Text: Zhao Lijun
A woman with three views is like the goddess of the sea in the family. The mistress also has three views on her life and life, which largely affects whether a family is harmonious and happy, and whether future generations can be upright and have some achievement.
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A woman with three views of righteousness affects her husband’s career
Stock god Buffett once said: " The best investment in a person's life is to choose the right wife ." If your wife does not have a job, be a good helper. Take care of family affairs, take good care of family members, husband and teach children, become the strongest backing for husband, and can also realize the value of life.
is like in "The Shepherd", Xu Lingjun and Li Xiuzhi first get married and then cultivate relationships. Many people think that marriage is the tomb of love, but they have not turned into tombs, and the relationship is getting more and more harmonious. Small days are also fun.
Li Xiuzhi, a little girl in her early 20s, is smart, thinking, hardworking and capable. When she first met, she took the initiative to wash the dishes after dinner. After marriage, she was still very diligent and kept the house. He also raised a lot of poultry, so that everyone on the horse farm looked at the young girl with admiration. The appearance of
, a young energetic girl, made Xu Lingjun rekindle hope for life.
Li Xiuzhi conveyed to Xu Lingjun "Everything at will pass, life will be good, and bread will also have ", which is to express to Xu Lingjun that she can bear hardships and stand hard work and can work hard with him to live a good life. This kind of tenacity from the heart affected Xu Lingjun.
Li Xiuzhi is very grateful to Xu Lingjun for marrying herself as his wife and giving herself a home, but she doesn't know that she is also Xu Lingjun's spiritual support.
If the wife has her own job, it will be icing on the cake. Two people work hard together.
That’s why everyone often says: "Behind every successful man, there is a woman with three views."
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The mother’s three views have a subtle influence on children
all say that parents are the best teachers for children, especially It is a mother. Most families focus on mother education, and fathers are less involved in the education of their children. As the most important person in a child’s life, the mother’s present hides the child’s future, and the mother’s three views have a very important impact on the child. In
last year's popular drama " knows whether it should be green, fat, red and thin ", Wei Xiaoniang is a mother with a three-minded attitude. She is Sheng Hong's most unfavorable concubine, and she never fights for favor. Because she was worried that her daughter’s life would be difficult in the future, before she died, she specifically asked Ming Lan not to show the limelight, and left the picture of Li Niangzi guarding Niangziguan to Ming Lan, encouraging her to be independent and self-reliant like Li Niangzi and not rely on her father’s brothers. And husband son.
Minglan insisted on following her mother's teachings, not to compete in the mansion, to reduce her sense of existence, but she had a different pattern from the other sisters, and finally went all the way and became Mrs. Haoming. Ming Lan and Gu Tingye mentioned: "In this life, you can't just look at the present. My mother told me the story of the Warring States Policy when she was a child. There was a saying, ", the beloved son of parents, has a far-reaching plan for it." These words while chatting deeply touched Gu Tingye’s heart and made him not marry Ming Lan.
On the other hand, Ming Lan’s other sisters, such as Lan’s mother Wang Da Niang, are in the main house, but they are everywhere in the air as a concubine. She was spoiled and irritated. She was irritable when she couldn't understand it. Rulan was also like her, straight-hearted, and did not hide her. In the end, she found a good son-in-law and had a more comfortable life. Lin Xiaoniang was loved by her father and was in her husband. She pretended to be weak in front of her, but her heart was cruel behind her. The design killed Minglan’s mother, and she still had trouble dealing with the eldest lady. Her daughter was like a model carved from her. Designed to marry a wealthy family, her brother Sheng Changfeng, like her, was influenced by his mother’s three views, and he was a dude who only knew how to eat, drink and have fun.
is just like Zheng Yuanjie said: "The growth of a child is also a mother, but also a failure. mother. "
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all say that a three-minded woman is a familyThere is nothing wrong with these words of Feng Shui.
is a woman with three views, she is sensible, respects her elders, can educate her children, and will make a family full of humanity.
Even if the family is a poor family and has a difficult life, she can keep the house in order and give the children correct ideological and moral guidance and instruction.
Although our family is not rich, my mother always works very hard. Every day, even if I am tired, she will help me with my homework. When I lack guidance and my thinking is wrong, she will always lead me to the right path in time.
Even though her mother-in-law is bitter and mean, she has always done her daughter-in-law's share of filial piety to support her.
later asked her mother why she was wronged, she always smiled and said: "It's all over, she is also an old man." Although my mother values my studies, she never values grades. She taught me to work hard, even if the results are not. As expected, I will not blame you.
So when the big exams were on the way and the students were thinking about how to cheat, I reviewed it leisurely. I always knew that hard work would pay off. I am always grateful to have such a mother.
A woman with three views is the blessing of a family.
