Have you ever had such an experience? Your girlfriend suddenly asks you to do something, and then you do it, but she gets angry, leaving you in a daze, feeling that your girlfriend is contradictory. Don't worry, the sleek stars of the "oil pool" in the mixed entertainment circle will also encounter this situation.
In the new emotional observation reality show "Daughters’ Love 2" , a collaboration between Zhenai.com and Mango TV, Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo, who are newly married, drove off for their honeymoon trip. The joy hung on her face and couldn't hide it, Guo Biting suddenly called to Xiang Zuo to look at the beauty in the side building.
Hearing this special request silly, Xiang Zuo was a little confused, his expression had already betrayed his inner confusion, and the subtitles group intimately helped him make a small action of watching/not watching the rapid change, which can be his heart at the moment. Perfectly presented, let alone, Xiang Zuo, who looks like a "fauvist", is really cute.
However, when he was still hesitant to watch and was in a daze, Guo Biting quickly stopped him from watching and told him to drive well. Did you see the blank wry smile on Xiang Zuo's face?
I feel distressed here for three seconds.
can't help but think, are girls like this? Should they believe what they said? When is it true and when is "in-class testing"? In response to this question, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun, a model couple in the entertainment industry, have already given the answer.
In another emotional reality show "My Little Couple" on Mango TV, Lee Seung-hyun once experienced an "unexplainable" incident of being angry.
At that time, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun, who participated in the show, had a long absence at home for one day. On a whim, Qi Wei proposed to make soup for Lee Seung-hyun. Of course, Qi Wei, who could not cook, would not make good soup! I put the ingredients in and boiled, and there was no salt. I can imagine what the taste of the soup was. But after she showed it to Lee Seung-hyun, she forced Lee Seung-hyun to evaluate it according to the truth, and then became angry because Lee Seung-hyun said "a bit weak". . On one side, Lee Seung-hyun was really aggrieved, so he had to quickly start remedying.
Finally, Lee Seung-hyun had a good meal, and then Qi Wei was happy. At this time, Qi Wei gave the answer: you can only believe 70% of what the girl said, and the remaining 30%, you can think about it yourself.
Knowing women as spoiled wives, Lee Seung-hyun, if so, can you still believe what girls say at will?
To give another simple example, do you often hear girls say in life: "Am I the kind of person who cares about money?", "If I value material things, I would have gone to the rich second generation.", "I I believe that the fit of the three outlooks is more important than money.” However, according to the real data survey of Zhenai.com, , single men and women in the four sample cities of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are most valued: family background, income, talent and ability. Account. May I ask which one of these four has nothing to do with matter?
Although this result is a summary of mixed men and women, the ratio of men to women in the sampling is the same, that is to say, these four cities are the most fancy items for girls.
So, how do you tell if what a girl says is true or not? How to deal with it? Please remember the following golden communication principles:
1, stay wisely, don't say anything.
At any time, don't talk to the girl dead, so as not to overturn the car, leaving room for follow-up, it is possible to round the words back, coaxing them will not appear so stiff.
2, praise her, praise her changing the law.
Girls like to be praised by others, so you should always praise her. Asking if you look good is always hope that you praise her for being good-looking, and you can't hesitate to answer, don't be stingy, don't be shy, and be direct. If you do well in your daily life, you must praise her, the clothes you wear are good, and you must praise her. Anyway, you just change the way to praise her, and you can't go wrong with her praise.
3. Don't say immediately when she is wrong. Depending on the occasion, it is best to say when she is happy and only you two, and be tactful, and a little more tactful. . zAlthough 5z
does not have to be “right if she is right, and right if she is wrong”, you must pay attention to the occasion and the mood of the other party if it is mentioned. If it is during the Chinese Valentine's Day, because the other party is ten minutes late, it is not good to be late. Don't be late all the time, maybe today's Tanabata appointment will let you look at your indifferent face all night.
4. Pay attention to her face issues at any time.
Not only boys love face, girls also, and almost all, no girl will refuse you to save her face, or you make her feel more face.
5, look at the context, tone, expression, judge before speaking.
is the safest trick. You can judge a lot of content by expression and tone. For example, the smiling face of the other party or the smiling face that is barely squeezed out must be ironic. If there is no expression on the face, the probability is that you are not satisfied or you do She didn't want to talk about what was wrong. In short, she had to understand it like a high school Chinese reading comprehension.
In addition, if you are getting along with your girlfriend/wife, recommends doing more things similar to the "CP task" in the TV show , such as the "Between Couples" planned by Zhang Mingen and Xu Lu in the show. "One hundred things" not only increases the sense of ritual in life, gives them space to be alone, cooperates to accomplish some things, enhances mutual feelings, but also helps to understand each other’s needs and preferences. The more you understand, the better you will know How to deal with girls who don't know the truth or not.
If you have a plan to be a couple with someone, you can also invite the other person to do some "CP tasks", such as the "Zhenai Youlian Space" under the store of Zhenai.com, where the matchmaker will let the two people who come on a blind date do something together " "CP tasks" are like baking together, making souvenirs, planting trees, cooking, playing, etc., to help them increase understanding and promote feelings in the process of getting along.
So, have you learned this question?
