reported on November 14 Huang Rihua was interviewed by Hong Kong media. This was also the first interview half a year after his wife Liang Jiehua passed away. He shared his feelings and thoughts during that period of sadness. Faced with the departure of his lover who has been with him for many years, the affectionate Huang Rihua said that he had thought about suicide and could hardly face the future alone.
Huang Rihua confessed that he had been hit hard after the death of his beloved wife. The lover of his life fell ill and passed away. Although he was prepared, he had no choice but to accept. "Every night I can't control my emotions, I feel that the whole world no longer belongs to me, my own sky is gone. I can't face myself, let alone face the future."
His wife was suddenly found to be sick, and the whole family worked hard to cope with it. Huang Rihua, who was over half a century old, looked for a doctor and used all his savings to treat his wife. He spent 2 million in just six months. And because I love my wife and don't want her to suffer the pain of chemotherapy, I chose to spend hundreds of thousands more on special medicines, but I couldn't stay with my wife for a while. At that time, Huang Rihua had to worry about his wife's illness every day. In order to make money, he would go to various places and walk around, and he lost 20 jins.
"At that time, I just wanted to deal with my wife's affairs first, and then I went to the toilet and chose to end my life, so that I would go with her, and she would not be alone there anymore."
Huang Rihua said that he had also thought about friends and family, but at that time he really had no way to convince himself. The whole person collapsed and was completely out of control. I also tried not to go out for a week, hiding in the toilet every day and smoking a pack of cigarettes.
Huang Rihua washed away with tears all day long, and even his wife was worried about leaving, asking her daughter to take good care of his father, and told Huang Rihua to live a good life. It is not easy for
to get out of the state of suicide. Huang Rihua said that fortunately, a group of his good brothers have been surrounded by him and accompanied him to play ball, and then he slowly walked out of the shadows.
Huang Rihua revealed that the third brother Miao Qiaowei deliberately took care of himself in private, and took the initiative to bring himself to his house for dinner many times, and ChenBaixiang and Alan Tam deliberately organized games to accompany him to play. "The people around me are full of positive energy. In addition to emotions, my daughter Huang Zhiqing is accompanying me, so I can slowly get out of the pain of his wife's death."
1980, Huang Rihua and wireless artist training class His elder sister Liang Jiehua met and developed into a couple. In November 1982, the two opened their relationship for the first time.
In August 1985, Huang Rihua admitted to breaking up with Liang Jiehua in July; Huang Rihua reunited with Liang Jiehua in 1987. On December 7, 1988, Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua officially married. In 1990, Huang Rihua's daughter Huang Zhiqing was born, and she has been praised by the circle as "Mr. Good."
Huang Rihua: "The first week was the most difficult. You have to get used to living by yourself, and you can't feel it at all with your relatives around you. More often, it's going to be alone and facing everything alone."
In fact, after the death of her mother, Huang Zhiqing issued a document to take care of the old man who had been with her mother for more than 40 years (referring to father Huang Rihua). Huang Zhiqing told her father Huang Rihua not to be too sad. Everyone would take this step. She believed that her mother had gone to heaven. In heaven, everyone will still meet, but she has taken a step earlier.
On Huang Rihua’s 60th birthday, her daughter Huang Zhiqing also personally made pictures of her mother before her death and gave it to her father. Now the father and daughter are out of the grief of losing their loved ones, actively cheer up their lives, and put that concern in their hearts.
(Editor in charge: Li Si_NBJ11322)
