's " Their Names ", the lives of the three heroines have all started a new chapter.
Lei Li continued to stay in Mulan and said that as her domineering female president, although the future of love is unclear after breaking up with her little boyfriend, a woman with a warm wallet will not live too desolately.
Shen Jianan won Tan Tian, but she was not willing to be a housewife, nor did she go home to inherit the family business, but chose to start her own business, less frizz when she first entered the society, and more calm with human experience.
The most unpleasant thing is Ren Duomei, she chose to give Zhang Weichen another chance to continue the marriage.
It's hard to understand that, looking at what Zhang Weichen did, he was a downright hypocrite.
Zhang Weichen and his junior sister Zhou Min have been in a relationship for a long time. Although it does not constitute a derailment in fact, no wife can tolerate her man and other women flirting with each other every day.
knew that Duomi had concealed the fact of her father's existence, but Zhang Weichen kept silent. When he wanted to restore Duomei's heart, he regarded this as his trump card and used Ren's parents to persuade Duomei to change her mind.
The most unbearable thing about Zhang Weichen is that he knew that he had asthenozoospermia, but he pretended to feel bad for Duomei and didn't want her to suffer the pain of having a child, so he never wanted to have a child. In order to stabilize Duomei,
proposed to do an inspection together, but he tampered with Duomei's inspection report to prove that Duomi was the one who couldn't have children, not him.
In this way, everyone will no longer focus on him. What's more ruthless is that he deprived Duomei of her right to have children, leaving her immersed in the pain of infertility for the rest of her life. How insidious a man like
is, in order to keep his face as a big man, he doesn't even want the bottom line of being a man.
Why didn't Na Duomei leave him, but continue to live with him? I think there are three reasons.
1. Marriage is not easy, let it be and cherish
The most direct reason why Duomi decided not to divorce is the death of President Liu.
Although Dean Liu is a strong woman, her marriage is unhappy. She has endured her husband's domestic violence for a long time.
Her husband pestered her regardless of the time, place, and place, and , and used violence against her. Many colleagues in the hospital had seen her bruised.
Her cause of death was also because of her husband. Before the incident, the two had been arguing constantly. Although it was unknown whether the car was out of control or whether it was President Liu's intention, the car finally hit the guardrail. world. The
incident had a great impact on Duomi. Such an excellent woman lost her life because of the unfortunate marriage.
Many girls see this, it is estimated that the fear of marriage will be further deteriorated, and I sincerely say that marriage is indeed a grave.
But Ren Duomei is not an inexperienced little girl. She has been on the battlefield of marriage for many years, and she knows that not everyone will have an unhappy marriage.
She will think about how her marriage will end?
Duomei cherishes her family very much, otherwise she would not have lived so long in front of her in-laws.
Through the matter of President Liu, Duomei understands how difficult it is to maintain a marriage, cheating, domestic violence , personality incompatibility and other reasons may cause a family to fall apart.
thought of the small nest she built up brick by brick, and the marriage she had managed so carefully, she couldn't bear to say goodbye to it all.
2. My choice
Ren Duomei is Tan Tian's first love. The reason why the two broke up is because Ren Duomei sees no hope in Tan Tian, and she is fed up with living in the basement.
Once, Ren Duomei was waiting for the car in the rain, but the car couldn't wait left or right, so she called Tan Tian in a hurry.
Tan Tian said, I will take the subway to pick you up immediately, but Duomei said aggrievedly, what I need now is a car to pick me up, not you.
waited until Tan Tian had the money to buy a car, but Duomei was still not satisfied. The life she wanted to live could not be given by Qin Tian, so Duomi proposed to break up.
put it bluntly, Ren Duomei just disliked Tan Tian's incompetence, disliked the poor and loved the rich, but she also has something worth learning, that is, she clearly knows what she wants and how to achieve her goals step by step.
After she left Tan Tian, she met Zhang Weichen, a talented medical student from a wealthy family. Whether it was family background or personal qualities, Zhang Weichen was tailor-made for Ren Duomei.
Ren Duomei stepped forward, concealed the family situation, transformed himself into the image of an elegant and virtuous domestic helper, and successfully captured the hearts of Zhang's family.
She kept the house spotless with her diligence, and even the picky mother-in-law did a surprise inspection and couldn't find any faults.
Although her mother-in-law has always looked down on her, Duomei always solves it witty every time, so that her mother-in-law does not lose her temper.
was able to secure the position of Zhang family's daughter-in-law, Ren Duomei also paid a lot, looking at the Jiangshan that she beat down little by little, how could Duomei give up easily?
She is willing to give this marriage a chance, to give Zhang Weichen a chance and to explain her choice.
3. Who should we rely on in marriage?
Before marriage problems, Ren Duomei pinned all her hopes on marriage and men.
Her job is a housewife, her employer is her husband, and her salary is 20,000 yuan. All her expenses depend on this income.
For Duomei, once the marriage breaks down, it means unemployment, but this housewife's job won't help her when she re-employs .
's beautiful heart is attached to Zhang Weichen. When she sees a little junior sister who is courting him, she is terrified. Every day, she picks up the car and sends it to her husband's hospital, so that she can keep an eye on him at any time. Duomei like
is very tired, but she has no other choice, because she only has Zhang Weichen to rely on.
When she woke up and started her own business, she found that a woman's biggest patron is not a man, but herself.
Duomei's medical beauty career is getting more and more successful. She no longer prays for her husband's salary every month, and does not care about her husband's salary card. She makes money by her own ability and will no longer be afraid of being abandoned. .
You may say that since you can support yourself, you have to leave a man who is not worth it, why give him another chance?
This is where Ren Duomei has a strong heart. After she is independent, she no longer puts her support on men, she is no longer afraid of losing, and she does not expect men to be perfect.
When a woman no longer has to worry about gains and losses, she will not keep staring at a man. As long as he does not touch his bottom line, he can continue to live. After all, he has the confidence to leave at any time.
Zhang Weichen is indeed going too far, but compared to his past father, his shortcomings are acceptable to him, after all, he also deceived him.
Zhang Weichen is not perfect, neither is Ren Duomei, neither are you nor me.
Ren Duomei chose to continue living, not to tell women that marriage must be tolerated, but to tell you that women must become strong, because when you are strong, there will be more choices, including the right to execute a marriage.
