Niu Li went to the Spring Festival Gala 8 times, and 3 times they combined CP with Guo Donglin , I thought they were "couples".
In fact, both of them have their own families. Every time Niu Li goes to the Spring Festival Gala, there is a man at home waiting for her to go back silently.
is different from other female stars, Niu Li started a family first and then started a career. Before she became popular, she was married to Liu Yadong, a businessman outside the circle.
Many people will be curious, she is married, why is she still fighting in the circle.
Actually, this all originated from a dream she had when she was young. When she was a child, when someone asked her what she wanted to do most, it must be an actress. But when she was a little older, her parents sent her to learn swimming and shooting, and she missed the opportunity to perform.
finally waited until he grew up and was admitted to the drama school and met love early. You can get married, but you have to pursue your dreams. No matter how Niu Li struggles, her husband Liu Yadong will always support her.
Later, when Niu Li mentioned her husband, she always showed an innocent smile.
has been married for 25 years. Niu Li has attended the Spring Festival Gala and won the Best Actress Award. She is worthy of her career. Therefore, after becoming famous, Niu Li is willing to retire and accompany the three children at home.
She knows that nothing is more important than home.......
01, Niu Li, who married early
Niu Li was born into a family with a good economy and watched black and white TV when she was a child.
In the 1970s, many people had trouble eating enough to eat, but one can imagine how rare TV was for them.
At that time, Niu Li could see many people come to sit in the yard at home every day, and watch TV together in the afternoon.
Niu Li is curious about the people in the TV, and spends all day studying how they dance in such a small box. When
's mother saw it, she told Niu Li that someone recorded it and put it in it when they were performing.
Niu Li often asks her mother: "When will I be able to perform?" Mother smiled without saying a word, but Niu Li was a little angry, and suddenly coughed a few times.
When her parents saw this, they were worried about her body. After discussion, they decided to send her to the swimming team to study and exercise her child's body.
Niu Li has been on the swimming team for many years. Seeing that she is about to enter the national team, she was dragged into the shooting team by her mother. Fortunately, she has a strong learning ability and has won a national award.
Logically speaking, she should have been on the shooting team, but the shooting team disbanded after her game. Niu Li was very confused at the time and didn't know what to study, but her mother told her to study acting.
's mother thinks that since she likes acting, she should fight for it. Encouraged by her mother, Niu Li went forward bravely, no matter how many difficulties she encountered, she was not afraid.
At that time, she went to take the military arts and Beixi exams, but she failed to pass the exams in both schools. Niu Li was disappointed and cried at home. "Where's the ferocity that you learned to shoot?"
's mother's words cheered Niu Li up and she went to the exam again.
Fortunately, a teacher Huang in the military arts saw that he had a good image and recruited her.
Niu Li at that time was very happy, she just wanted to come back from her studies, go to the crew to film, and then win the grand prize to be the actress. The
dream has come true, but there are still many years to go. Love is more reliable than career.
At that time, Niu Li had a friend holding a banquet. Two days before she went, she suddenly dreamed that someone proposed with a bouquet of roses. After she was awakened, there was a figure dangling in her mind all the time.
At that time, Niu Li had a shy face, thinking that she had reached puberty and wanted to fall in love. As everyone knows, this is God guiding her to meet true love.
A few days later, she and Liu Yadong met at a friend's banquet. After being introduced by a friend, she realized that the other party was not in the circle, but a businessman who developed in Beijing.
Liu Yadong, Niu Li, is about 8 years old, with a calm personality and a very Buddhist person. He has no vigorous pursuit of Niu Li, let aloneThe luxury of a diamond luxury car in hand.
However, in life, whenever Niu Li encounters a little difficulty, he will accompany her through it. Not long after the two fell in love, Niu Li once went to film a movie and didn't finish work until the middle of the night.
She looked at the dark street and felt very scared, so she immediately called Liu Yadong. Liu Yadong was watching TV at home. He heard that his girlfriend was scared outside and immediately drove to find her. The moment
saw her boyfriend's car, Niu Li jumped into his arms.
When Liu Yadong knew that she was bullied by the crew, he smiled and comforted: "It's okay, they won't dare to treat you like this when you become popular in the future."
Niu Li is very grateful to Liu Yadong for her silent dedication. The two got married around 1997.
Niu Li at this time has not yet become popular, but after she got married, she had good luck, kept her drama appointments, and went to the Spring Festival Gala many times.
02, after more than ten years of struggle, her husband silently supports
Niu Li is lucky. When others are fighting alone, she always has a backer behind her.
In 2003, on the eve of the Spring Festival, Niu Li had decided to go back to her hometown with her husband to celebrate the New Year, but suddenly received an invitation call.
"What? On the Spring Festival Gala". Hearing the call from the director of the Spring Festival Gala, Niu Li pinched her face involuntarily.
"Whoops", it hurts. After Niu Li felt the pain, she realized that she really heard correctly. Niu Li was very excited, but she was a little worried. If she went to the Spring Festival Gala, what would her husband do?
Liu Yadong heard that she was going to perform a sketch, not only did not stop her, but said frankly: "Lily, don't worry, I will go back to my hometown to spend the Spring Festival with my parents, and then we will watch your performance together."
With the support of her husband, Niu Li'an rehearsed in the crew with peace of mind. Sometimes I get busy and I can't see Liu Yadong for months. Even my mother is worried that the other party will betray the marriage?
Niu Li is not worried at all, she feels that it is her own that cannot be taken away by others, and that it is not her that does not need others to rob, she will also leave. In the 8 Spring Festival Gala on
on Niu Li, Liu Yadong returned to his hometown every year to accompany both parents to celebrate the New Year. But Liu Yadong never complained, but recorded videos for her every time, which made her feel very at ease.
In those years, many viewers thought that Guo Donglin and her were the real husband and wife, and their performances on the show were really deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Niu Li sometimes asks her husband, "Are you jealous?" The husband asked her back, did he want him to be jealous, or did he not want him to be jealous?
Later, Niu Li said that every time he quarreled with her husband, he would not let her, but he would reason with her. For her, the husband is not too romantic, but really sincere.
03, three sons after marriage, willing to retire
In 2007, Niu Li ushered in the birth of her eldest daughter. After the birth of
's daughter, Niu Li found that she had become more home-loving. When she was filming, as long as her husband said something about my support, she would not want to go home for several days.
But since her daughter was born, Niu Li found that she couldn't do it, so she wanted to go home with her daughter every day.
Once, Niu Li came home after filming and saw her daughter doing her homework. She suddenly thought that she would never let her become an actress in the future, she was too tired.
She told her husband that her daughter could not be an actress in the future, she was too tired. 's husband said, let her be the director. Niu Li glanced at him and said that the director was just as tired as staying in the crew.
At this time, the daughter said in a milky voice, "I want to be a princess, and my father will be my prince."
At that time, her daughter was still very young, but because she grew up with her father for a long time, she believed that the most important person in her heart was her father.
Niu Li is not jealous after knowing her daughter's thoughts, and she will not force her to learn any talent.
's daughter gradually grew up, and she also understood that Niu Li did not stay with her, but becauseWork is too busy to spend time with her.
Occasionally, when Niu Li was filming in the crew, her daughter would call her. She would not ask her when she would go home, but said:
"Mom, you have to take care of your body outside, don't be too tired. Now, my dad and I will be worried."
's daughter's words warmed her heart, it was a sweet feeling that she had never had before.
In 2013, 40-year-old Niu Li thought that if she did not accompany her daughter, she would miss her entire youth. But this year, the director of the Spring Festival Gala still sent her an invitation.
So, Niu Li's retirement was moved back a year. Many people thought that Niu Li had made a mistake, why did she suddenly disappear.
Actually, Niu Li focused on the family. She and her husband later gave birth to two babies, three children in total. In order to be able to accompany her family during the Spring Festival every year, Niu Li decided not to go to the Spring Festival Gala in the future.
Of course, she has become famous, and she has not given up her once beloved performance. In the past few years, she has not been seen on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, but in some TV dramas, she can still be seen making cameo appearances.
For Niu Li, occasional filming and spending most of the time at home with her children are her most satisfying life. Many people think that Niu Li's husband is a wealthy businessman, very rich.
Actually, Niu Li once mentioned that her husband is an ordinary person. Although they earn a little more money than ordinary people, her life is very ordinary.
When her husband is resting, he will accompany her on trips, and the two of them will suddenly go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and make a delicious meal together on a whim.
Unconsciously, Niu Li has been married to her husband for 25 years. During these long years, the husband has been caring for this marriage with love, making the marriage gradually perfect and happy.
Conclusion:
Niu Li, who is almost 50 years old, uses her own life to tell everyone what an ordinary life is, and it is the happiest. During the years of
's hard work in the entertainment industry, whether she became popular or not, she has never affected her family because of her career. Every time she goes out to film or go on stage, she will inform her husband in advance.
For her, marriage requires two people to maintain. She has to give her husband enough trust so that he can be tolerant enough to her.
Be considerate of each other, and love will always be perfect.
Retired these years, Niu Li has not thought about the gain and loss of fame and fortune. She sees the smiling faces of the children every day, full of happiness.