"Bad Dad": Revenge and reconciliation are false propositions, family game is the truth
Text: Tian Jinshuang
Family love movie touches the softest part of everyone's heart, making people sad and crying. Looking at the screens nowadays, the film and television works reflecting the relationship between father and son are not to mention, Shao Bing and Sun Shaolong starring in "Bad Dad". It is quite interesting that this family movie card bears some guilt from the father, which is also the positioning and tone of the movie "Bad Dad".
In the upcoming family movie "Bad Dad", Xiao Dahai, played by Shao Bing, is the boss of a tea company. He usually treats his son Xiao Hanyi almost harshly. Because his son was lost in online games, Xiao Dahai was sent to a school for quitting Internet addiction. His son was beaten at the university and maimed his hands, and his dream of a professional racer was broken. Therefore, resenting his father, he chose to leave home and never recognize each other. Xiao Dahai was diagnosed with liver cancer when he was not confused. In order to gain his son's forgiveness, he began his spiritual salvation and was sent to the hospital to save his son. As a family work that reflects the spiritual proposition of hatred and reconciliation between father and son, "Bad Dad" is calm and objective in terms of its ending and intention.
There is a section in the film that is particularly touching: Before he died, Xiao Dahai told his son that he had lived in a small mountain village since he was a child, and his grandfather kept drinking local spring water. Hearing this, Xiao Hanyi cried and rushed to the countryside without a word, and personally fetched a bottle of spring water for his father. However, when he returned to his father's bed, his father had already stopped breathing. Seeing this scene, tears wet the eyes.
Some people say that the daughter is the lover of the father in the past life. On the contrary, I feel that my son is a lifetime war for my father. In the life course and spiritual realm, the two men have been fighting until the son becomes a father and understands the importance of the father's love, and then he can truly understand the father's good intentions. At this time, the male rebellion in the son can reach a loving reconciliation in front of the father, and the two can reach a consensus with each other. The relationship between Han Yi and his father in the film is like this.
Once, my father and I had such an antagonistic relationship. It was not until decades later that my father was full of gray hair and his waist was slightly hunched, and I did not understand the meaning of fatherly love. Later, when my father passed away, I found that my rebellious self had also become his original character. In the impression of
, my father has a hot temper and my character is also very stubborn. It has become commonplace to be beaten. I remember once, when I played with a neighbor’s child with glass balls, the child could not find the glass balls and said that I stole it. So, without saying anything, my father gave me a big beating in front of everyone. At that time, I didn't have much emotions, I just thought it was fun to have the ground above my head. Afterwards, the glass ball of the neighbor's child was found, and I was beaten for nothing.
I still remember that when I was in high school, I went home on the weekend, 40 kilometers back and forth, and there was a graveyard on the way. Father was afraid that I was afraid, so he sent me by bike. At that time, the frost-covered father squatted on the ground and inhaled the dry smoke. The flames were on and off, just watching me drift away. Father's love is invisible. This situation has happened countless times.
To be precise, two years after graduating from university, I chose Bei Diao and I didn't want to be a father. This is also a spiritual rebellion in another sense. It wasn't until after many years that my father was old, and I sat quietly with my father in a small shop drinking beer and chatting about what happened back then did my father smile faintly. At that time, my father was really old. One month later, his father passed away, leaving him nostalgic.
The father-son relationship is originally a war between two men. Revenge and reconciliation are just false propositions. Family game is the truth. However, as a son, you can't easily see through, and of course you don't want to see through. Until you grow up slowly, your father slowly grows old and fades away. The same is true of the expression of love in the family movie "Bad Dad". This is also the essence of the film.
