On April 20, 2006, singer Cong Fei closed his eyes forever and never survived the pain. He was only 37 years old.
, a "moving Chinese character" who has been charitable for 11 years, performed more than 400 charity performances, volunteered 6,000 hours, donated more than 3 million yuan, helped more than 150 people, and adopted 37 orphans His beloved daughter passed away suddenly.
This is a human tragedy.
just didn't expect that 5 years later, on October 13, 2011, his wife Xing Dan, who was raising her daughter alone, was also hit by a flying stone because of a prank involving three boys.
followed Cong Fei's footsteps because the rescue was ineffective.
's 5-year-old daughter has become an orphan!
The hemp rope is cut at the delicate point, and God always deceives good people.
Now 16 years have passed. Cong Fei and Xing Dan, who were fighting for "charity" during their lifetime, and their beloved daughter Xing Xiao Congfei, how are they doing? What is the admirable past of
singer Cong Fei? What happened to
's wife Xing Dan after his death?
makes her worthy of the title of "Shenzhen Rose"?
1: Cong Fei
, formerly known as Zhang Chong in 1969, was born in a poor peasant family in Dawa County, Liaoning Province.
lives with only one mu of thin fields. Although
lived a very difficult life, Cong Fei was still full of hope for his future life under the guidance of his parents.
's optimistic and intuitive way of expressing this kind of life is singing.
In fact, it may be that without anyone's guidance, even the parents don't know when Xiao Congfei started to fall in love with singing.
is also because of this, Cong Fei became a little lark in the village when he was very young, and was often invited to sing a song in front of the whole village at major festivals.
Everyone thinks that he will definitely become a famous singer in the future.
even his relatives and friends around him thought so, and persuaded Cong Fei's parents to let him learn systematic music knowledge.
It's a pity that in the face of real life, parents have exhausted 12 points of their strength to support Cong Fei to complete his studies. How could
have the ability to support him in studying music?
So until his debut, Cong Fei was a folk singer without systematic training and study.
And, when he was 13 years old, his family suddenly changed, and Cong Fei couldn't even finish his basic studies.
could only drop out of school to work in Shenyang.
It's hard to imagine what a 13-year-old boy would go through alone in a big city?
But you can understand one thing, the lashing of reality and the coolness of the world are not the slightest bit.
often have such experience, it is difficult to treat the world gently, but obviously Cong Fei is an exception.
Not only did he not become gloomy because of this, he also took the time to be admitted to Shenyang Conservatory of Music during his part-time job!
During his four-year college career, Cong Fei never asked for a penny from home. After
graduated, he dreamed of becoming a singer everywhere looking for opportunities and stages, but unfortunately, he has remained unknown without his connections and background.
Relying on temporary performances in some small stages and bars, Cong Fei came to Shenzhen. This is where
changed his future. The story of
originated from Cong Fei's street singing experience. At that time, he was shy because of the 80 yuan registration fee for the national singing competition, and he didn't want to give up this opportunity. In desperation,
began to sing loudly at the gates of squares and commercial streets where crowds gathered.
raises registration fee!
may not be ideal after a few performances.
may be pitiful, just when Cong Fei wanted to give up participating in this game.
A strange girl who was moved by Cong Fei's singing gave him 600 yuan.
is the 600 yuan that made Cong Fei stand on the stage of the singing competition. By chance, he became the apprentice of the high-pitched singer Guo Song at that time..
With the guidance of the master, Cong Fei bid farewell to the wild way.
officially embarked on the road of professional singer.
followed by an increase in performances and income, and a business evolution of tens of thousands has become commonplace.
Life has undergone tremendous changes, except for the teacher, Cong Fei is grateful to the woman who gave her 600 yuan.
Cong Fei, who later became famous, also tried to find a girl, but how could it be so easy in the vast crowd!
searched several times to no avail, but I could only bury my gratitude in my heart.
planted the seed that he wanted to help others.
In 1994, Cong Fei finally got this opportunity, a charity performance for out-of-school children, which made him realize his dream of helping others.
and have been out of control ever since!
is different from other celebrities in charity, Cong Fei really invested all his net worth.
even lived in a small house of less than 100 square meters after becoming famous for a long time. The electrical appliances in
's house have been repaired and repaired, but they are still reluctant to replace them with new ones. At first, the wife could bear it.
chose to support his charity, but later Cong Fei would even borrow money for charity.
owes 120,000 in debt, which also touches his wife's bottom line.
Finally, Cong Fei's wife, who could not bear it, left her 4-year-old daughter and Cong Fei chose to divorce. After
became a single father, raising his daughter and doing charity have almost become his whole life. No one around
can understand!
in addition to his later wife Xing Dan.
2: Xing Dan
and Cong Fei have much better family conditions than Xing Dan.
In 1981, Xing Dan was born in a middle-class family in Panjin, Liaoning Province, although his family was not rich.
but not the average person can compare.
And as the only daughter in the family, Xing Dan, who is held in the palm of his hand, has almost never experienced the suffering of the world. Whether it is food, clothing, housing and transportation,
is one of the best among his peers. If a little princess like
is not properly educated, there is a high probability that she will develop arrogance and pampering.
Obviously Xing Dan is an exception. Not only does
have nothing to do with these bad faults, but she is kind, intelligent, and brave.
What is even more commendable is that Xing Dan's academic performance is also very good. After graduation,
became a beautiful and generous flight attendant.
also met Cong Fei who was already single in the year she became a flight attendant. Although
only met for the first time, the two seemed to be old friends for many years and had endless topics to talk about.
is surprisingly consistent especially in the three views.
and Cong Fei also seem to have found a person to talk to, telling them all these years of experience and the mental journey of engaging in charity.
After listening to this single father's narration, the beautiful and kind Xing Dan had a heartfelt admiration for this man while feeling distressed.
She feels that such a man with great love deserves a better life and his own happiness.
So the girl who was 12 years younger than Cong Fei came up with a bold idea.
She will take care of Cong Fei for a lifetime!
faced such a move, let alone Xing Dan's parents Cong Fei would not agree.
himself is much older than the girl, and he is still married and divorced with a baby.
Doesn't this delay people?
Unfortunately, these truths are obviously just untenable excuses in the face of love, although Xing Dan's parents are very opposed to and even cut off the relationship.
still couldn't stop this daughter's determination to be with Cong Fei.
Actually, Cong Fei liked this girl with the same three views as him as early as after the two met for the first time.
is just that he knows his situation and dare not admit it.
However, Xing Dan's determination still moved him invisibly. As a man, he can't be as timid and cowardly as a girl.
is like this, two people with an age difference of 12 years, come together.
rareIn the face of Cong Fei, who almost gave up all his devotion to charity, Xing Dan fully supported him.
takes care of the rear at home, so that her husband Cong Fei has no worries.
, a well-born little princess, became a stepmother who was willing to live a hard life.
The family of three is very poor.
3:
If life goes on as usual, although poor but spiritually rich is not a happy thing.
, but maybe God is also jealous of Cong Fei, this charitable man. On May 12, 2005,
was diagnosed with gastric cancer , which has reached the advanced stage.
At that time, Cong Fei had already donated 186 drop-out children, not to mention the treatment of stomach cancer. Usually, there is no money for treatment of minor disasters at home. The
family was in trouble, and Cong Fei's charitable donations were interrupted.
is worth mentioning that his deeds were reported just when he was extremely melancholy.
More and more people know about this singer who has great love, and remittances from the society are coming one after another.
But at this time, Cong Fei donated these remittances without hesitation even though he needed treatment very much. He took out 30,000 of them and set up the "Zhanhua Congfei Scholarship Fund" in Zhanhua Middle School in Shenzhen. , more than 100 poor students benefited from it in later years.
On February 9, 2006, Cong Fei was named "Top Ten News People Who Moved China in 2005".
To the outside world, he is a great and noble man.
Cong Fei, who suffered from cancer in private, also said, "I'm sorry for my wife Xing Dan, I hope she divorces herself. After all, she still has a long way to go in her life." People around
also explained this.
But at that time, Xing Dan had been pregnant with Cong Fei's child for more than 4 months.
Facing her husband's request to persuade her to abort the child, Xing Dan just said lightly, "I will not leave you, and I will give birth to and raise the child. This is the crystallization of our love."
and her husband In the same way, Xing Dan's kindness is visible to the naked eye, she said and did so. When
and Cong Fei were together, she did not live a life of material wealth.
But under the influence of her husband, she not only agreed to her husband Cong Fei's request to donate her body organs after his death, but also she, as a single mother, in the future.
took up the burden of raising Cong Fei's ex-wife and children, and Xing Xiao Congfei, who belonged to the crystallization of the two.
took over the legacy of Cong Fei's charity.
4: After
Cong flew away, Xing Dan worked to support the family and took on the follow-up work for the 183 sponsored children.
has continued charity for a long time, inheriting the volunteer number 2478 from her husband's death.
's work, charity, and taking care of children have become her whole life.
didn't set aside any spare time for herself, perhaps the only way to make her busy during the day temporarily forget her uncontrollable thoughts of her husband Cong Fei.
Xiao Congfei is also very sensible, even though he wants to have a father like everyone else.
, but she never mentioned a single word to her mother because she was full of doubts, because she could occasionally see her mother crying secretly in bed late at night.
mother and daughter depend on each other.
Xing Dan fulfilled his promise to raise his daughter step by step, and would visit Cong Fei without his daughter's knowledge during Qingming Festival.
Maybe she wanted to wait for Xiao Congfei to grow up before telling her the truth.
It's a pity that this sentence will never be spoken.
The time came to October 13, 2011. On the expressway in Shenzhen late at night, there were three idle minors in a nearby village.
attacked passing vehicles with stones because of 's attempted theft, expressing dissatisfaction with the society.
5 cars were hit by three people that night. In
, there was only one moving vehicle whose windshield was smashed by a flying stone, and Xing Dan was sitting in the car. The
flying stone passed through the windshield and hit Xing Dan's temple head on, and the blood was like a fountainsurge. Although
was sent to the hospital in time for rescue, unfortunately, he closed his eyes at 2:00 a.m. on the 14th because of the serious injury.
Xiao Congfei, who was 5 years old at the time, became an orphan.
5: Xiao Congfei
5 years later, his parents passed away one after another.
Xiao Congfei shed tears of sadness at the memorial service where 10,000 people saw off his mother.
was different from when her father died when she knew nothing. At that time, she vaguely knew her father's existence from the mouths of her elders.
also understood that mother will never wake up, she is going to heaven to accompany father.
And "Shenzhen Rose" Xing Dan was also buried with Cong Fei in the Shenzhen Jitian Cemetery 5 years later.
So far, the growth of Cong Fei's two daughters has become a topic of concern.
Relevant parties urgently launched Cong Fei's care plan for orphans, and donations poured in.
The eldest daughter was brought back to her hometown by her grandparents. The little Congfei left by
grew up healthy under the adoption of the unrelated "aunt" Feng Changhong .
is different than expected, despite the loss of parental love.
Ke Xiao Congfei did not become gloomy and complaining with the care of all walks of life and the company of "aunt".
On the contrary, maybe the kindness factor in the parents' bones is too strong.
Xiao Congfei has also grown into an optimistic, cheerful, kind and versatile beautiful girl.
is not only outstanding in academic performance,
and
have also started learning violin since she was a child, has also participated in many performances and won many awards.
In 2021, at the age of 16, she was admitted to the Middle School Affiliated to Southern Science and Technology!
used his own actions to let the parents under Jiuquan rest in peace.
In the same flower season, everyone involved in fate has a completely different ending.
Back then, someone who was obviously donated by Cong Fei was ashamed to mention this past.
even bluntly said, "He subsidized me voluntarily, and everything has its own purpose. I won't tell you what Cong Fei's purpose is." Comforting the indifference without a conscience, he said, "When will you recover from your illness? You promised me that you will fund the university. How can you not talk about it." Because of poverty and dissatisfaction with the society, it has gone the wrong way. After
made a big mistake, he still has no remorse.
Why are the same blooming seasons and the unfortunate experiences involved in each of them, a few people live completely different lives and three views? Is
just because Xiao Congfei has such parents?
what do you think about this?
