" 82-year-old Jin Zhiying ", the cycle of grandmother, mother and daughter from generation to generation, the heroine always speaks in the tone of her mother when she is in a trance, because the pain and sorrow of each generation of women are cyclical, but they often It is invisible, and few people care about their inner activities, and even they themselves forget themselves in their daily disguised smiles. That's why the mother in the movie threw the box of traditional Chinese medicine on the ground and cried: she blamed herself for not finding out her daughter had become like this sooner.
All mothers who are in pain can feel the same, and her daughter will inevitably be disciplined by society to repeat the same mistakes, but what she can do is too meager, and even "hoping for her health" seems like a luxury. Another impressive point is Jin Zhiying 's younger sister's sentence "Of course, she is so partial to you" when he misses his grandmother. All the girls who prefer patriarchal family life will probably say that their hearts are tight when they hear this sentence. The film touches on many topics, female independence, workplace discrimination, preference for sons over women, sexual harassment, social discipline, scarcity of parenting resources, marriage and childbirth, postpartum depression, , parental leave, self-awareness, and mental illness.
The overall atmosphere is sad but positive, like a terminally ill patient who knows there is little cure but is still optimistic about how to cure it. There is a problem that is not a problem. The actor found , Kong Liu, , and he is a caring, gentle and good husband. Jin Zhiying's friends and colleagues are full of vigor and joy. Is this setting a compromise? Because that said, Jin Zhiying is quite lucky, but too many Jin Zhiying are not. I don't empathize with just for the individual Kim Ji Young, because the moaning of the group portrait is so deafening.
But I can't do anything, I think I can try my best to get out of the shackles of fertility in the future, at least when I'm in my 40s when I can take care of everything, I choose to have children myself instead of being confused and being tricked into "living after having children" There will be no difference.” I will continue to send everything I got from “same study and work to enter the society” early on, or I am busy at home and work. "You're not a good mom" sarcasm. The reality is still very sad, and even makes people have to be pessimistic, especially today when women's rights are stigmatized as "women's boxing".
So, even if I jump out later, so what? There are still thousands of Jin Zhiying who are isolated and helpless, and we will still be heartbroken thousands of times because of Jin Zhiying. This is because Jin Zhiying has been living around us. She may be our girl junior, our girl friend, our female senior, or ourselves. We have no other way, because we ourselves are the same.
