment.
However, two things stopped her.
First, her husband Wang Wenlan did not agree to continue treating his son.
Since the birth of my son, all the family's savings have been spent on treating him.
Moreover, many doctors have concluded that the son's disease can never be cured, and further treatment will be in vain.
This is a bottomless pit.
But Ni Ping disagrees with this statement. She firmly believes that as long as he is treated well, his son will one day be like a healthy person.
The two kept quarreling over this matter.
Ni Ping decided to go to the United States alone with her children.
But the director of the TV stage found her and told her that netizens across the country were looking forward to her appearing on the stage and whether she could host the stage before leaving.
Ni Ping did not want to live up to the expectations of netizens across the country, so she agreed.
New Year's Eve in 1999 was a day of reunion and joy for the audience.
When Ni Ping stood on the stage with a smile and met everyone as promised, people just thought it was another warm night.
Little did he know that at this time, Ni Ping was feeling like a knife.
When asked later about her thoughts at the time, Ni Ping said: "The audience has been with me for more than ten years. I have always been like a warrior and performed very well. I cannot let the audience see tears on my face because of my personal matters." ." After the
stage, Ni Ping took her son abroad.
But at this time, her marriage to her husband Wang Wenlan turned red.
Wang Wenlan felt that Ni Ping's efforts were in vain, and Ni Ping felt that Wang Wenlan was hard-hearted regardless of her children.
The two quarreled on the phone almost every day.
In 2005, both of them were so upset that they had no choice but to break up, ending their eight-year marriage.
A year before the breakup, Ni Ping resigned from television and devoted herself to taking care of her son.
Her son's illness requires high medical expenses. Ni Ping, who resigned as a host, returned to the film industry.
She knocked on the door of each director and asked them to give her a role.
Even if it is a supporting role.
After all, Ni Ping has been in TV for many years and knows some directors, and her acting skills have always been online.
After returning to the film industry, Ni Ping also won many famous awards such as the Huabiao Award.
Every time she gets paid after filming, she flies abroad to pay for her son's medical expenses and accompany him during surgery.
Then he flew back and filmed like crazy.
Every time she was filming in China, she was an elderly mother accompanying her son in a foreign country.
has been on this road for ten years.
Until one time when she went to the hospital for a review, the doctor told Ni Ping that she no longer needed to come to the hospital.
Just wait until your son gets married to check again.
Ni Ping cried with joy, and even said excitedly to her son: "Let's get married when we are sixty. I am really afraid of going to the hospital again."
This shows how difficult it was to spend ten years with her son in treatment.
Ni Ping, who had sacrificed everything for her son, finally found her good match.
While filming, Ni Ping reunited with director Yang Yazhou, whom she had collaborated with many times.
Yang Yazhou had been married before, and he had a son with his ex-wife, Yang Bo, who was also a director.
In 2005, Yang Yazhou and Ni Ping got married, and the wedding was very low-key.
Yang Yazhou has told the media more than once: "Ni Ping is not only a good host, but also a good actor. She has a grateful heart."
His love and appreciation for Ni Ping comes from the heart.
During the ten years when Ni Ping traveled between two countries for her son, he had been silently supporting and encouraging Ni Ping from behind.
Ni Ping, whose son recovered and her married life was peaceful, appeared in the public eye again.
She returned to the stage and hosted the large-scale family search program "Waiting for Me".
In addition to being extremely happy about Ni Ping's return, many viewers also noticed that Ni Ping's face was swollen and she suddenly looked much older.
However, if you think about her experiences over the years, you will know that behind this old-looking face is the soul of a woman gritting her teeth.
However, as life gradually improved, Ni Ping placed high demands on herself. She began to exercise and eat regularly. When she appeared in front of the audience again, she was capable and energetic.
Ni Ping once said in an interview: "If there is a next life, I don't want parents, children, let alone a family."
Although there is a bit of anger, it is not difficult to hear that this journey has not been easy for her. .
As a viewer, if there is a next life, I only hope that she can meet Yang Yazhou as soon as possible.
