44-year-old Mei Ting lost 20 jin: there are some things, only to know after divorce

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"In the Distance" is being broadcast. 44-year-old Mei Ting and 43-year-old Ma Yili also attended the show.

Judging from the photos sent by the media, both of them are in very good condition. To be honest, if it weren't for their ages, it would not be obvious that they were in their forties.

44-year-old Mei Ting lost 20 jin: there are some things, only to know after divorce - Lujuba

Of course, it is Mei Ting that gets the most attention from netizens, because in many people's impressions, she is still the middle-aged woman with fat after giving birth.

Not long ago, Chen Jin, Yao Chen, Hai Qing, Mei Ting and Tong Liya made a series of fashion movies. Even if standing next to Chen Jin and Yao Chen with strong auras, Mei Ting still does not lose his momentum.

44-year-old Mei Ting lost 20 jin: there are some things, only to know after divorce - Lujuba

's personal photos were even more crazy by netizens, calling "Mei Ting is so beautiful."

44-year-old Mei Ting lost 20 jin: there are some things, only to know after divorce - Lujuba

Someone said:

"Mei Ting, in her forties, has lived what we all yearn for." But in fact, she only became what she is now in her middle-aged life. Those ups and downs in life have never treated this shining woman especially.

44-year-old Mei Ting lost 20 jin: there are some things, only to know after divorce - Lujuba

Speaking of Mei Ting, the first character that netizens instinctively reacted to was this "Don't Talk to Strangers", which was called "Shadow of Childhood". In the

drama, Mei Ting vividly performed Mei Xiangnan, who was domestically abused. The filming of this drama also left a lot of psychological shadow on Mei Ting. The thing that made her most unacceptable was the fact that her head was stepped on by "An Jiahe" That scene.

But in order to make this movie well, she still bit her head. It is said that once she bumped into the corner of a table and the vase hit the ground. She sat there and shouted with excitement, ‘photograph me, photograph me! "You can see the depth of the play.

In 2001, "Don't Talk to Strangers" became popular all over the world. So far, Mei Ting has really become popular.

Mei Ting and her classmates Zhang Ziyi, Qin Hailu, Hu Jing, Zeng Li, Fu Jing, Yuan Quan and Called "Seven Golden Flowers", the first movie was "Red Lover" with Leslie Cheung. At that time, Leslie Cheung was already a well-known popular star at the time. With such resources, I have to say that it was Mei Ting's luck. . Once, Mei Ting returned home with the glasses given by Leslie Cheung. Zhang Ziyi was so envious that she said, "Wow, Leslie Cheung gave you glasses. "

In 2012, she and Guo Tao starred in "Parents Love", which won her the 30th Chinese TV Drama Feitian Award for Outstanding Actress, and the Best Actress of the China TV Drama Director Working Committee.

This is a film about parents for more than 50 years. In the nostalgic warmth drama of the road of love, Mei Ting wants to show a simple and straightforward capitalist lady who dares to love and hate.

"This time I can act well.

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is very happy to play the role she likes, Mei Ting, from the age of 20 to 80, she has played An Jie's life but will not make people feel like acting.

Many people are impressed by Mei Ting's acting and say she is born. It was this bowl of rice that said she has her own true temperament, as well as the dedication and explosiveness of an actor,

However, like the role played by Mei Ting, her true temperament also makes her emotional life ups and downs.

44-year-old Mei Ting lost 20 jin: there are some things, only to know after divorce - Lujuba

Unlike many stars in the entertainment industry, when her career was in full swing, Mei Ting ran into her and fell into love.

"He is handsome"

said that if you fell in love with someone, you would wear a special filter. This was the case when Mei Ting fell in love with director Yan Po. In 2001, Mei Ting met Yan Po at a gathering of friends. At

Mei Ting was a well-known actress and Yan Po was the creative director of a website. Three months After getting along with time, Mei Ting married him desperately. The relationship between

female celebrity married to a salaried family was not suitable for outsiders. At that time, there were a lot of doubts from the outside world. But Mei Ting didn't care, and she was in love with all those who were in love. Like women, they think that as long as they fall in love, they can be sweet enough to grow old.

Yanpo suddenly wanted to be a director. For someone who is not in the circle at all, wanting to make a movie is actually a difficult thing. For example, how can Mei Ting not understand the truth of Geshan, but her husband has a dream, she will do her best to support.

In 2005, Yan Po switched to a film director, Mei Ting not only played a voluntary role, but also used her contacts in the showbiz to help Yan Pola The investment came. As a result, the movie was being shot, and the investor withdrew. Mei Ting simply used his savings to support Yan Po to continue filming.

Mei Ting put her career aside and wholeheartedly supported her lover’s career. As the heroine, Investor, MayTing ran around to promote this movie.

However, even with such a desperate commitment, this marriage did not come to a good ending as she hoped.

Mei Ting's divorce was once spread quite dramatic. For example, Yan Po was romantic and derailed, and Mei Ting caught him straight. In short, the rumors from the outside world are hard to hear. Netizens regard Mei Ting as the poor woman in "Don't Talk to Strangers", and the Internet is all about sympathetic comments.

But

Mei Ting can see clearly, and she also looks away. She said: "I think it is the problem of the two of us, and it has nothing to do with the rest of the outside. Characters, all aspects, and going down will hurt each other." After the divorce of

, Mei Ting is still the dedicated actress who loves acting. The actor is still active on the big screen. Later, he met her husband Zeng Jian because of the film "Tuina".

Zeng Jian is the photographer of the crew. This time, Mei Ting is married again.

Even though she has been hurt so deeply, she still believes in love bravely. This marriage did not disappoint her.

In 2016, Mei Ting appeared on a reality show, and the reality show truthfully recorded the appearance of her with a child-in a mess.

At that time, Mei Ting had just given birth to her second child for half a year, and she was swollen, but she was filled with happiness.

was spit out by the audience for her hurried hands and feet, but Mei Ting confessed that:

is indeed busy with her husband, and she doesn't know much about everything.

With children, the husband does all the housework.

netizens said she is happy and fat. Of course, there are many unpleasant voices. The agent reminded her: "You are still an actor."

Mei Ting is a sober person, when she knows what she wants At that time, she would act immediately. She gave up her favorite food and kept exercising every day. After only two months, she lost 20 jin.

Some people say that you are so happy and do not have financial pressure, so why embarrass yourself, but Mei Ting doesn't think so.

She is not only a wife, a mother of two children, but also an actress. Everything she does is to live a better self.

Mei Ting now, although she has no youth at the age of 20, she is still beautiful. What if

is divorced? What if you have been hurt by love? What about bursting fat?

Mei Ting, 44 years old, told us from her experience:

"There is no absolute smooth sailing in life. When the storm blows on your face, you don't have to be depressed or complain about yourself. Just bite your teeth and take every step of life firmly. Live a wonderful life.”

44-year-old Mei Ting lost 20 jin: there are some things, only to know after divorce - Lujuba

Over the years, I have encountered quite a few divorced women. For divorced women, one has a good life and the other has a bad life. People who live well, are single, or remarried, but they haven't lost the price because of divorce.

is the same as when they got married and did not add value to them, they themselves have a kind of singleness.

People who have a bad life will always be entangled with their ex, resentful, and finally ruin themselves. Just like when they were about to get a divorce, they always ask men why we can’t make it, but they don’t ask themselves why it’s hard to make it.

They hate men, the more they hate the more they pay attention. They continue to doubt themselves, why should I forgive him?

wasted effort, but in the end everything disappeared, you have wasted the years, but he may not lose a bit.

A truly smart woman is always "it's good to have you, and I'm just as good without you."

is like Mei Ting. She used to pay so much for her marriage, and in the end, although she only parted ways, she knew in her heart that people cannot be trapped in relationships forever. There are still many things to do in this life, and many more. People can meet.

can only grow by letting go.

Some readers always ask me: I divorced my husband, I really hate him! I'm really not convinced, what is so good about that junior! I am alone with my child, and I feel hopeless in my life!

Actually, I want to say, you don’t have nothing, you don’t see anything about yourself.

As a woman, don't scorn yourself because of divorce. Those who leave and are inappropriate, let them go. You have to live your own life, because a truly good woman never lacks love.

is like Mei Ting. She left Yanpo but met Zeng Jian.

, 44-year-old Mei Ting, ushered in her best time,

looked back to see her along the way, stumbled, lost and injured, but fortunately, she never lost the courage to love herself.

We will meet many people and many things in this life, but in the end we have to understand that the most reliable one is always ourselves.

Don't forget to love yourself more at any time.

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