Dear Myself Overall Rating 2020 /
Recently watched "Dear Myself", Liu Yang and Zhang Zhizhi's mode of getting along with each other, the audience outside the play was very anxious, and the two people together are simply torturing each other. There is no trace of love. . It has been said that men should have a responsibility. This responsibility is not only for you to do everything in your career and for others, but also to treat your family with all your heart, love your wife, and take care of your children. His wife Zhang Zhizhi did have a lot of minor problems. For example, she treated her children too far. In order to squeeze into the elite circle, she did not hesitate to pull Liu Yang into the water and let Liu Yang be insulted more than once. In fact, men are all face-saving people, which has actually paved the way for Liu Yang's future betrayal.
However, Zhang Zhizhi is also a big deal in marriage. The housework at home, the education of the children, as a husband, Liu Yang doesn’t have to worry at all. He just needs to finish his work, and his wife will chase him and say that it’s hard work. He is like a small grass in a greenhouse, very well protected by Zhang Zhizhi. Obviously he could come forward for many things, but he didn't. He just left the matter to his wife and let her solve it by herself. Even if his wife is angry, he impatiently says "Don't be angry", and then picks himself up. Because he has never regarded himself as a part of the family, and Zhang Zhizhi's flattering personality also made her put her own needs last, putting her husband first in everything.
In this way, Liu Yang actually knows subconsciously that no matter what happens at home, his wife will be more active in solving problems than him. In this way, he can hang up high regardless of his own affairs. Even if his mother forced two children to live, he did not have his own opinion, leaving Zhang Zhizhi to face the difficulties of his mother-in-law alone. His inaction is actually slowly destroying the family. In fact, the two of them didn't love deeply, and the foundation of their relationship was not strong. In his heart, he earns more than Zhang Zhizhi, and he raises the whole family by himself. As a woman, she should serve her family well and deal with all kinds of things at home. He doesn't care about his mother's desire for a second child,
. Anyway, he doesn't have to worry anyway. When he changed the contradiction in this matter from the contradiction between husband and wife and his mother to the contradiction between Zhang Zhizhi and her mother-in-law, he was already free. But as a husband and a son, he did not persuade the two to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Instead, the conflicts were allowed to escalate, and the family was in trouble. So at this time, he had reason to betray in a grand manner, but when Zhang Zhizhi knew about it, he made a lot of noise, and everyone knew it. Liu Yang became a joke, and Zhang Zhizhi's immature handling directly gave Liu Yang an extramarital affair.
This marriage is a failed experience, because in marriage, the positions of two people are always unequal. Zhang Zhizhi has given too much and has to bear too much, not only to take care of the work, but also to arrange the family affairs properly. As a husband, Liu Yang has a traditional machismo, and directly throws the burden of the family on his wife. He did not touch the sun with his fingers, just like an uncle, letting his wife serve him. In the final analysis, it was because he didn't love Zhang Zhizhi much. Because there is no love, I never think of having a sense of responsibility. He married a wife, married a housekeeper in disguise, and took care of all kinds of things for him, and then did his own things in peace. Never joined this marriage, never really loved his wife. There is no responsibility, no sense of responsibility, but also very good at making excuses for himself, thinking that he is the most tiring person.
Although I watched Chen Yiming finally break up with Li Siyu and settled well, they always had a hard time. After the breakup, the female protagonist was committed to a career, blacked her ex-boyfriend, and met the little wolf dog. Seeing that the little wolf dog has kissed the female protagonist, the male protagonist still has an unforgettable old relationship and is hurt by love. It is really angry at Chen Yi. Don't fight! Now the latest development is that the rich woman Wang Ziru finally launched an offensive against Chen Yiming. After this confession, I really admire her. If it started with her deliberately separating the relationship between the male and female protagonist, it made people think that she had the wit and the means, then this weak confession, and the green tea flavor is full, but the various styles are seamlessly switched, and it does not violate the harmony.
's only violation is probably our embarrassment that Chen Yiming is about to overflow the screen. Looking at his expression, I think he can pull out a building awkwardly. One second ago, he was still touting his boss in business, and the next second this boss confessed to himself with a snake and stick, which is also embarrassing. While sympathizing with Chen Yiming inexplicably, I also wanted to laugh a little, thinking that I was a devil. If Wang Ziru hadn't been arranged for such a romantic drama by the screenwriter, she would really have met the requirements of all the strong women in the workplace drama. She is smart, dark-bellied and calm and self-sufficient, and her career has become popular.
has set her down since she knew the heroine, and she was surrounded by the hostess with the face of a close sister, giving them all kinds of enlightenment and help, and at the same time set the business information she wanted, without being noticed by the two and very good to her While trusting, achieve your own goals. I have to say that the methods are also quite superb. Although the breakup of the male and female masters is mostly the problem of the two people, she can also be regarded as a contribution to her calmness in the middle! However, this does not mean that Wang Ziru and Chen Yiming are suitable together.
