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The three of them have one thing in common. They all think that their fate is not good because their cards are not good for them, and they are not willing to be at the mercy of fate.
just forgot one thing, the outcome of the game is half of the cards you get, and the other half depends on how you play the cards. Just like the Crown Princess, fate gave her a good card, but she wouldn't play it, but the result was still the same tragic reminder. According to
's smooth appearance, let's talk about Chachu's mother, Ge Shi.
In the first few episodes of "The Splendid Star", the focus of the characters is Ge Shi. Ge Shi is the second daughter-in-law of the Cheng family, and the mother of Cha Cha.
When the Cheng family was in the countryside, they were neighbors with the Ge family, so the two married and became in-laws. The younger daughter of the Ge family married the second son of the Cheng family.
I want to say one thing here, the Cheng family still pays great attention to the virtues of women when they marry their wives. The eldest daughter-in-law, Xiao Yuanyi, is a talented girl who is well-known far and wide. The second daughter-in-law, Ge's family, is also from a scholarly family. The family is full of scholars. The third daughter-in-law is the daughter of the owner of Bailu Mountain. Yuan Shanjian was a disciple of Bailu Mountain. What
did not expect was that Ge Shi, the daughter of the Ge family from the scholarly family, did not have a scholarly scent at all, but instead became more and more hostile towards life.
Ge's father also said that he was a lot arrogant with just this little daughter at home. From the conversation between Xiao Yuanyi and the Ge family's aunt, it can be seen that when the Ge family was not married, the Ge family was restless, and when they got married, the Cheng family still made the whole family jump with chickens and dogs.
It can be seen that her cognitive thinking has always been like this, not as Jia Baoyu said in " A Dream of Red Mansions ", the daughter made of water becomes a dead fish's eye only after she gets married. There is a very interesting phenomenon in this drama
, that is, everyone in the Ge family is reasonable and humble, but the daughter is very domineering, like the queen and five princesses in the palace.
can see that Georgiere is a very strong woman. Regarding the matter of being strong, I don't think it is a bad thing for a woman to be strong. The question is how to be strong. Georgie is one of those people who use force in the wrong place.
She married into the Cheng family. Maybe at the beginning of the village, everyone was similar. However, with the turbulence of the times, the Cheng family moved from the countryside to the capital, and their status has also changed qualitatively.
At this time, there was a gap between the three sons of the Cheng family. The third child also took the exam and was released as an official. Only the second child has bad legs. One is that he cannot enter the official position, and the other is that he has a calm personality and only enjoys reading. The gap like
is really unbearable for the stronger Ge Shi. The key is to put the three daughters-in-law together. She has neither the martial law of the sister-in-law nor the Wen Tao of the younger sister-in-law.
The result of these things put together is to make Gurley insecure. There is nothing wrong with Ge Shi planning for his second house. It's always uncomfortable to rely on my big brother for all my life, and I'm always uncomfortable, which is understandable.
However, Ge Shi only saw his shortcomings, but did not see the advantages of his second room. This is the problem of not consolidating resources with bad cards.
Ge's biggest problem is that he uses his own cognition to guess what others think.
When Xiao Yuanyi gave birth to a child and was about to set off on an expedition, she instigated the eldest mother to borrow the old fairy's words to keep the newborn child.
As for Ge Shi, she used her own calculus. She only had one daughter, and her sister-in-law Xiao Yuanyi gave birth to two sons in a row. The next step is to raise her own. After many years, the elder brother and elder sister-in-law will definitely not kiss her son when she comes back. She can naturally adopt her son.
For the eldest mother, from the beginning to the end, I do not believe that she was instigated by Ge Shi, such a shrewd woman will not let others manipulate her no matter how she looks at it, she can only say that she knows how to judge the situation, the eldest son and the third son do not. At home, her second son doesn't care about reading, she can only rely on Ge Shi.
For Xiao Yuanyi, she doesn't believe the words of the old gods, but she also knows that once they leave, the life and death are uncertain, and the big room always has to stay in the line, or consider the big mother, and no one will accept it. actually, At this moment, no one knows whether to go out and come back. I always feel that keeping this child is also a kind of love. The key to
is that it didn't follow Ge's ideas. Xiao Yuanyi gave birth to a twin, leaving a daughter but not a son. This matter must have made Ge Shi hold a grudge. Seeing that she sent her daughter, Chacha, to her parents' house, she knew that she could not be good to Shaoshang. Xiao Yuanyi did not expect that
would take care of the young businessmen. It was something that refreshed one's bottom line, and was not in her estimation.
This is Ge Shi's narrow-mindedness or her stupidity. The eldest mother will judge the situation, but she does not look at the situation at all. When the bridge is demolished, the road is destroyed, it seems that the only way to make herself safe, but she doesn't know His cards are no longer good, and if you play cards like this, the outcome can be imagined.
Like Ge Shi, Princess Ruyang and Wen Xiujun are also incapable of judging the situation. If it is said that Ge Shi is making the road narrower and narrower in the calculation, then the mistake made by Princess Ruyang and Wen Xiujun is that they overestimated their capital and forgot to judge the situation.
Princess Ruyang has to pretend that she is an elder almost every time she appears on the stage, for fear that others will forget that she raised the emperor.
However, she doesn't know that this respect is mutual, and maybe this respect is not what she thinks. However, it can be seen that the respect that the emperor gave to Princess Ruyang actually came from King Ruyang.
Every time I see Princess Ruyang appear, I sweat for her. She probably said too much about raising the emperor and she was brainwashed and forgotten. How did she reluctantly raise the emperor back then? The food is sour food.
also mentioned that when she wrote the county lord before, the confidence in her speech lies in knowing her own ability. Princess Ruyang has the confidence to speak, but she does not know that her ability is actually very weak.
You see, because she doesn't have real strength like Ling Budo. Once the emperor did not give her respect, and King Ruyang wanted to divorce her, she collapsed to the ground like a deflated ball.
I have to mention Mrs. Wan Lao here. There is no harm if there is no comparison. Princess Ruyang's IQ and EQ are less than one-tenth of Mrs. Wan Lao's. About Mrs. Wan Lao, I will write it separately later.
said that Princess Ruyang has no fear, but Wen Xiujun is different from her. Wen Xiujun has a certain amount of actual capital to contend with, but her obsession is too heavy, and she has led her to the road of no return.
When the emperor conquered the world, many aristocratic families supported him. There were three most prominent families. One was the Huo family, but they were all killed. 's. King Qian'an was the uncle of the emperor's own family, and King Ruyang was from Wen's family.
The Qian An Wang family also has a relationship, that is, the Queen, who is the niece of the Qian An Wang. Back then, when they formed an alliance with the emperor, they used marriage. If it wasn't for the surname Wen of the same clan, then King Gan An would directly marry his daughter to the emperor, that is, Lord Wen Xiu.
This is something Wen Xiujun has been brooding about, lamenting that his fate is not good.
Empress Xuan was pushed to the emperor's side by her uncle's family. At this time, the emperor had already married Concubine Yue, but because of the power and situation of the two major families, the woman who married the emperor later became Empress Xuan. In the process of
's struggle for the world, the old Gan Wang died in battle, leaving only his youngest son and daughter Wen Xiujun. The son inherited the title of King Qian'an, and the emperor gave the fief, but he was subject to Peng Kun. Wen Xiujun married the great general of chariots and cavalry and had Wang Ji.
It stands to reason that such a result can also make her and her younger brother worry about food and clothing, but Wen Xiujun doesn't think so. In her opinion, this queen was originally hers, and half of the world should belong to her own family, the Gan'an royal family. Seeing that, his younger brother was in a corner, and he married himself as a wife, and the family of King Gan'an also declined in the court.
The things in the world, once they think they should be, are no longer satisfying. Just like women feel that there is always one less piece of clothing in their wardrobe, Wen Xiujun feels that he has a lot less income, and the Gan'an Palace has a lot less.
obsessive and selfishWhen she was young, she would be blind and blind, pushing herself to the road of no return, even at the cost of her daughter.
We can also look at it from a different angle. Did Wen Xiu-jun really lose? She has her own husband and daughter, as well as status. These are also her life experiences. The so-called queen position she has lost has never been gained and how can she lose it.
The fact that the same clan can't get married may also be the emperor's refusal to weigh. Considering the characters of Empress Xuan and Wen Xiujun, the emperor of course chooses Empress Xuan. If it is Wen Xiujun, I am afraid that there will be no peace in the harem.
Ge Shi, Princess Ruyang and Wen Xiujun, regardless of their origins and status, use different means, but in essence, the three women are all powerful people, but if they use their power too much, they become suspended. A sword on their heads. There is nothing wrong with
to be strong, and the appearance of striving to grow upwards is worthy of recognition, but it is just that without judging the situation and humility and concessions, being strong becomes stupid.
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