01, I don't know if you have heard a word, " pro-", this word generally means that the older generation will be especially fond of grandchildren's children, and this phenomenon is also reflected in the star Yingda , and is highly targeted.
As we all know, Yingda has always been lukewarm to his son Batu , even in the eyes of his ex-wife Song Dandan , Yingda as a father completely ignores his son, but after learning that Batu gave birth to a son After that, Yingda's inner attitude towards her son also had a subtle change.
has not contacted at first, and now offered to see her grandson. Yingda's change in attitude really surprised Song Dandan and her son. Did Yingda begin to care about the mother and son?
I don't think it's very likely. The reason why Yingda does this is largely because of the existence of his grandson. After all, Yingda is old, and coupled with the relationship between generations, Yingda has a certain attitude towards his son Batu. Changed, but this request was ruthlessly rejected by Song Dandan!
Song Dandan: "You and your son have been strangers for 14 years, and it's only now that you think of acting as a loving father. I'm sorry I don't accept it!" I have always had a bad relationship with Yingda. In addition to not caring about my son, I think Song Dandan still resents Yingda.
02, Song Dandan and Yingda's emotional entanglement.
This resentment naturally comes from the marriage of two people!
Before the two met, both Yingda and Song Dandan had experienced a marriage, and they were both injured!
Yingda Peking University After graduating, he had the opportunity to study abroad. Because he didn't want to be separated from his wife, he asked his grandfather to tell his grandmother to add his girlfriend's name to the list of study abroad students.
Who knows, the two of them were fine when they left. But when he came back, his wife was unwilling to come back together, so Yingda had no choice but to divorce.
And Song Dandan had just experienced a failed marriage at that time, and his heart was also very low. The two people met at this time, somewhat like the taste of the world.
At that time, Song Dandan just turned 28 years old. To be honest, his appearance is still very online. If hadn't failed in his marriage, he probably wouldn't have looked down on Yingda. After all, Yingda's appearance was average, and he was not famous.
However, fate is sometimes so wonderful. After a film cooperation, two people have a good impression of each other. Coupled with the common experience, it can be said that the more they talk, the more speculative they become. Married in 1989.
03. After marriage, the two also had a honeymoon period for several years, and gave birth to their son Batu. However, such a happy time was short-lived. Variety. During the period of
, Song Dandan could be said to have more blooms in both sketches and film and television, especially the sketches " lazy blind date " and " super guerrilla " during the Spring Festival Gala made her famous.
People always praise Song Dandan, but few people notice Yingda who is getting more and more lost.
Because of his busy work, Song Dandan often works overtime until late at night, and the couple often quarrel over family trivial matters, and their relationship is becoming more and more cold.
During that time, Yingda recalled that everyone said that he was "the husband of famous actor Song Dandan", and few people paid attention to his own career, which made him very disappointed. As a man, he did not want to live with his wife forever. under the aura.
To this end, he kept working hard, hoping to get a chance to become famous, and the opportunity will come soon!
04. In 1993, Yingda got the opportunity to direct the sitcom " I love my family ". During the filming process of more than a year, Yingda gave all her efforts just to prove herself!
's hard work pays off. "I Love My Home" became a hit as soon as it was broadcast, and was well received by countless audiences, and Yingda was finally able to raise eyebrows.gas.
But at this moment, a woman broke into Yingda's world.
This is Liang Huan, the sister of the famous writer Liang Zuo .
met while filming "I Love My Home", were just friends at first, but as the time of contact became longer and longer, the relationship between them also underwent subtle changes, from ordinary friends to slow Slowly became a confidante.
According to Yingda's memory, Liang Huan is not a beautiful woman, and her figure is not good, but she is deeply attracted by the other party. This woman and Song Dandan are completely two types of people. Song Dandan is strong and does not understand the taste of life, while Liang Huan is a Very talkative, and very understanding of romance, can always say some burdens to make themselves happy.
It is for this reason that the hearts of Yingda and Liang Huan finally came together, and there is no airtight wall in the world, this matter was gradually discovered by Song Dandan, So she asked Yingda to question, but Yingda asked. Da told her that she was not having an affair, and in the end Song Dandan chose to trust her husband, but with more and more gossip around her, Song Dandan could no longer remain calm.
Especially once, Song Dandan found evidence of Yingda and Liang Huan, and her heart collapsed at that moment. However, Song Dandan is also a very individual woman. In order to get revenge on Yingda, she chose a random person. Had an affair, and then called to Yingda: "I'm having an affair, let's get a divorce!" After listening to
Yingda hesitated for three seconds: "Okay!" Crying, it seems that she still values her relationship with Yingda very much. At this moment, she doesn't feel relieved. On the contrary, she feels very sad!
05. On January 2, 1997, the two agreed to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures. Along the way, Song Dandan and Yingda did not speak. When they arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, the two went through the divorce smoothly.
can go back to the car, Song Dandan accidentally saw Liang Huan's text message to Yingda: "How about, the divorce procedures are over."
Song Dandan was very angry, but she couldn't have a seizure, so she could only bury her grievances In the bottom of my heart, when returned home, she stayed out of the house for several days.
A month later, Yingda and Liang Huan quickly got married, and this became a straw that broke Song Dandan, and she wanted to leave this world in grief.
Fortunately, when she called her good friend Ni Ping to say goodbye, Ni Ping's words changed her mind!
Ni Ping told her: "Don't die first, come to my house to mop the floor. I'm waiting for you!"
However, for Yingda, Song Dandan has been unable to overcome this hurdle in her heart. In her autobiography, Song Dandan also expressed her dissatisfaction with Yingda many times.
In addition, over the years, Yingda has been disregarding his son Batu, which makes Song Dandan even more chilled.
Song Dandan once said that when his son was 7 years old, his son asked Yingda to take him out to play, but Yingda shied away for various reasons. When he was 11 years old, his son asked Yingda for his grandfather's phone number, and Yingda also No, after the grandfather passed away, the son wanted to send him off for the last ride, but Yingda refused without mercy.
For more than 20 years, Yingda has never fulfilled her father's responsibilities in Batu's life, which makes Song Dandan, who has been hurt by Yingda, hate Yingda even more. other side.
Yes, it's normal to think about it. Yingda was unfaithful to herself during the marriage, and then she failed to fulfill her father's responsibilities. How can Song Dandan face her former husband calmly.
This is why after his son Batu got married, Song Dandan never let Yingda participate in his son's life, even if he had a grandson later, Song Dandan would not let Yingda visit, just like SongAs Dandan said, this is Yingda's own fault!
Having said that, now Song Dandan and his son Batu are living more and more wonderfully. It is not necessary to say that Song Dandan's career is very successful. Although his son is only a little famous in the entertainment industry, he is doing well in the live broadcast field. Self-reliance, it seems that Yingda's participation is really not needed.
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