According to a Taiwan media report on June 16, Taiwanese actress Xia Yutong revealed her emotional history in an interview with the media. Judging from her description, Xia Yutong’s ex-boyfriend can be called an epic scumbag. Fortunately, she has the upper hand when facing love, and she stops the loss in time to avoid endless troubles.
Xia Yutong has a sweet appearance. She was once one of the black girls. She has participated in many film and television dramas and published her own music works. She has a good popularity in Taiwan. But the blessing of these titles does not mean that Xia Yutong's experience can be as good as she wants. In fact, she had an unbearable past with her glamorous appearance, and Xia Yutong now feels uncomfortable in retrospect.
In an interview, Xia Yutong revealed that she had a good boyfriend, but after a long time, she discovered that the other party’s goal was not herself at all. The reason why the other party wanted to pursue Xia Yutong was because he fell in love with her girlfriend, but Xia Yu Tong's girlfriend is not easy to start, this ex will "step by step": "But at the time my friend already had a boyfriend, and he seemed to get along well with me, so he stayed with me first, and then my friend broke up. He naturally comforted her.” Therefore, the reason for Xia Yutong’s breakup with this boyfriend is also obvious, but she is very decent, and finally “blesses” her ex-boyfriend: “Come on, then.”
originally thought she had a fairy love , But the cruel reality tells Xia Yutong that this is not the case. This incident gave her a wake-up call. After careful consideration, Xia Yutong discovered that the courage in the relationship also needs training: "I have a secret love for two or three years, and I have no courage to confess or cheating on the other side in my relationship. Say, I'll give you another chance." Xia Yutong may have experienced too many unreliable men, and Xia Yutong was also complained about as a "scum man training machine."
In addition to having a boyfriend who used Xia Yutong as a "springboard", she also revealed in an interview that she had suffered cheating. Xia Yutong laughed and said that she would give the other party space at first, and even forgive the other party for cheating, and then maintain the relationship, but over time, she found that this is not a sensible and feasible way, and only by stopping the loss in time can she minimize her damage. "(At the time) I wanted to know if our relationship might get better, so I couldn’t make a decisive decision, but now I can set a stop loss point when something goes wrong."
encountered a lot of setbacks in relationship, in fact, these experiences also give Xia Yutong has taught a valuable lesson, and now she is very mature in dealing with people. Xia Yutong revealed to the media that she is very good at listening. She used to be a "trash can" to receive negative energy that others confided to her. However, Xia Yutong's depressed emotions will explode in the long run: "I used to be zero to one hundred. Usually everything is fine. Sometimes it suddenly explodes. Others may think that I am emotional, but in fact it is not. I have been accumulating for a long time and my rational line is broken."
After thinking twice, Xia Yutong found the direction of self-adjustment. She also learned to talk about her emotions. In addition to writing, Xia Yutong will also communicate with her agent: "I will talk to the agent now, so he should be quite nervous when he receives my call in the middle of the night."
In life, it is inevitable that you will encounter one or two scumbags and encounter unsatisfactory things. The most important thing is to learn to learn how to eat and grow wisdom, and to understand your emotions. Although Xia Yutong's experience is not good, he has With these experiences, she made a better self through timely reflection and adjustment.
