Shao Shang accompanied Cheng Zhi and his wife to Hua County when they were attacked by the rebels. They were outnumbered and almost made dumplings by the enemy. Fortunately, Ling Budo arrived with someone in time to save Cheng Shao. A group of businessmen.
Ling Budo saw that Shaoshang had bandaged A Fei's wound, so he became jealous and insisted on staying and let Shaoshang heal him.
Next is the time to sprinkle candy. Ling Budoubt was seriously injured, but he focused all his attention on Shaoshang. First, he asked if Shaoshang's rope was given by her sweetheart, and then insisted on letting Cheng Shaoshang do it. He drew his sword, and finally asked if his hand hurt?
During the whole process, Ling Budo's voice was always gentle, as if his louder voice would scare away Cheng Shaoshang. His eyes never left Shao Shang's body.
His love for Shaoshang couldn't be more obvious. If it were another girl, he might have gone crazy long ago. But Shaoshang not only came to save her in distress with serious injuries, but also didn't seem to have the slightest heart for her extremely gentle man. When
played the drama for the first time, I simply thought that it was because Ling Budo had never really confessed to Shaoshang, so Shaoshang didn't know his intentions, so he was with Lou Yao.
But even if Ling Budo didn't say the words of love, his difference towards Shaoshang was already very obvious. Ah Qi and Ah Fei were very clear about this. It is impossible for Cheng Shaoshang not to feel it.
But why did the young merchants have no admiration for Ling Budo, but instead chose Lou Yao, whose ability, identity and status were all dumped by Ling Budo. After re-broadcasting the drama, I finally have the answer, for the following three reasons.
The first reason: Cheng Shaoshang doesn't like military generals
Cheng Shaoshang was born in a family of military generals. Her parents fought on the front lines to protect the family and the country. She didn't return home until she was 15 years old.
Originally, Shaoshang admired her parents very much when she was a child. When other children were playing, she practiced with a wooden sword by herself. She wanted to be the same person as her father and brother, and be able to fight the enemy when she grew up. .
But the children around her quickly shattered her dream. They cruelly told her that her parents only brought his brothers to the battlefield because they disliked her as a little girl.
Shaoshang wanted to overthrow the child's claim, but the fact was that his parents never came back to see her, forcing her to admit that what they said was the truth.
The words of the children killed Shao Shang's determination to go to the battlefield, and it also broke Shao Shang's admiration for military generals.
In the later growth process, because of the long-term absence of his parents, Shaoshang has tasted the warmth of the world at a young age. Although her parents came back with illustrious military exploits, they could not make up for her growing pains.
Later, she saw the blood on the tip of Ling Budo's knife with her own eyes. Although she knew that the person he killed deserved it, she hated this kind of killing, and even less liked Ling Budo.
The second reason: Cheng Shaoshang is not a little girl in the entire capital city, there are not many people who are not crazy for Ling Buxuan. In particular, Yuchang County Master, in order to make Ling Budo look at her a few more times, he used all the tricks he could use, but he still couldn't get Ling Budo's favor.
Shaoshang is the most special existence. As she said, Ling Budo has admired her for a long time, but she has no interest in him. This was a sentence she deliberately said to be angry with the Princess of Yuchang, but it became Ling Budo's true portrayal of her.
General Ling, whom everyone admires, why can't Cheng Shaoshang be moved? Because less business is not a love brain.
Shaoshang and those girls have different growth experiences. They grew up under the care and care of their parents and family members, and they never experienced hunger.The taste, let alone the taste of being sick and dying, but no one cares.
For these girls, how to marry a good man? It is their greatest pursuit in life. But Shaoshang is different. How to live without being restrained by others and do what she wants to do freely is her ultimate pursuit.
She lives more rationally, more realistically, and more ideally than them. In her world, love can only be ranked after ideals.
Another important point is that the reason why Shao Shang was able to wait until his parents came back was entirely due to her own willpower and ingenuity. She thought that her parents would have a backer when they came back, but her mother Xiao Yuanyi always looked at her unpleasantly.
"Pickling" has become the norm for mothers and daughters to get along. Not only did her mother not give her any warmth and comfort, but she also hit her everywhere, and she was even better than her own daughter. Mother rubbed salt on her wound again and again, ignoring her already red eyes again and again.
Shaoshang completely gave up, and she no longer has any hope for her mother.
Although her father has some preference for her, when it comes to educating her children, it is always the mother who has the final say, and the love that the father can give her is extremely limited.
Shaoshang clearly realizes that she can't even rely on people with close relatives, she can only rely on herself in this life. So she never pinned her fate on anyone, let alone a man she hadn't met a few times.
So it's not difficult to understand why, although Ling Budo showed the greatest tenderness and consideration to Shaoshang every time he contacted him, Shaoshang still remained indifferent to him.
The third reason: Shao Shang's inferiority complex
Don't look at Shao Shang's daring to think and act, even Lou Yao and Yuan Shanjian admire her courage and courage. But in fact, she has low self-esteem in her bones.
A person's self-confidence comes from the care and recognition of the people around her. Especially a child, when she feels the love and concern of her family, the child's face will always be filled with a smile, and the exploration of the outside world will be more bold.
Ke Shaoshang grew up with more hunger, scolding and belittling. Except for Lianfang and Fu Deng, no one in the family took her seriously, even an old housekeeper dared to point fingers at her.
Wan Qiqi once asked Shao Shang, "In the future, can we also find a hero who can rely on his life and live and die?" Shao Shang shook his head when he heard this, saying that his mother never taught her to appease the Ministry. Qu did not teach her family genealogy either, so the great hero didn't have a relationship with her, she would just marry a stable family.
Wan Qiqi said, how can you marry casually? Also asked if Shao Shang was willing to marry an ordinary family? Shaoshang said, "I am naturally reconciled. Since I was born, I can't help myself."
In Shaoshang's heart, he has long been abandoned, and those good people will not like her, but In order to prevent her from losing face in those big families, her parents would only marry her to an ordinary ordinary family.
So Shao Shang thought in his heart that he was not worthy of marrying those good people. I dare not imagine myself and Ling Budo together. Because Ling Budoubt is a high-ranking general, he can only look up.
So when Ling Wuxuan knelt in front of Emperor Wen and begged him to take the position of his father and proposed to Cheng Shaoshang, Shaoshang was so surprised, because both in terms of his family status and his personal ability , they are all very different.
She admitted the beauty and excellence of Ling Budo, but she never knew that she was equally beautiful and excellent in Ling Budo's heart. If it wasn't for Ling Budo who boldly pierced this layer of window paper, if it wasn't for Ling Budo It is impossible for them to come together.
is actually a place for less businessYihui chooses Lou Yao, but she has no feelings for Ling Budo. It has a lot to do with her family and growing environment. She lacked a sense of security since she was a child, but Lou Yao takes her as the center in everything, which just makes up for this. It reassured her. It is not surprising to choose Lou Yao.
The above are the three reasons I summarized. I don't know what everyone thinks. Welcome to leave a message for discussion!
