1, people grow up in an instant
In the recent hit "In the Name of Family", Ling Xiao, played by Song Weilong and , said in the play: "People grow up in an instant, only you know It’s a moment of time.”
may be a coincidence. On January 16, 2016, Song Weilong had just made his debut for a year, and his screen name was "Long-legged Old Man". He also posted this sentence on Weibo: "You believe in someone Will he grow up in an instant?" When
reached his 19th birthday, he replied to himself-"Believe".
In an interview, he revealed that his personality fits Ling Xiao very well: "Ling Xiao and I are similar in heart, but his pain is even greater." When
was asked where is similar to Ling Xiao , He said: "I am also a person who thinks a lot. I feel insecure and want to drag myself out."
Compared with Ling Xiao, Song Weilong’s childhood may have been much happier, although his family was not rich at that time, but At least he has parents and sisters who love him.
started from childhood. At that time, he was studying in a private school. He often complained that his father never came to see him, and often envied other children. They were accompanied by their parents. Perhaps from then on, he felt insecure.
later discovered that his father was mostly inferior, because the children in private schools are very rich, and Song Weilong is just a child from an ordinary family, he does not want to bring this inferiority to his children.
Song Weilong understood that it is not easy for parents at that time. He always thought that if he could grow up quickly, he could take care of his family and make money by himself, so his parents would not have to work so hard.
The future is still far out of shape, but Song Weilong, who was born in 1999, is often judged as mature beyond his age.
Song Weilong, who signed a contract with a brokerage company at the age of 16, doesn't have much ambitions for his own business, and more is to make money and let his parents live a better life. At that time, he didn't know what it meant to enter the entertainment industry and what kind of pressure he would face. He just felt that this was a glamorous job, and it was also a lucrative job. .
When he was 17, he participated in the first variety show "Everyday Upward". He was shy and shy on the stage. He didn't talk much, was quiet, and didn't know how to answer the conversation. So he laughed, smiling at everyone. The smile concealed his nervousness, and he tried hard to express his friendliness.
"If I can go back in time, I actually want to hug the self who has been laughing." he said.
2, all the gifts given by fate, have already been secretly marked the price
Insomnia has become a common meal in Song Weilong's 18-year-old memory, and the pressure of youth and fame has followed. In the year of
, he filmed "Phoenix Seeking the Phoenix", playing a lifelong Rongzhan, which is his most important leading role.
He has a clear understanding of himself. He said: "Everyone may have high expectations for me, but I am not that good. I can only work hard to study the script, observe the characters, and bite the bullet and let myself cheer, otherwise, Everyone will be disappointed."
He went to imitate those stable and powerful characters in film and television dramas and brought himself closer to the role.
He will quietly go to Weibo to turn over comments amidst doubts, and he will be moved when he sees fans' encouragement.
later said in an interview: "The biggest shortcoming of the first two years was nervousness. I could forget words, care too much about the surrounding eyes, and fear that I didn't do a good job so that everyone could do it all over again."
yearned to be recognized and thought. Try to do your best, prove yourself to the audience, not let the fans down, and give yourself a perfect answer.
In an interview with "Very Close", when asked what is the difference between being a star and before, Song Weilong talked about his young friends.
His eyes were slightly wet and he said in a sense of loss: "We used to hang shoulders and shoulders in school, play hide-and-seek in the middle of the night, were caught by the teacher, and bought instant noodles for one person. After returning from fame, the first thing they asked me was , Can you ask for an autograph? It’s just that I’m very disappointed, I don’t know to blame them, but this feeling is the feeling that I can’t go back. I said I’m very lucky, why are you slowly unhappy?z
Perhaps Song Weilong is lucky. He debuted at the age of 16, and soon appeared in the leading actor. He became famous when he was young. This is a life that many people cannot envy.
But his youth is missing. Others’ youth is spent on campus. The 16-year-old boy is playing basketball on the court, sweating, arrogant and arrogant, and he shoots the plane every day, rushes to the announcement, shoots in various crews, and bears this age. The pressure to bear.
"People grow at different speeds, and the direction they move forward is also different."
Friendship is a little broken by the distance of reality. Friends for a lifetime can never be met. Some friends you think are good, often can only Stay with you for a while, after all, you will have to go alone.
Adult communication is no longer as pure as before. Everyone starts to have their own life. Family is no longer carefree. The older you grow, the more lonely, friendship has become a luxury.
"I am a very passive person, I am afraid to disturb others, but I hope that others are willing to contact me."
3, growth is a compulsory course in life
On his 19th birthday, he said to himself: "I don't want to be mature Adults, if you want to understand things and keep your childish innocence, you want to live peacefully with the night, reconcile yourself and reconcile with the world."
Song Weilong at this time has become very proficient in dealing with reporters' various problems, and is no longer as at a loss and at a loss as when he was 16 years old. . For him it was trained. After experiencing some things, the
person will gradually become mature and no longer immature. After two years of training, he has also improved his acting skills.
Song Weilong said: "I think acting is a cumulative thing. Now that there are more films, there will be a lot of experience and my own feelings mixed together, to achieve better."
time is lost, he also Progressing little by little, maybe everyone grows like this. Before they can react, they grow up quietly.
Song Weilong likes Nezha and Monkey King, and especially likes the phrase "My life is up to me."
also dreamed of acting as a hero like Monkey King. So when he was nine years old, he firmly chose to go to Shaolin Temple in Henan to learn martial arts. He got up at four in the morning, did morning exercises for two hours, had breakfast at six, and continued to practice. Except for lunch and evening meals, he practiced until ten at night. half. The high intensity and monotonous repetition of
every day, although Song Weilong had the idea of giving up, he was quickly strangled in the cradle.
"I decide by myself, say no, that's so shameless!" Maybe it's self-esteem, but it's more of a love of martial arts.
In 2020, Song Weilong will participate in "A Longing for Life". The other guests are touching dogs, picking vegetables, and living a peaceful life. Song Weilong took the ball and started a race with a few dogs in the yard. Picking up the stick anytime and anywhere to play, jumping and jumping, the happy bear kid looks like a primary school student with ADHD, and since then he has the title of "idiot handsome".
He is sometimes naive, often searching for his own name, and he is very concerned about whether his fans have other walls. A little narcissistic, but I am afraid that fans only like my face. I don’t post Weibo all the year round. I often post selfies and don’t know what to say. I especially like to delete Weibo in seconds. Fans did not like and comment the first time he posted on Weibo, but took a quick screenshot, because the Weibo might be gone in the next second.
Growing up is the only way for everyone. In Song Weilong, we can actually see our own shadow. He was especially naive when he was young and realized that life is not easy until he grows up.
may have fallen, thought of giving up countless times, and even felt very confused in the future, but still believe that everything can survive, and eventually you will become that outstanding self.
Song Weilong is walking on this road, I believe he will go further and further in the future. I hope that while you grow up, you also retain your childlike innocence and remember your original appearance.
text|Xiaoxi
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|Wen Dao Mu Zhi Nan
