Text | Sister Yi (Zhou Guiyi) Sister Shan
On July 8, the new love affair of Dong Xuan was exposed, and the other party was the actor Su Xiaoying who was 11 years younger than her.
was met by netizens in Hengdian. Dong Xuan took the initiative to hold Su Xiaozheng, as Faye Wong held hands with Nicholas Tse.
Su Xiaojing hugged Dong Xuan, the two kissed on the side of the road, and got in the car back to their residence together.
is undoubtedly a man and woman in love. Although the two of
did not respond positively, Dong Xuan has posted photos from her boyfriend's perspective on Weibo.
Su Xiaoying replied to netizens in a group of photos: "The person who took the picture is too beautiful, and everything is beautiful", which is enough to explain everything.
If it weren't for Dong Xuan, many people would not have known Su Xiaoying, after all, he is an unknown young actor born in the 90s.
Last year, the two met because of their collaboration in the drama "Journey to the West". Dong Xuan played Zixia Fairy and Su Xiaoying played Supreme Treasure.
drama rehearsal and tour take a long time to get along, and at that time, it happened shortly after Gao Yunxiang's sexual assault happened.
In a previous interview, when Su Xiaojing was reproducing the classic lines in the stage play, she suddenly turned her head to look at Dong Xuan and read the lines of "I love you" and "Ten Thousand Years". Dong Xuan's expression was very Shy, but with her eyes facing each other, Dong Xuan couldn’t avoid it, so she finally said, “Mr. Su is too affectionate and I am very touched every time.”
After "Journey to the West", the two of them collaborated again this year on the web drama "Demolition" "Some netizens speculated that Dong Xuan and Su Xiaozheng officially fell in love during the cooperation period of "The Case of Dismantling".
On the day when the relationship between Dong Xuan and Su Xiaojing was exposed, the media also revealed that Dong Xuan went to Gao Yunxiang Hotel to pick up her daughter. The two did not stage Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang's warmth after the divorce. Instead, they chose to wait at the hotel entrance to wait for the assistant to pick her daughter out. contact.
Dong Xuan, who is over 40 years old, is now a very big heroine, but her first half of her life is definitely a good girl, a good student character, almost unlike her today.
- applied for the dance department of Shenyang Conservatory of Music, only Dong Xuan was admitted;
- , the Zongzheng Song and Dance Ensemble, which had not recruited actors for ten years, suddenly went to school in the year she graduated, and she was the only one selected;
- In the first drama "Snow Goddess Dragon" shot by countless people's dreams;
- played the female No. 1 in the first drama, which made the audience unforgettable; the first time
- acted in a movie, it was with The part of Teacher Xiao Zhang in "Li Chun" won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Female Match.
- I found a good husband when I got married, and soon led a happy married life...
Her first half of her life was a standard "life winner". If it were not for Gao Yunxiang's sexual assault, she would be fully qualified. Land said: The biggest achievement so far is "finding a good husband."
In March 2018, the case of Gao Yunxiang's sexual assault was exposed. Gao Yunxiang and the producer Wang Jing were suspected of sexually assaulting a 36-year-old Australian Chinese female TV producer in a hotel in Sydney, Australia.
Dong Xuan chose to believe in the first time and said "I believe him" twice. After
declared, she immediately paid 14.65 million yuan in bail.
She immediately took her daughter and mother-in-law to live in Australia. In order to gain the trust of the court, she handed in the passports of the whole family and stated that her daughter could enroll there.
In court, she voluntarily offered extremely harsh bail conditions (Gao Yunxiang lived at home nine to five, Purchased electronic monitoring equipment worth 100,000 yuan at his own expense, and reported his whereabouts to the police station twice a day). In addition to the sky-high bail, Dong Xuan also faces liquidated damages and the freezing of 63.824 million assets.
In those days, she started to come back with all her strength while working on Gao Yunxiang's case.
She opened two restaurants and took over filming dramas, TV series, web dramas, and variety shows.
In "Uncle's House", everyone asked Dong Xuan to explain what "uncle hoof" is, and the atmosphere is awkward.
In the "Beijing Women's Guide", she was greened to grow grass on her head, and she was not hesitated to be malicious consumption.
sells more than 999+ pieces of second-hand goods in Salted Fish. From deformed Roger Vivier sandals to personal clothes, she has to hang them out. The second-hand price is more than a thousand yuan more than the first-hand price. It is ugly and doesn't care at all.
The first-line female celebrities are unwilling to accept the endorsements, and she won them all without looking. In
Xiaohongshu, she picked up a dozen micro-businessmen overnight.
In order not to miss any commercial orders, the video recommended recording location is sometimes in China, sometimes in Australia. When
sold shampoo products, she took off her hair and started to wash it. This kind of "dedication" is by no means understandable by ladies like Li Xiang.
She took over the endorsements, almost all the products are not well-known, even suspected domestic counterfeit products have come out, such as the 19.9 imitation of Japanese natto facial cleanser.
At the endorsement meeting during the heavy snow season, she wore a cool summer skirt, but said she was not cold at all.
and distributors from all over the place, be like sisters, take photos one by one, until the audience is gone, you can leave the scene, you can also smile, there is no emotion in the whole process.
, who was busy saving her husband during that time, was exhausted, and she was almost ten years old. Cai Wenji risked her death to save her husband.
After Dong Xuan held Su Xiaojing's hand, many people were puzzled. After so much effort and effort to save their husbands, they chose to divorce after being mocked by the whole network, and chose to give up?
In the impression of many people, the man he rescued desperately must be his own.
Some netizens even said: Why didn’t Dong Xuan learn Liu Tao’s "marry a chicken and a chicken, marry a dog and a dog"?
But I want to say that there is a fundamental difference between Dong Xuan and Liu Tao saving her husband. Gao Yunxiang first opened the court. , The judge declared that the semen on the pillowcase in the room and the semen in the victim’s menstrual blood were consistent with Gao Yunxiang’s DNA.
Dong Xuan was silent, but burst into tears.
cheating is always the bottom line of a relationship.
At the beginning, everyone called her "forgive the leader". When she was interviewed by "Jia Ren", she laughed at herself: In the eyes of others, what can a person with a failed marriage say about love?
In such a bloody marriage story, she chooses to shoulder everything, which is the responsibility of the wife, and she is also the most benevolent to the eight-year marriage, which is loyalty, responsibility and kindness.
Of course, he was so overwhelmed, pushed away by all the pressure, without a chance to breathe.
I think that the development of the times to this day has provided all self-sufficient women with a choice. Even this choice is equally confused and full of unknowns of "Nara leaves, where is she going". However, some people are calm. The choice is unbearable.
Her husband cheated, trying to reconcile is the subconscious of most women, not just Dong Xuan?
Tong Liya "just go home", Ma Yili "do it and cherish", Zhang Zetian "a family together is perfect", thank youXingfang is "in the same boat", and even Zhang Yuqi, a fierce woman with a knife, can choose to "share it" at the first time.
But swallowing bitter water requires great endurance and sacrifice. The process of repairing and struggling is terrible internal friction.
Those women who are self-sufficient and independent, but choose to swallow their anger and pretend that everything has never happened, what happened afterwards ? The
article was renewed, handed in a bank card, and re-proposed to Ma Yili, but in the end it was "the mirror is hard to reconcile;
Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang held hands in public, but they couldn't hide the embarrassment of their gestures.
In "The Great Mrs. Maisel", after Mrs. Maisel first learned that her husband had cheated on the female secretary, her first reaction was to choose to stay. She said that she could do better, and her father asked her to "put on him quickly." Favorite skirt" to beg her husband.
How much has the status of women improved in the 1960s and today?
Forgiving cheating husbands is not so much a remnant of women being restrained by feudal thoughts, but is a kind of fear of an uncertain future, an inability to cope with the anxiety brought about by changes, and the fear of reconstruction of life patterns.
However, when Dong Xuan finally took care of Gao Yunxiang's all sorts of troubles, in the dead of night, and when she had time to think, she would definitely see that the broken mirror was difficult to complete, and some things were already riddled with holes.
Women in marriage actually bear a lot of hidden exploitation and risks, such as fertility commitments, such as gender requirements, such as the practical meaning of making money together to support the family. If
loses even respect and loyalty in the end, and women do not rely on each other's economy to survive, on the balance of human nature, this transaction will indeed be seriously unbalanced, and it will eventually be difficult to escape.
What is interesting is that Gao Yunxiang’s circle of friends was exposed by the good guys. The latest signature is twelve words "can't put it down, can't see through, can't forget, reluctant".
We have heard too many stories about "the prodigal son hurts a woman's heart, and it's good to go home in the end". I think that the young generation in the future will absolutely love to hear the story of "I didn't cherish it in the past, but repented of everything being overwhelmed."
That is already another story that has nothing to do with Dong Xuan.
wishes Dong Xuan, no matter who she chooses in the end, who she is with, live in the fleeting moment and keep the belief that "the future will be better", because you are worth it.
