Most girls have such a stage of thinking change: When they were young, they liked gentle and sweet young ladies, and even used them as idols, dreaming of little princesses every day. After growing up, I began to like beautiful and sassy women with "not to be messed with" written all over them. I hope that one day I can also learn a skill or two, have the ability to turn against the wind, and take control of my life.
Among all the movies and TV dramas I have watched, Park Hae Mi in the Korean drama "Funny Family" is such a strong and beautiful woman. Every pore in her body exudes a "not to be messed with" atmosphere, but she is also accompanied by an approachable temperament about. Therefore, when one sees her, the biggest feeling is that she is a proper strong woman, shrewd and capable, and successful in her career.
But after getting along with her, you will feel that she has a bold personality. She is straightforward without embarrassing others, simple and generous, bright and warm, like a spring breeze.
So, in "Funny Family", how fun is Park Hae-mi's life as a woman with the label of "not to be messed with"? After watching the complete episode, I have to admire her a lot. Unlike many film and television dramas that have a strong outside and a hollow space, relying on fancy clothes to support their aura, the role of Park Hae Mi was in front of many strong women characters today 14 years later in 2006.
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is professional but does not steal the limelight, knows the general.
In the beginning, Lee Soonjae Hanfang Hospital was a pharmacy founded by Ms. It was named after my grandfather, and it was not renamed Park Hae Mi Hanfang Hospital until some crises emerged.
Many times in the play, it is implied that Grandpa’s skills are not as good as Haimei’s. And the number of people treated by grandpa is very small, Teacher Xu is one of them, and there are also many patients who have been treated for crooked mouth. Maybe grandpa used to be an all-powerful person in the medical field, but now he has to admit that his strength is not as good as his daughter-in-law's.
There are also TV interviews, Cheong Wa Dae symposiums, visits to foreign families, etc. It all shows that the father-in-law is not good at public relations, nor can he deal with external pressure, but she never exposes it, but carefully maintains the decency and dignity of the father-in-law at home.
Therefore, because Haimi has contributed the most to the family, the right to speak is also second to grandpa. In fact, if she is willing, as long as she brings her strength to work home, the whole family will "respect" her. Who told her to make the most money and have the strongest ability?
However, she has a clear understanding of work and life, and she is a professional and steady woman at work. She is shrewd and capable, and she is a proper strong woman. But when I get home, I play the role of daughter-in-law, mother, and sister-in-law. You can be powerful at work, but you must be considerate and considerate when you go home, and be a family member.
Therefore, she will fight wits and bravery with her brother-in-law, but without any aura of revenge, the scope of the duel is controlled within a reasonable and proportionate situation. To put it bluntly, their confrontation is just a coincidence that a comrade who can dispel boredom but is evenly matched appears in a boring life, so there is no harmful scheming, only fun to relieve boredom.
often says that a family should care for each other, so he is particularly interested in his brother-in-law's love affair. After all, his brother-in-law is the only powerful "enemy" who can summon her fighting power again. Therefore, when Minjing and Minyong broke up for the first time, it was Haemi who used her strong analytical skills and ability to understand people to reconcile the two people who had decided to give up.
In fact, for Minyong's indifferent and extremely perfunctory attitude towards her, she doesn't need to go to such lengths to help Minyong restore a precious love, but who calls them a family? The
family should help each other. When one is about to be crushed, the other abandons his identity as a bystander and steps forward, trying his best to restore his dignity and beauty. It doesn't matter whether Minyong is grateful or not, the key is that she is worthy of the word "family".
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know the world but not the world, and live a simple and transparent life.
Shin Ji broke up with her boyfriend,And her boyfriend is a guy with a background, so he lost his job for no reason. He was ready to sprint, but when he turned around, he suddenly found out that he had been cut off from the competition. When his ex-husband Minyong found out, he asked his sister-in-law for help. Haimei agreed to her brother-in-law. Request, relying on interpersonal relationships to help Shen Zhi get the job done.
In order to thank the sister-in-law, Shen Zhi specially invited her to dinner. The sister-in-law called her mother-in-law to fix Shin Zhi, and then joined Jun Ha on the way, and beat Shin Zhi hard. But at the checkout, she paid for the meals of her mother-in-law and husband for Shen Zhi, and only asked Shen Zhi to pay the odd bill.
This small heart-warming gesture somewhat changed Shen Zhi's attitude towards his sister-in-law.
The person who used to be arrogant in my heart is suddenly willing to stretch out his hand when you are in the most difficult time, and protect your dignity and give you enough dignity. This kind of affection will be touching to anyone, after all, The human heart is full of flesh, and you can feel the body temperature when you cover it with your hands.
There was also the time when grandpa’s sister came to the house as a guest and treated her mother-in-law like a servant. At first, Haimei was just out of curiosity. How could her father-in-law and mother-in-law know each other so early? Later, I learned that my mother-in-law used to be a servant of Master Shuncai's family. Because of Shuncai's preference, the two finally got married.
And Young Master Shuncai's elder sister always criticizes her mother-in-law. In the final analysis, it is because the identity of a young lady is deeply rooted in her bones, and she always treats her mother-in-law like a human being.
When I was poor, I went to the cattle circle for a piece of chocolate and played it big in front of a group of friends, making my mother-in-law make a fool of myself; I wore clothes I didn’t want, and gave them to my mother-in-law, and called it out-of-date and out-of-date. nice.
Maybe out of respect, or because of her personality, the mother-in-law is always angry with herself and will not show it in front of her sister.
Until Haimei came to the rescue, she solemnly returned the clothes that her aunt had thrown to her mother-in-law to her aunt, and told her where to put the clothes. Her mother-in-law is not a servant, and she should not do these things; Taking advantage of the situation, I dragged out a large bag of clothes and returned them to my aunt. My mother and she had already tried on these clothes, and they didn't think they fit well. Besides, the clothes of the dean's wife should not be limited to this level.
Her husband finds it not surprising that her sister is so arrogant, and her children are indifferent. After all the bad things, Haimei, who never left her nicknames like crowing hen, rotten bucket and ladle, helped her straighten her back and win back her face.
Some people stand tall and look far, and they will turn a blind eye to the little things, and use all means of revenge on those who have a little bit of festivals, let him fall to the bottom, see him embarrassed, watch his jokes, and taste the pleasure of revenge .
And some people are at a high place, still don't forget the time and the way they came, don't care about gains and losses and grievances, are friendly to the weak, look up to the strong, neither humble nor overbearing. Help others when they are in trouble, and send blessings when others are taking off. This kind of open-mindedness is rare in the world, and it is also rare in film and television dramas. Park Hae Mi is one of them.
03
has a bottom line but is unassuming, emotional control can be retracted freely, and the way of timely stop loss is used appropriately.
saw Shin Ji-deng in the magazine with a lot of compliments, as the ex-husband's sister-in-law, she cut out this news and posted it on the honor roll; when she learned that Yunho caused trouble at school, she didn't defend or defend, just sincere He apologized to the parents of his classmates, to the teacher, and didn't even scold Yunho at all.
Yunho, who likes to drive fast, carefully pushes his motorcycle and walks beside his mother, while Haimei, who has always pursued efficiency, walks home silently step by step in high heels. This beautiful scenery is both serious and warm.
Parents who are busy with their careers miss a lot of opportunities to get along with their children. Mischievous children may be out of boredom or to attract the attention of their parents. But in the end, the time when mother and child are forced to be together is actually because of passivity. It's a bit ironic to think about it, but isn't it also the epitome of our reality?
pick up work, can't take care of children, put down work, can't give children a decent life,Fearing that he would lose at the starting line, the parents worked hard and ran as hard as they could, and finally had no worries about food and clothing, and had more choices, but they forever missed the most beautiful time with their children.
Life is a process of constant weighing and selection. Every time you lose something, you regret desperately, but you often lose more. It was only later that I realized that no matter whether you regret it or not, what you lose will eventually be lost, and what you get will come in due time. The purpose of running desperately is not to catch something, but to seek comfort, comfort yourself that you have never let down time.
So, when Yunho announced to his family that he was going to travel around the world and all over the rivers, grandparents and fathers were all thinking whether he was a dream or completely crazy, and then firmly opposed it, except for his mother who voted in favor.
As a piece of meat that fell from her body, how could she not understand Yunho's loss, just like when she was dumped by her boyfriend, she chose to take revenge in a way of getting angry and quickly married and had children with someone she didn't love, and lived an ordinary life Self-destructive life.
Fortunately, her life is full of happiness, and Yunho is also in such a period of trough and despair. Unlike her, Yunho chooses to pursue, but she chooses to give up, and no matter what choice she makes, she needs to face it alone in the end. alone.
So, for the first time, she calmly agreed with Yunho's decision, the best way to heal the wound is to keep searching until the wound heals, she is like this, Minho is like this, Yunho needs this too, she knows it too well.
Conclusion:
The character of Hae Mi is amazing, maybe some people don’t like Minjeong, some people don’t like Shinji, some people don’t like Minyong, but no one doesn’t like Haemi, she really lives by her skills So cool and so cool. When I am the most angry, I don’t use wine to drown my sorrows, but listen to music to vent my anger. The more angry the decibel is, the greatest skill is to be strong when you are strong, and soft when you are weak.
is strong in learning and execution. When Shen Zhi and her classmates taunted her in Russian, she spent sleepless nights and forgot to eat and study by herself and became proficient in Russian. She is fluent in English and communicates freely with foreigners. She treats people kindly without losing the bottom line. She showed strong public relations skills. When her husband discovered the secret of her marriage, she chose to lower her profile and propose to him again. She was romantic and free and easy, and there seemed to be nothing she couldn't handle.
Of course, she is not a perfect dummy, but a living person with many small flaws. Although she is not drunk for a thousand cups, the world will turn upside down when she is drunk. The only people who have witnessed her gaffe after drinking are Min Yong and Min Ho; seeing the fried chicken delivery staff with refined temperament will also be emotionally charged by little girls; she will worry about her mother saying bad things about her behind her back And go to eavesdrop; you will be jealous because of Yumi's use of your precious son; In addition to "not easy to mess with", there is also a word "home".
