" Ode to Joy 3" has become the most discussed topic in this drama, and one of the characters' mouths is torn apart. The
network mouth is sober for Yu Chuhui, but Ye Zhenzhen, the rich second generation of the nouveau riche, has a lovable personality, even if she has experienced injustice, she still has a warm-hearted side, Lucy, who relies on her own efforts to establish a foothold in the big city, It makes people feel envious but distressed. He Minhong, who looks gentle and has read poetry and books, is infinitely disgusting, thanking himself for not meeting such a person.
The annoying thing about He Minhong is that she can't see through everything, but she has to talk about it everywhere. Even if her roommate reminded him many times, he said that he couldn't control his mouth and used his own ideas to criticize others.
Learning to shut up is the most basic training for adults. Hemingway said: "It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us sixty years to learn to shut up."
can't speak, and no matter how much you do, it's annoying The problem is, no matter how much you do, others don't think you are good, which is typically thankless.
"Sister, you know what? Now my mother has really changed. I'm not doing anything right. I'm picking on things all day long." Xiaobin complained to his sister while drinking.
It turns out that Xiaobin is in her 30s and has not married yet. Xiaobin's mother is very anxious and thinks that the neighbors look down on her, but there is no way, so she always has to say a few words to see her son.
"You stay at home all day long, and you have a girlfriend who doesn't go out. How can you be so useless."
"I run outside all day, and I haven't seen you bring a girlfriend home. It's useless at all. No."
"Look at the neighbor who gave birth to a son again. You don't even have a girlfriend. How could I have such a son." His mother's eyes were all wrong, and every time her mother opened her mouth with a demeaning tone, Xiao Bin often couldn't help arguing with his mother.
In fact, Xiaobin's mother is a very diligent person. She is a good hand outside the house and keeps everything in order, but she just can't speak well. The neighbors are afraid of her talking. No matter how powerful, no one else dared to get close to her.
Talking well is the best way to solve the problem. As the so-called "speaking badly in June", if you don't speak well, no matter how much you do, others will not appreciate it.
Don't use your own experience, take it for granted to teach others Everything is required to be done at work. Xiaoyu expressed distress and anger about what happened to her mother, and wanted to take her mother back, but Ho Minhong, her roommate, thought that Xiaoyu only thought about his mother, regardless of the employer's situation. Where to tie, put yourself on the moral high ground to blame.
My friend and her husband are both working class. They have a daughter and they are living well. They plan to have a second child, but because of the epidemic, my friend's company has closed down, and the husband is alone to support the family's expenses, so the idea of having a second child is abandoned .
My friend's neighbors come every day to blame my friend for not fulfilling the responsibility of inheriting the family. Every day I use my own example to say how difficult it was for me to have three children, but I can live a life no matter how hard it is, grit my teeth and wait for the child Just grow up.
friends are so angry they don't want to talk to their neighbors.
shows that there are many such people in society, who always use their own experiences to blame others' situations, never know how to put themselves in other people's shoes, and only see that other people's solutions are not perfect.
Everyone has their own life experiences, and how to deal with them may be based on their own best considerations, rather than what others can always point to.
Learning to shut up is a kind of self-cultivationYou have your own choices, but you can't speak out of your mouth. Ye Zhen Zhen from
"Ode to Joy 3" is everyone's favorite tree hole. Out of love for their daughter, the Ye family's parents asked someone to check Lucy's details. In order to make her plan go smoothly, Lucy had to find Ye Zhen Zhen for a showdown, hoping that she could keep it a secret, but later found out that Ye Zhen Zhen never told anyone about her.
No matter who asked Ye Zhen Zhen to talk to, she would also listen with a smile, she would give the answer if she could give it as a reference, or say it directly if she couldn't, but she would never tell a third person about other people's affairs unless they agreed. Everyone trusts her. The
language is a double-edged sword. If it is not used properly, it will hurt others.
Learn to speak well, keep your mouth shut, and pay attention to speaking in a proper manner, in order to gain respect from others in communication.
