" Boiling Life " is an emotional drama with a very large time span. It almost covers the thinking changes and growth experiences of three generations. Because of this, watching this drama will always give me a kind of experience of the years. of vicissitudes. The finale of
's "Boiled Life" is very satisfactory, but in the process of it moving towards completion, it can also be said that these people in the play are still unavoidable bumps and bumps in the process of growing up, and they are inevitably confused, tangled and even make mistakes. Because human beings are originally a relatively complex individual, human behavior will be guided and restricted by personality, thoughts, concepts, etc.
To put it bluntly, what kind of person you are is almost destined to what kind of life path you will take. In this drama, there are three people I like very much. They not only live transparently, but also have a clearer position and understanding of themselves. In the end, they all have their own happiness. Of course, they deserve such happiness.
01 Xu Chi
Xu Chi is really a very transparent person. When he was young, he liked Shen Xia and planned to stay in Huaqi for Shen Xia. However, Shen Xia at that time was all about Ai Changan, and Xu Chi could only treat her well. He and Ai Changan had also fought, but when he discovered Ai Changan's advantages, he also admired him sincerely.
Later, Shen Xia left Huaqi and Ai Changan, and Xu Chi began to guard her side again, but he could never enter Shen Xia's heart, and he never put pressure on Shen Xia.
After Shen Xia and Ai Changan got back together, in order to make Shen Xia resign smoothly, Xu Chi signed a five-year non-compete agreement. At the expense of leaving his favorite industry for five years, he fulfilled Shen Xia's happiness in life, and it can be regarded as a complete end to his feelings for Shen Xia.
Seeing this, you will definitely think, Xu Chi, such an affectionate man, must have a hard time letting go of Shen Xia, right? The fact is that he left the auto industry for five years without delay. He read MBA and entered the venture capital industry, which laid the foundation for saving Huaqi later. He got married, had a daughter, and lived a very happy life.
When he saw Ai Changan and Shen Xia again, and returned to Huaqi again, their previous emotions and efforts did not cause them any estrangement or embarrassment. They were just old friends who knew nothing about it, comrades-in-arms who went hand in hand.
Compared with Yang Weiwei's half life, I only care about one person, I appreciate Xu Chi's character that can be put down if he can afford it. When he is in love, he does not hesitate to give, and when the other party has a destination, he does not waste in meaningless feelings, but lives his life seriously. I think, to be able to do this, not only need a transparent thinking, but also need a broad mind.
Fortunately, Xu Chi is such a transparent and broad person, so in the end, he not only made achievements in his career, but also has a happy family. His daughter is as good as him and is deeply loved by Shen Xia.
02 Liu Qingqing
Liu Qingqing is a very simple and very simple girl. In the whole "Boiled Life", she didn't do anything unforgettable, she just lived her little life down-to-earth, from the kitchen girl to the buyer in charge of the comprador, from the shyness From a little girl to a woman who dares to express her sincerity. The relationship between
Liu Qingqing and Meng Heping is also very pure. At the beginning, Liu Qingqing knew that Meng Heping liked her, but deliberately made fun of him and did not give him a good face. In fact, she secretly remembered him in her heart. good.
Later, when revealing the relationship between the two of them, Liu Qingqing said something like this:
, since he was a child, I felt that there was none of the shining points I admired in several brothers, but after such a long time, He was the one who stayed by my side and asked for warmth. He couldn't even kick him. I used to joke that he had the face of a second senior brother. One has to get the heart of the truth. Me, this person is actually very simple, whoever treats me well, I will treat him 10,000 points, in this life, it is him!
Really, when I heard this, I couldn't believe it was from thisWhat a simple little girl said, it clearly contains a love philosophy that many people have not been able to understand in their entire lives.
Just like what Liu Qingqing said, Meng Heping really doesn't have obvious advantages compared to other people in Huaqi Seven Swords, but what Liu Qingqing sees is his sincerity towards her. Sincerely, no one can compare. With only one point, he is the man she can entrust her whole life with.
This is Liu Qingqing's transparency. She knows how to see a person's essence through his appearance, and knows not to ignore a person's merits because of his ordinariness. More importantly, she also has a clear position for herself. She is an ordinary person who lives steadily. A girl, not a princess who can hold everything in her hands, so she must cherish the sincerity around her and seize the happiness in front of her.
So we can see that Liu Qingqing is almost the first one of their partners to have a good harvest, and she has lived a very happy life from beginning to end.
Her happiness is the kind of ordinary happiness that belongs to ordinary people.
03 He Xiaojun
said that He Xiaojun is transparent because he has three positive views, has his own ideas, and can stick to his own ideas. In life, many times of loss is actually due to the lack of firm will and clear ideas, and people like He Xiaojun, he can make his own correct choices no matter when and where.
When Ge Taiping gradually became mentally unbalanced because Ai Changan was better than himself in every way, their Huaqi Qijian also had a disagreement. The factory asked Ge Taiping and Ai Changan to compete for the sales manager for a three-month period. In order to win, Ge Taiping recruited all the people under him.
has only He Xiaojun, who took the initiative to choose Ai Changan. At that time, He Xiaojun said something like:
Changan, do you know why I am willing to follow you no matter what happens? Your mind has never been skewed. From the inside out, you are upright and upright. Following you makes me feel at ease.
He Xiaojun chose Ai Changan because Ai Changan had never been wrong, and he made such a choice because his own thoughts had never been wrong. Those who choose Ge Taiping, don't they know what kind of person Ai Changan is? Or do they really not know what kind of person Ge Taiping is? Of course not
. It was because they only cared about their immediate interests. They felt that Ge Taiping would have a better chance of winning, so they chose Ge Taiping. As for how he won, or how his character was, they didn't care at all. care.
He Xiaojun's transparency lies in the fact that he not only sees the present, but also considers the long-term. He is not limited to the surface, but can see the essence. A person with a bad mind may have short-term success, but he will lose more in the end; while a person with a pure mind may not win in the immediate future, but he will benefit in the long run. At the finale of
"Boiled Life", several generations of Huaqi stood in front of the TV and watched He Xiaojun's son He Shuaike drive by in Huaqi's car through the screen, which also verified the success of He Xiaojun's life from the side. and happiness.
, a transparent person, will really benefit future generations.
About the author: meets Acacia, a woman who likes reading and writing. She focuses on the creation of articles in the emotional direction of film and television and the analysis and answer of questions in the emotional field. I hope my words can accompany you warmly.
