has been married for more than 20 years. They have depended on each other for life and death, and they have also adhered to love in the days when they were together. But when the two could finally get along day and night, their relationship was in crisis.
The quarrels in life made Ms. Wang lose her confidence in marriage, but when it comes to the culprit of hurting feelings, she is too small. Even two days before coming to mediate, Ms. Wang made up her mind to divorce because of such trivial matters as taking pictures. So why do the little things in life become a big problem in their marriage? And this 20-year love, how to find the original heart? At the beginning of
, Mr. Wang told us that his wife had filed for divorce because of the disagreement with the camera. Because of a small photo turmoil, the marriage of more than 20 years is facing dissolution. Not only is Mr. Wang unable to understand, we also find it incredible.
However, Ms. Wang told us that divorce is not a decision made on impulse, but over the years, whenever a little sesame matter is encountered, the husband will have to dig into the horns and make herself intolerable. Even when they were in love at the beginning, Mr. Wang's personality caused a crisis in their relationship.
Ms. Wang told us that when I went to Japan in 2002, because Japan does not eat spicy food, it is difficult to buy peppers in supermarkets, so I wanted to bring more peppers, but the husband just disagreed, and then secretly. He put the pepper in, and her husband took it out a few days later, took it in by himself, and her husband took it out again. I cried for a long time because of this.
Mr. Wang explained that it is more difficult for them to work in Japan. They should bring more nutrition instead of just eating chili. It is obviously not a big problem to bring chili with or without it. However, the two people talked about their own principles and each had their own strengths. Small contradictions eventually became major problems. Fortunately, the sweetness of love was enough to dilute everything.
After returning from Japan, the two got married. After living together, incidents like bringing chili peppers are repeatedly staged.
Ms. Wang told us that her husband asked her how much her family's expenses were, and then she said about three or four thousand yuan a month. Then her husband said, why don't you keep the account? So Ms. Wang said that if she didn't remember this year and then remember it next year, the husband's attitude would be bad in the end, and in the end both husband and wife were angry.
Mr. Wang told us that it’s his rule to do things seriously. What's the use of his wife’s accounting only for expenditures and not for income. The wife either does not keep it or keeps it well. Ms. Wang then told us that she did not turn on the turn signal when she drove, and the husband kept talking about himself, and when he was going to go, the husband still talked about himself.
Mr. Wang explained that his wife did not recognize her problem or admit a mistake when she did something wrong, so she entangled in this way.
I can see that Mr. Wang is a rigorous and serious person, but he has to distinguish between right and wrong in everything like this. He loves to be a horny attitude, but makes Ms. Wang who is also a stubborn temper angry. However, Ms. Wang told us because Before the husband worked at sea all year round, he would come back for two to three months a year, and the husband and wife had to bear with each other.
But since last year, her husband stopped going to sea, and the contradiction broke out completely. The child did not pass the final exam, and the husband had been struggling. He kept a straight face for several days, and finally let him go out to live in desperation.
However, Mr. Wang thinks that he just wants to be good for this family, but his wife does not understand. The core of all these problems is his wife's violent temper and uncalm behavior.
At this time, observer Wu Yun picked up the microphone. She believes that blind pursuit of perfection will not make herself and her family happy. The man should adjust herself appropriately. Observer Wen Yan told us that the nature of the man's work may determine his true personality.
After the efforts of the mediators, Mr. Wang said that husbands and wives should speak well, communicate seriously, and respect each other. Ms. Wang said that as long as the husband doesn't fight too much, it's fine. The mediation is over. I hope that after the couple go back, they will be less concerned about right and wrong and more affirmed for each other's efforts in life, so that their home will become a warm harbor again.
