summarizes the recent gaming experience of everyone: the husband is not familiar with, the son does not go home. As an empty nester born in the 90s, he started to wait alone for a frog who is not going home.
Until you raise a frog and become a mother, you don't know how much your heart hurts when your cub ignores you. Isn't that the frog that never speaks and wanders about is you?
turned around to look at the parents in separate groups on WeChat, I was silent. Yes! I am also the silent frog in the eyes of my parents. How many young people like me, how many circles of friends do not block their parents?
Since when, we refused to share our world with our parents, we started to block them in our Moments!
is you want to fall in love early and afraid of their opposition? Or do you want to go out and be afraid of them? Is it because you didn’t study hard for fear of them nagging? You still feel from your heart that your world no longer needs their participation!
Or maybe, just want to simply not want to see their emoticons...
As we grow older, we build a wall between our parents, which seems to protect ourselves, but in fact, what separates us is family affection. The uncontrollable wave frog in the game, you are cursing the wave frog who needs to prepare dry food for him, isn't it you? After grouping
, the circle of friends is two worlds
Do you also have two circles of friends, one is chicken soup and health preservation, the other is staying up late and clubbing. We simply blocked the parents and showed 0 scenes in their lives. For blocking parents, we have 100 reasons.
and my friend from Bei Diao said, "I know my parents love me very much, but sometimes they nag and train people are really annoying!" But for parents, it's like playing "Travel Frog". The son far away is the person I want to get close to and know the most.
When talking about children and parents, I have to talk about the first family drama "Bad Dad" that was released recently at the beginning of the year. For the film, the dad who changed his online name to "BMW beauty" for his son, the silent dad dressed as a doll, is also the dad who sheltered his son from the wind and rain since he was a child, desperately trying to protect him. Xiao Dahai was struggling to enter his son's world, experiencing countless hardships. The love given by
is too heavy. You don’t like to listen. I don’t want to say
. "Children are not obedient, most of them are owed!"
"They never listen to me to say what I think, and then I won't say it anymore!"
The sentence dialogue fully summarizes the reasons why most people block parents! In the
movie, Xiao Dahai sent his son to the internet addiction school, causing the two to break completely. Since then, his son Xiao Hanyi never gave his father a chance to speak. Although the parents’ instruction is "the blame of love", it is precisely this love. Let us never dare to show our true selves to our parents again.
is hurt by the closest person, that feels the most painful! But perhaps, everyone is the first time to be a parent, in fact, they don't know how to educate their children, they don't know how to listen, and blindly impose their own opinions. The film "Bad Dad"'s in-depth visit to family affection gave both father and son a self-examination perspective.
I’m afraid that you’re worried about hiding, and I also blocked family affection
"Block them because I don’t want my parents to worry, they feel uncomfortable seeing that I’m not doing well..."
once had a video interviewing the graduates of Beidiao. They said, "I didn't know what it was like to be sick even after I graduated. I don't want my parents to know that I'm not doing well, nor dare to talk about the grievances I suffered outside."
is like your frog son, sent to you The postcard is always the most beautiful scenery, but you will never see the embarrassment of wandering alone. The days when he does not go home may not be able to buy a ticket to go home in Beijing!
But this city is so hard, maybe you really need the warmth of your parents! Don't push your parents away, accept it generously. Being too sensible makes them think that they are not needed. In their eyes, you will always be a child, and family love should not be rejected.
Just like the reconciliation between the father and the son in the movie, at the most dangerous time, only your parents can stand up for you recklessly. Give them a chance! Even if they complain about Beijing’s rent and increase prices, and work hard and low wages, at least they can feel itFeel your joy, anger, sorrow and joy.
may be that the father's love is too heavy, causing a lot of irreversible harm, maybe the "bad dad" is too radical, and he lost his son's trust. The father in the movie wanted to teach his son his own way, but made a cruel decision in the name of love. So the young man accumulated an anger and pointed at his parents with thorns all over his body. In fact, if father and son know how to love, their reunion will not be so long.
, as the theme song sings, "Draw a picture over the years, and stay with me for a lifetime." When I understand my father, I find the wind and frost in his wrinkles. That is the price of two generations of growth.
When our circle of friends blocked our parents, it also blocked their right to love you. Ask yourself honestly, do you really need them? How many people are willing to start from the circle of friends, let parents see the real you. Know each other, just like when you were young, don't let them only see you from behind.
The Spring Festival is coming soon, and it’s another new year. On February 2nd, "Bad Dad" will be released nationwide. Why not take your parents to the theater to watch the movie, take this opportunity to start to feel each other's world seriously ! How long have you not been with your parents?
