Zhong Nian Nian | Emotional Book Review
Zhang Ailing | Novel "The First Incense"
01.
In addition to the title of literary genius, Zhang Ailing is also concerned because of her bizarre costumes. She likes the collision of various bright colors, especially blue-green, which is the color of the skirt worn by her mother when she traveled to England.
Just like Zhang Ailing has her own unique aesthetics, almost every woman can't refuse, all kinds of clothes and different cosmetics.
Ge Weilong described by Zhang Ailing is no exception.
She is a simple female student. When she first moved into her aunt's house, she was attracted by Linlang's clothes, and she stood in the mirror and tried on quietly.
It is a woman's nature to love beauty, but she is afraid of being too obsessed with external beauty.
Ge Weilong was originally going to school, but after staying in the upper class for a long time, she found that it seemed more convenient to trade beauty for benefits.
Because they are young and beautiful, rich men can send a very expensive bracelet. Because
is attractive on the outside, it can gain the upper hand socially, dealing with men of all colors.
Once this idea takes root in the heart, then there is a shortcut to success.
Ge Weilong tasted the sweetness, so he thought about finding a good person to marry while he was young. If he continued to go to school, he still had to work and earn money after graduation. At that time he was no longer young.
Moreover, Ge Weilong's aunt has been emphasizing the importance of being young and beautiful.
——"Women, once they are thirty-four years old, they all become old ladies. If I am not bad, quiet, and careful, I will be old."
——"In the future, not only will you not be able to marry the upper class People who are in love, I don't know what field to get!"
Ge Weilong is still too young, he panicked when he heard these words, and made his determination to get married sooner. After
, she gave up her studies and chose to marry.
She is not wrong to regard her appearance as capital, but she is wrong to exaggerate the exquisiteness of the outside, taking age and appearance as a measure of her own value.
Finally she got married, but she only had a place to live for a while. Because of her lust, she loves to look at her, she pays too much attention to external exquisiteness, no matter how beautiful, it is just a shell.
Ge Weilong and Mrs. Liang are both socially outstanding, but time tends to throw people away, gray hair is easy to grow old, and when you are young, you can only be abandoned when you are old. A woman like
, no matter how good a house she lives, no matter how good clothes she wears, can't conceal the bad nature.
When a woman focuses her exquisiteness on her face and figure, no matter how exquisite her dress is, it is just "pseudo exquisiteness".
A woman's sophistication can have three levels, the gold and jade, it is the lowest level.
02.
Speaking of exquisiteness, I have to mention the famous dancer Yang Liping. At the beginning of this year,
was a hot search on Weibo because of a back photo.
If you only look at the photos, you can't tell that this is already a 60-year-old woman, but she is no different from a girl in her twenties.
Nowadays, Yang Liping is still active on the stage, dancing and swaying, without being affected by her age.
Everyone praises Yang Liping as a young girl, but little is known about her work behind her.
In order to show the best state when dancing, she insists on her eating habits all the year round, just to keep her weight within a certain range. The so-called overeating by
is nothing more than turning a slice of apple into an apple.
thinks of a friend of Yang Liping. He once said about Yang Liping’s nails. In order to show the agility of nature, she needs to keep her nails all the year round. As a result, she went out together and ate noodles.
can imagine how she finally got the meal.
As for dancing, whether she is a fledgling or famous, she insists on staying in the dancing room until early morning every day.
has her stage because of her perennial self-discipline and extraordinary self-controlThe brilliance on the scene is moving.
When a woman has a serious attitude towards life and a self-disciplined lifestyle, then no matter how long time passes, she can stay young forever.
years have never defeated beauty. The beauty here is just like Yang Liping, self-discipline, restraint, persistence and professionalism.
Yang Liping is a legend in the dance industry in my country. Why does
say that? Because she was the first to use her own strength to push a series of dances to the world, and she also created a unique brand.
's original "Spirit of the Sparrow" was created by her hard day and night practice, from action, music, and costume.
, she was born suddenly, and was defined by most people as "successful and famous". But she never gave up strict demands on herself, or in other words, she has always been passionate about what she loves.
Once others succeed, she will start to enjoy the rest of her life, but she is not. At the age of 42, she retired in spite of reproach, went to Yunnan to start her own business, and created the original ecological drama "Yunnan Image". After
, Yang Liping has become more and more popular, but she is still the same as before, not rushing, not vain, and not impetuous. She used to walk towards success step by step, but now she is standing on top of success. She has not changed anything except her age.
She still doesn't use a brand name, she doesn't do first class, and she still does her best to do her best for the performance.
When a woman knows who she is and insists on her choice, then her delicacy is well-deserved and true delicacy.
Appearance, heart, and spirit are the clues that run through a person's life. Only paying attention to appearance and taking it as the capital for survival, then the so-called exquisiteness is a castle in the sky, which can only be seen from a distance. If
is restrained in the heart, self-disciplined in life, and willing to sacrifice time and energy to settle and dormant, then even if the years pass, it can still be radiant and the face is gone, but the footprints along the way are indelible. The exquisiteness of
is the second level of exquisiteness that years cannot take away.
As for the highest level of exquisiteness, that is what Yang Liping presented after success:
-uneasy about the status quo, always growing, as long as you are alive, you will keep walking.
03.
There are many exquisite women in this world, but there are several kinds. There are Mrs. Liang and Ge Weilong who treat beauty as their lifelong capital to manage; there are also Yang Liping who have a healthy lifestyle and good habits of self-discipline. What
is rare is that he is truly the same as Yang Liping, who is always on the road in pursuit of what he wants.
It’s also easy to rely on men, and it’s easier to marry, but as a woman, you should take control of your life by yourself.
Whether you study hard or work hard, the achievements you get through these are truly fascinating.
The external exquisiteness can be the icing on the cake, but it cannot be used as the core of life. The internal exquisiteness, although it takes time to temper, will last forever and become the backbone of life. How can
achieve the highest level of refinement?
Manage your own work and life well, have your own ideas and ideas, do not rely on marriage, do not give up your career, neither force others nor force yourself.
No matter what age you are, you have the enthusiasm and focus of your youth, never give up any opportunity for growth, do not rush, dormant every day, and take your time.
Some people have a bad life and want to escape but are powerless, such as Mrs. Liang and Weilong Ge.
Some people manage their lives vividly and fascinatingly, such as Yang Liping in reality.
Why is there a difference between the two? After all, the choice is different.
A woman who has no vision, only sees a temporary rich life, while a truly wise woman has long lived herself as a queen.
I hope you are the third kind of exquisiteness, I hope you skip the mountains and rivers, and still feel worthy in the world; I hope you are rich in your spirit, even if the reality is like a mountain, your heart is still romantic as a cloud.
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