A person can live every day even without the N possibilities of the future-love, marriage, and childbirth. We are all alone and leave alone. The one who will accompany us forever in this life is ourselves. has a very free time alone, and you can really live a life that most people envy.
1. Cherish the current life
When I was single, I was especially envious of people with families, and felt that I wanted to have a home. Now my child is 5 years old. Although he is also very lively and lovely, but I have very little personal time. I really envy my single buddies.
I don't know if you and I are the same. I always feel that other people's lives are better. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I feel that my current situation is not good. If I change my life, I will definitely get better. I personally said that this is not the case. There are good and bad things in every life, and you need to pay a certain price. What you have is the best.
I have a lot of dreams in my life, some of them are bigger and need more energy to complete, if I always complain, I will miss a lot of happy time. Children are the most important now, fulfill their obligations as a mother, and strive to live in the present and live the life of the day.
I often ask myself, if dies tomorrow, will I feel worth it in my life? If there is no affirmative answer, I will ask myself, what else do I want to do? So, the next day I will start to do something for this idea. I am not afraid of slowness. I have hope from the beginning. If I can settle my mood every day, the possibility of happiness for the rest of my life is very great.
2. Use the checklist method to plan your life
Now many people don’t recommend the checklist method, because most people use this method wrong and write a pile of lists, but they always fail to complete, so the heart is always anxious. status. The correct way to unlock the
list method should be to use a list + accurate time estimation + priority ordering, and learn to leave it blank, don't treat yourself as a machine, and arrange it all day.
I usually fill out the list on a weekly basis, and first write down the higher priority things that must be completed and the time required, and then I will have another third of the time to avoid disrupting the rhythm. According to the severity of the incident, I will arrange it at different times of the week, but the time will be more adequate.
Transactional arrangements. When I know the specific time, I will immediately set the alarm clock on the phone, and will set a reminder one hour before the departure time, such as: children’s interest classes, fully prepare for yourself, avoid Be in a mess.
For my own study, I may arrange to complete it at a fixed time, such as: wake up early and read in the morning, even if 10-20 minutes, do it every morning, develop a fixed time and do a fixed time, the efficiency will be higher.
is particularly interested in doing things, but not too urgent, I will not put it in the list, because no matter when, you will always want to complete it. For example: headline updates, use fragmented time to learn how to make videos, or excerpt some famous quotes, I can always do it in time.
3. Constantly exploring unknown areas
A person's time will be relatively free. When there is more time, how to control is the key point. In your free time, you can read more, and you can read wisely. It is never too late to start at any time. There is a fast way of walking and a slow pace. There is no need to read too esoteric books, from the shallower to the deeper, let your interest guide yourself to read. Reading in the broad sense of
also includes watching high-quality movies, classic music, and tasting in art galleries, which can give one's life more breadth. If time permits, travel more, go farther if you have money, and play around if you don’t have money.
In Nanjing, I would like to see the architecture of the Republic of China very much. I wander around the streets and alleys. When I see it, I will stop and admire it, full of charm. Believe that your city also has unique scenery, people and beautiful things are intertwined, and the heart is always soft.
Conclusion
Zhihu saw this passage:
"I want to live a life by myself, It’s probably the feeling: I have enough freedom to control my time, I have enough courage to take on everything, and I have enough curiosity to drive myself forward.
may be that his soul is too interesting to bear to walk with the boring life. In a life like a white horse, I just want to spend my whole life passing through the world to perfect myself. "
Before, I thought there was only one journey to the end in life. When I grew up, I found that as long as you have the courage, you can choose any kind of life at . There is no absolute right or wrong.
Who has the courage to choose? The life you want, whoever can bear the result of the choice can have the most unique life.
