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If you were a girl, your boyfriend would say to you:
"My dear, let's get married, but how about if we don't get a license?" What would you do?
believes that as long as a woman with a normal brain, she will refuse angrily, and a grumpy female guy might just use hands instead of talking.
"I want to marry an old lady, but I still refuse to get the certificate. Where did your sincerity go?!"
However, there is a beautiful woman who can accept it with confidence.
fits and shows affection is nothing more, marrying a man, but still willing not to get a certificate. This person
is Guo Biting.
Is this a compromise of " loves desperately " or " Cinderella enters the giants "?
, a young couple who has been contracting variety shows from the beginning of love to marriage, will 's future ending be "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai", or "One difference and two wide, each life is happy"?
This article deeply interprets the causes and consequences of the "uncertified marriage" between and Guo Biting, revealing the bitterness and helplessness behind this rich marriage farce.
-01- Married for half a year without getting a license
Recently, the first issue of Mango Channel's "Everyday Cloud Time" invited Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting to interview and record the show by way of connecting wheat. Xiang Zuo is in Thailand because of work, while Guo Biting is at home, and the two are temporarily not together. In the live broadcast of
, a question from the host of brought out an inside story that made the people who eat melons startled. The host of
asked: "What do you want to do next time (with Guo Biting) meet?"
Xiang Zuo replied: "Next time we meet, I will do what we did not do well last time... I will take our certificate to ."
When these words came out, everyone was shocked, and even Guo Biting stopped and stared at Xiang Zuo suspiciously as she was stroking the cat's hand.
told Zuotan that the two of had just held a wedding and had not yet received the certificate of .
Although Guo Biting had a sweet face when speaking to Zuo, I saw the helplessness and loneliness of a married woman from Guo Biting's a few seconds of consternation and silence !
If you can choose, which woman is willing to accept "marriage without a license"? Which woman would like to follow a man without a name? What's more,
has to be exposed in front of TV, to be reduced to talks among the people eating melons all over the country, and to endure the ridicule of other women!
I can't know Guo Biting's true thoughts, but I guess she must be uncomfortable, at least not happy.
Fortunately, Xiang Zuo's determination to obtain the certificate in time, gave Guo Biting a trace of solace, or a booster.
"Although has finished the wedding first, it still takes a good day to get the certificate, or we can go when we are both free."
When it comes to the reason for not getting the certificate after half a year of marriage, Xiang Zuo said, No time or no good days. How can
be confused by such an obvious perfunctory explanation?
is totally unreasonable. Could it be that , what's unspeakable in it?
and even many enthusiastic netizens can’t help but stand up and question:
obviously has time to organize a wedding, but you still have to wait until you are not busy to get a marriage certificate. Is it better for to get a marriage certificate than work?
Besides, how long did it take for to get a marriage certificate? Is half a day enough?
Obviously, the problem does not lie in time, everything lies in the weight of the certificate and the disparity in identities between the two parties! To understand this, needs to know the family background of Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting, as well as the distribution of benefits of wealthy marriages.
-02-The class gap between Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting
When it comes to Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting's family background, it is not an exaggeration to describe the family background of Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting.
Although we often hear a sentence, " heroes don't ask where they come from ", but before you become a hero, people treat you as your parents.
Therefore, here, it is necessary to spend some pen and ink to introduce Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting's father.
Xiang Zuo's father is Xiang Huaqiang; Guo Biting's father is Guo's father (name unknown) .
Xiang Huaqiang, whose father is the former major general of the Kuomintang, the boss of the Hong Kong gang organization Xin Yi'an. After 40 years of operation, the entire family controls almost the entire Hong Kong film and television circle. To what extent is the power of
Xiang Huaqiang? It is said that on the 70th birthday of Xiang Huaqiang, all the people with heads and faces in Hong Kong will be there, as well as heavyweights from Taiwan and the mainland to celebrate.
put it bluntly, Xiang Huaqiang's identity is: super rich + gangster.
Looking back at Guo's father, his identity is much shabby. Father Guo, just an ordinary person, feeds three children early by selling, and his identity is a hawker.
The difference between the two is not just a simple family economic disparity, it is more accurate to say that "the gap between the class ", has far exceeded the traditional marriage and love market "door to door" concept.
And the gap in class, often becomes an insurmountable gap in love.
This is like in reality, the marriage is clearly established, but the marriage certificate is on the other side of the gap, so you can’t reach it.
Everything you seem to have will always be nothing.
In August 2019, I wrote an article with nearly 1 million views, the title:
In this in-law meeting, Xiang Huaqiang still maintained the style of a big brother, did not fully take care of the feelings of Guo's father. Embarrassing scenes such as perfunctory handshake, cold-spot chat, KTV rush to sing, etc., made this father Guo, who had never seen the world, only sighed speechlessly!
A marriage with improper door and wrong household makes it difficult to have happiness. The
program makes the people who eat melons worry about the future of the couple.
-03- Benefit distribution of wealthy marriages
Guo Biting, who married into wealthy families, must first face the challenge of wealth distribution.
"Talking about money hurts feelings, talking about feelings hurts money"
Good feelings must talk about money, but the feelings of rich people often die from talking about money.
For the rich, the entanglement of money and interests is enough to ruin a happy marriage .
is the dominant party in this asymmetric marriage. Although Xiangtai likes Guo Biting very much, he is not merciful when giving gifts to her, and even the love, proposal and marriage between her son and her must be announced through his own hands. Going out, but she is still worried about Guo Biting.
is only because of a traditional concept: daughter-in-law, after all, is just an outsider!
is the same as countless netizens guessed. In her opinion, Guo Biting can be with her son Xiang Zuo, more or less because of his family background and Xiang family's wealth and influence.
So in a program, Xiang Tai also made it clear:
will not directly distribute the property to the two, but set up a trust fund for his son to ensure that they "will not die of starvation, nor will they be defeated."
In addition, Xiang Tai also denied that Xiang Zuo can be assigned to Xiang Huaqiang's property, saying that Xiang Zuo "does not need them to help" and would not give the assets to his son so early.
Xiang Tai believes that joint progress between husband and wife is the right direction for development, so she also advocates that the economic powers of Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting after marriage should be controlled separately, and family expenditures are also used in public accounts.
Although it sounds high-sounding, people with a discerning eye can see that is not worried that Guo Biting is here to divide the family property? zThe fund that 3z
prepared for her son means that Xiang Zuo cannot get the money directly, and Guo Biting has no money to get it. It is not an exaggeration to say that she is preparing for the liquidation of his son's property with Guo Biting in the future. When
got married, first thought of how to avoid the division of property during divorce. This seems to be the most common risk control method in wealthy marriages.
Now that Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo have been married for half a year, they have not yet obtained the certificate. It is difficult to say whether it is the dual insurance measures for Xiang Jia to "protect property".
-04- Written at the end
It is well known that after a girl has a wedding, it is equivalent to announcing to the world that she is already married. Once she breaks up later, even if does not receive a certificate, she is still a "divorced person" . And, from the beginning of the wedding, Guo Biting's career and drama will change greatly.
However, what about Xiang Zuo? Even if you split your hands in the future, you don't have to divide your property, you don't have to worry about carrying the label of a "divorced person", lifting your pants, patting your butt, and being unscathed, is at best just a very special relationship between the rich man.
This wealthy marriage is just a hooliganism!
Poor Guo Biting, in this improper marriage, except for a few years of life and the empty title of a young grandmother, nothing can be gained.
is willing to treat Guo Biting kindly to Zuoneng, and don't go to the chilling step. After all, a woman who is willing to agree to "uncertified marriage" has made great sacrifices and concessions herself!
No matter how rich you are, you should never disappoint a woman!
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